Three life inspirations behind the ferrule

? As a street game that is often played in summer, Challenge is deeply loved by people. Regardless of adults and children, you will see adults and children holding piles of rings in busy squares and busy streets, aiming at the gadgets they want, taking pains to aim at the targets and throwing them out one by one.

In a sigh, some people are lucky and know the skills of returning home with a full load, while others are close at hand, and the circle bounces aside and "misses".

? In order to attract your attention, people in the ring often shout "pass by, don't miss it, spend a little money and have fun". Watching the fun, like to get together is a common problem of people now, and at one time others are crowded with blood.

? Not only do children like gadgets with different shapes very much, but even some adults can't stand the temptation of "seeing their luck and trying their luck", so they are eager to try and take out money to buy a "circle" to show their talents.

No, I played this little game with my children at Nanhu Night Market on Tanabata. A person, a circle, looks at the gift in your heart and throws it out. Always a little lucky. I've put it on, but it always bounces off because of its elasticity. The small flame that ignites hope in my heart is always extinguished.

Simply put the target a little farther away and try again, and the result is still the same, still can't hit. In the end, we got zero points, and the store was very friendly, specially letting us choose in the first three rows and giving us a consolation prize.

It is precisely because of this "ring" game that there are three kinds of life insights:

0 1 Life needs a sense of ceremony, and a bright lamp is needed in ordinary days.

? I have heard a good answer: "Ritual sense is the sweetener of life".

? Why are there so many festivals in China? I just want to remind you that life is not only dull, but also wonderful to be recorded. Even in plain days, we should look for tenderness hidden in life.

? Even if you cook noodles and sprinkle some onions, it's like facing a mediocre life. Don't forget the original scenery because of the busy life.

? In fact, the sense of ceremony is not how much money you need to spend or how many tricks you play. The most important thing is to express our respect and love for life.

? All festivals are not for gifts, but to remind us not to forget to love and be loved. Life needs a sense of ceremony. A serious life is the best sense of ceremony. You come against the light and deserve all the beauty in this world.

Positive feedback in life allows you to persist after getting a surprise.

Why do so many people like rings? This is the same as playing games. There is randomness and uncertainty. I wonder how your next efforts will end for you.

? Psychologically, it is because people prefer positive feedback. If you work hard, good results will appear. If good results appear, you can continue to give you feedback to keep you going.

? The same is true of children's study. If children think hard about a math problem and finally work out the answer, there is no doubt that the correct answer is positive feedback, which makes children prefer to study math problems.

? Another example is losing weight. If you exercise every day and see that your weight has dropped again, then you will continue to exercise. If you exercise for half a month and your weight hasn't changed, will you exercise again? Obviously not. Losing weight every day is a positive feedback to encourage you to continue exercising.

? If you get a small object you like in this hoop, it will inspire you to be more excited when you throw a hoop, make your body produce more dopamine happy hormones, make your body happy, and at the same time, it will inspire you to move forward towards greater goals.

Don't jump to conclusions until the last minute.

Although we didn't get anything in the ring game, we were full of joy when choosing the first three rows of gifts. Because we can choose our favorite one among many gifts.

? Imagine that a small object in your collection is the result of accidentally bouncing in a circle. What you like is the small object next to it. Will it be a little lost? After all, what you like on the set is not your own.

? Unexpectedly, if you don't win the prize, the merchant will give you a chance to choose one of the many small gifts that you like. Although you lack lucky chips, it is also pleasant for you to choose what you like.

? Don't jump to conclusions until the end, maybe life will put the sweetest candy in your mouth at the end. In this process, you only need to feel the process with your heart, and the result will definitely surprise you.

Life is like a ferrule. Every time I throw it in my hand, I don't know what kind of return it will bring. If you arrange your life according to the rules, you know the final result, and I believe you will not have enthusiasm for life.

Just like watching a TV series, the plot you can't guess is more intriguing. Just like The Truman Show, we don't want to live a planned life.

? Life, very dull, is meaningful only because you set up a sense of ceremony; Life needs feedback, because every feedback will drive you to strive for better results; Life is uncertain, and in the unpredictable ending, what we always have to do is to live this moment well.