What effect does a poor family have on a person's character?

Affect their own views on marriage and love, easy to be pessimistic and insecure. Many people say that children's happiness is given by their parents. If parents can't give their children a very rich material life and let them worry about money from an early age, it will inevitably affect their views on certain things, and even make them have a certain shadow all their lives. Poor children will be more independent if they take charge early, but poverty will also have some negative effects on children.

First, affect the concept of marriage and love.

Some children have seen their parents' poverty all their lives, and they bear the sense of insecurity brought about by poverty. So they don't want to get married, have children, and have no sense of belonging. They just want to float alone. The first thing I think of when I get married is that my quality of life will be reduced, and then I have to make do with it and live a life as resentful as my parents have no love. If you have children, the children will suffer with you, and there is no way to bring them great wealth, thus entering an infinite cycle of poverty.

Second, it is easy to produce pessimism.

Because I have never experienced the life I want since I was a child, I always feel sad. Seeing that others are happy every day, I will occasionally be jealous and complain why God is so unfair and makes me so poor, while others can have everything. Because I am poor, I don't want to communicate with others, for fear of exposing my poor nature. So I often stay alone and stimulate my sensitive nerves with other people's happiness.

Third, there is no sense of security.

Because there is no money, I usually do things carefully, I am more worried about what I will lose, and I will pay more attention to risks. Because it takes a lot of courage and confidence to face the consequences of failure, I will live a pessimistic and fearful life every day and feel very unhappy.

Many people are complaining about poverty, which makes them lose confidence. However, everything can be changed and we must learn to live in harmony with poverty.