A woman who marries such a man will be very painful after marriage.

What kind of man does a woman marry, and it will be miserable after marriage? In marriage, what kind of man will a woman be unhappy with? What are the reasons for unhappy marriage? As a woman, do you know what kind of man can't marry? Let's see what kind of man a woman marries. Life after marriage will be miserable!

Girls must be careful to marry men who blindly follow tradition, or they will be miserable after marriage.

Now is the era when young people dominate the world after 90 s and 00 s. People pay special attention to the three principles of "equality, respect and tolerance" in interpersonal communication. However, because some children's parents are deeply influenced by traditional family education, the old ideas passed down from generation to generation will still affect the thinking mode of parents and even young people more or less. Therefore, young men who stick to tradition may not be extinct, and a correct understanding of bad habits is also very important for building a harmonious marriage relationship.

In fact, in the relationship between young men and women, girls pay special attention to whether they have that kind of love for men. Therefore, they don't like men who are too strong and traditional. In other words, women don't like men who are shrouded in old traditional ideas, especially men who stick to tradition and don't know how to keep pace with the times, and they are even more reluctant to get married.

First of all, a wife should cook, wash clothes and take care of the children at home.

Under the influence of traditional conservative thoughts and male chauvinism, it is natural that "men dominate outside and women dominate inside". Women not only have to work to earn money, but also do all the housework when they go home. This concept of male chauvinism is deeply rooted in the minds of China people.

Some men are idle by themselves. Even if their wives are busy, they can still enjoy their own tea and read newspapers without any guilt. On the contrary, they feel at ease. Open your mouth to eat and reach for clothes.

Second, my wife should do whatever I ask her to do.

Both men and women are founders of historical civilization, but except in matriarchal society, women's status has always been in a lower position.

In ancient China, women were bound by "three obedience and four virtues". What are the "three slaves": "slave, slave, slave"; "Four virtues": "Remember your birthday, know your mind, be willing to spend money, and endure being beaten". But a deep-rooted influence is subtle, that is, the wife is a tool to vent desire, and the housework machine is a manifestation of inequality and disrespect.

Third, my wife should tell me everything.

What women hate most is that men care about everything, not only the opposite sex they come into contact with at work, but also the people they usually come into contact with. No matter what their wives do, how many gifts their friends send, when they go back to their parents' house to get those things, how much they spend on clothes, and what others say in their lives, they'd better report to men. They must control their freedom and never hide it. Wives should have no secrets. She can only be a follower in life at most. She did something wrong. She can scold if she wants, and fight if she wants.

Fourth, a wife should always be chaste and widowed.

Most very traditional men have virgin plots. They always think that the wife who marries home should be a virgin, preferably the first love, so that he can be the only man in their hearts, so that she can't have any thoughts on Feifei. Of course, there can be no infidelity or infidelity, and she dare not even think about it.

Don't laugh when talking to male colleagues, keep your distance and don't chat alone. Men are not allowed to remarry after their early death. They want widows, serve the elderly and raise children.

Fifth, regardless of her husband's family background, a wife should take full care of her husband's family.

As a traditional and old-fashioned man, he always thinks that his married daughter is a compliment. Marry a chicken with a chicken, a dog with a dog, and a monkey with a mountain.

In feudal society, men are superior to women. The wife who enters the door should have nothing to do with the family and the property at home, so she is no longer a family member. Even if you go back to your mother's house, you must ask your husband's consent in advance. From the moment a woman walks in the door, she can't take care of her family's affairs, or she will eat and crawl.

Of course, China's traditions need to be passed down and carried forward from generation to generation. But excellent traditions can be passed down from generation to generation, and some traditions with strong feudal consciousness do not need to be adhered to. A man who is shrouded in old traditional ideas and doesn't know how to keep pace with the times is definitely a man who is excluded from marriage by girls.

What kind of men do women not marry?

1, extremely selfish, everything is my own gain and loss.

I may not know each other at first, but after a period of love, I should know each other's personality. A man who is extremely selfish and always takes his own gains and losses into account is necessary.

For example, he usually seems to be very kind to you, but when it comes to key issues involving his own interests, he will immediately turn his face and completely ignore your respect. You'd better kick this man before it's too late!

2, no sense of responsibility, do not want to bear the basic responsibility of men.

Fear of marriage Men who just want to fall in love and don't want to get married are usually irresponsible men. They are eager for the feeling of love and like to have sex with girls, but they don't have the courage to bear the burden of family. Even if you have been in love for many years, he just doesn't mention getting married. Even if you do, he will find all kinds of excuses to prevaricate. For such a man, for whatever reason, he doesn't want to be responsible. Being with such a man is a waste of youth.

3. Lack of self-confidence, for fear of not being able to guarantee each other's happy life.

There is also a man who may love you very much, but suffers from no money, no car, no house, and even no progress in his career. He is always worried that he can't give you the life you want. This kind of man may be kind. If we can cure his fear of marriage mentality, everything will be fine. But if all you meet is a man who wants to play with you but doesn't want to marry you, it's better to end it as soon as possible.

An extremely selfish man, a man with no sense of responsibility, and a man with no self-confidence, these three men are unfortunate no matter which one they marry. If you marry the wrong person, a woman's life will be in dire straits, so don't choose these three kinds of people when you get married.

Attention, ladies! Such a man will never get married.

1. A cool and deep person

They often look inexplicably miserable and cynical. This kind of man is unacceptable. In fact, they live in a miserable world full of self-righteousness, suffering from death and pursuing a realm that will never be obtained. When they get along with women, they are always at arm's length, making them miserable. They are good at deceiving women who are eager for vigorous love, but this kind of love is only a flash in the pan.

