Couples sleep left and right position have to pay attention to the male left and female right and there is no regulation or standard answer

Couples sleep left and right position is concerned? There is no rule or standard answer as to who sleeps on the left and who sleeps on the right between husband and wife, it varies from person to person. But my husband prefers to sleep on the right, so I basically sleep on the left. However, there are a few points that you can understand!

First, about the husband and wife sleep on the left side of the man and the right side of the woman.

In fact, the idea of male left and female right was popular in ancient times, because it was a patriarchal society, so the status of women is generally lower. Generally at the time of burial, in order to reflect the high status of men, the male owner is buried on the left side, while the female owner is buried on the right side.

So when you watch TV dramas, you will usually find that when the emperor walks, his subjects follow on the right side. Including some real photos from the Qing Dynasty, family photos of official families or dignitaries, all of them have the man on the left and the woman on the right.

However, in the modern world, men on the left and women on the right are basically meaningless and groundless. For example, we usually wear watches, rings, and so on, all according to the man to wear the left hand, the woman to wear the right hand, which is not necessarily correct. This is not necessarily true. This also applies to the restrooms in shopping malls or on the street, where men's restrooms are on the left hand side and women's restrooms are on the right hand side. These phenomena are just the concept of genetic problems, and is not appropriate, after all, now are talking about equality between men and women, there is no longer the case of male superiority or female inferiority.

So for couples to sleep, who is on the left and who is on the right, we simply do not need to follow the guidelines of male left and female right.

Secondly, when couples sleep, whether the woman is on the left or on the right generally depends on the man.

On this point, perhaps single women do not quite understand, not clear why.

Take myself as an example, I personally don't care if I sleep on the left or right side. But my husband prefers to sleep on the right side, and he likes to put his right hand or right leg on me when he sleeps. If he sleeps on the left side, he will toss and turn as if he can't sleep without his right hand or leg resting on something.

Similarly, if a man likes to sleep with his left hand or left leg on his wife, the end result may be that the woman will sleep on the right side, and the man will sleep on the left side. In short, it is still mostly up to the man to decide which side the woman sleeps on when the couple sleeps.

Third, women actually prefer to sleep inside.

First of all, when couples sleep with each other, and then tough girls also have a kind of birdie mentality. Always feel that sleeping inside will have a sense of security, especially when sleeping alone.

Secondly, there are many benefits of sleeping in it. For example, when you are hungry, you can command your husband to take snacks; when you are thirsty, you can command your husband to pour water or take a drink; when your child stirs the quilt, you can command your husband to cover the quilt. Especially in winter when the weather is cold, in case the living room lights forget to turn off, it is certain that who sleeps on the outside of the bed, who turns off the lights ah!

Finally, sleeping inside is not easy to be woken up, you can sleep more. If you sleep on the outside, the husband in the inside when you get up and get dressed, winter easily lead to the nest into the wind, the husband out of bed but also across the outside, the bed creaking. Hubby got up, you also sleepy.

Fourth, which side of the outlet sleep which side.

Modern people like to play with the phone before going to bed, often looking at the phone is out of power. For the sake of convenience, we generally like to charge while playing the phone (not recommended). So sometimes sleeping on the left or right depends on which side the outlet is on!

Summary

There is no such thing as sleeping on the left or right side of the bed. But most women will prefer to sleep on the inside, preferably with an outlet for charging their cell phones!

Between husband and wife, sleeping is a big deal! Not a small thing, and sleep on the left, or sleep on the right, is not the point. The point is that when the two couples sleep, there is no cuddling.

If you sleep back to back, there should be a serious problem. Why?

The only way for a couple to sleep is to cuddle. And as for who sleeps on the left and who sleeps on the right, that's just feudal superstition male left female right.

The key is that the two mouths can be heart to heart, mutual tolerance.

Usually the man should sleep on the outside, the man is the guardian of the flower, the man to protect the woman is natural.

I have a friend, he has been married since, night and night with his wife and embracing sleep, the second half of last year, his wife refused to give him a hug, said that the comfort of the hug, and then he carefully observed his wife's every move.

Finally, one day, he found that Yan Yan's wife took a phone call and went out, his wife is to drive an electric car out of the door, the friend immediately open their own car far away from the followers.

He saw his wife in front of a hotel, parked the electric car, two minutes later a man came over, the two seemed very close, the two went in, the friend walked up to the name of the hotel with a cell phone photo, and then go home.

Later that night, his wife went home, the friend filed for divorce, his wife asked why the divorce, the friend will have a picture of the sign of the hostel to her to see, his wife silently bowed his head?

I have a habit of my own, is to sleep at night without holding his wife can not sleep, his wife will sometimes say: you old pervert, are more than 50 years old, but also learn young people flow, I just laugh.

Wife also mentioned the split room to sleep, but I strongly disagree, told her that it is impossible. Because only the two mouths sleep together, the wife did not have the opportunity to derail