2. A man who pursues his career excessively.

Men with careers and status are most favored by women, but if they attach too much importance to their careers, they will often sacrifice their personal feelings and choose women who can help them in money, power and ability. This man who pursues his career excessively is qualified to choose a spouse, and it is impossible to really get into trouble with his partner.

3. A "prodigal son" man

They are well-connected and have no intention of staying with a woman for life. However, "men are not bad, women don't love them", and many women who don't believe are always eager to tie them up with true feelings or pure feelings, which is just wishful thinking.

4. People who discriminate against women

They like to snore, and they look like "a gentleman has no wife". If this man is like this on the surface and you really love him, then compromise and safeguard his dignity; If that's what he is in his bones, it will be miserable to be his wife.

5. A smooth talker

This kind of man's sweet words and false compliments to every woman make people feel goose bumps and insincere. But many girls like it, and they are secretly complacent when they are drunk. It is not bad to associate with such men at ordinary times, but it is not good to take their words too seriously.

6. A man with many female friends

They take care of every woman like a good person. Whether there is a true friendship between men and women needs to be discussed, but if he takes care of every confidante or good sister in every detail, there is no doubt that you will have no leisure time. Try it if you don't believe me.

7. Men who pay too much attention to their own image

Wearing grand clothes, always comb your hair three times and look in the mirror three times before going out. On the surface, he is trying to please women, but in fact, the person he cares about most is himself, and he is selfish and rarely takes care of women's feelings.

8. A man with Oedipus complex and feminine taste

This kind of man had too much contact with his mother when he was a child or too little love from his father, so he relied on his mother for everything when he grew up. They lack independent consciousness, poor adaptability and lack self-confidence in doing things.

Because I love my mother too much, my behavior and psychology have become feminine, which can be seen from my appearance and preferences. For example, they like to wear soft cashmere fabrics, love whispering, hate sports and watch TV dramas. When you associate with such a man who lacks masculinity, you will not only feel that he is not like a man, but also feel that you are becoming less and less like a woman.

9. An ambitious but talented person.

This kind of man is too ambitious, pursuing a perfect life and a successful career. Therefore, according to the expectations of the society, they arrange their lives to the fullest, never miss work, make friends and have fun, and all want to be at the forefront of the trend. But often they lack connotation and real talent, so many things fill their time and give you the illusion of a successful man. If you live with him for a long time, you will find that he is just a fake good man and will never achieve anything in his life.

10. Sloppy artist

This kind of man is very talented and imaginative, and often becomes an artist admired by everyone. They feel unique, and their actions and thoughts are very different. But they don't pay much attention to their appearance, perhaps because they want to show their uniqueness, long hair, rags and long time without taking a shower; And they are so focused on artistic creation that it is easy to ignore your existence. Living with him, you often feel that this is not a real life, and you can't accept his ideas at all, let alone change him.

What kind of man will a woman be happy when she marries?

1. A man who knows how to cherish you.

The man who knows how to cherish you is the man you will eventually marry. He will tolerate your small shortcomings and even understand your difficulties. Such a man really makes people feel warm, and he can drive away your bad mood from time to time. He can hold you to sleep and make you a pillow. It's not too cold in winter and not too hot in summer.

2. Men with social experience

A man with social experience can always make some constructive suggestions in your life. He will tell you the truth of life and help you make the next road go smoothly. He can help you, he can discipline you, he can tell you how to control yourself. When you meet unhappy things, you won't cry endlessly when you are with him. He can touch your head like a father, gently say he loves you, and then never leave you again.

3. People with stable personalities

You live a normal white-collar life from nine to five every day. You understand each other's difficulties. Although we can only be together after work, I feel sorry for your hard work. You go to the bank hand in hand and save your monthly love savings for your future baby. Open your flute, look at the decimal point in the passbook, and be satisfied with your small achievement.

4. A man who knows how to take care of you

Women menstruate for several days every month. At this time, if she knows how to take care of you, she will wash your underwear, cook and wash dishes for you and never let you work hard. Take care of all the housework and give you a wonderful holiday. Provide you with food and clothes. Even if you are good, you should serve your Lord twice, and you will still admire how wonderful life is!

5. A delicate man

A delicate man will remember your anniversary, birthday and so on. He won't let you down on any anniversary, let alone forget it. When you do well, I will occasionally give you some encouragement. Buy something you have been longing for and give it to you as a reward. Let your family and friends appreciate his excellent observation. I will giggle and be shy and silent, but I'm actually quite calculating. I always take out novels to pay attention to ghosts and ghosts.

6. Self-motivated people

No matter how much money they earn, as long as they are self-motivated, such men will not be too bad in the future, and their sense of responsibility and motivation will encourage them to work hard. Even if the salary is pitiful, you can still use the rest of your time to develop a sideline. As long as you two are together, even if you go fishing in the sea, you will feel very romantic.

These are the men that women don't want to marry. As the old saying goes, men are afraid of getting into the wrong business and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. For married women, it is the highlight. Once you choose the wrong person to marry, you will regret it for life. Just facing two parents, public opinion and lovely children, it is not easy to say that divorce is not easy.

Conclusion: Through the above introduction, do you know what kind of men and women will be miserable after marriage? As a woman, we must know our marriage partner very well, so as to avoid the tragedy. Don't wronged yourself for those so-called conditions. If you marry a man you don't like, you will regret it all your life!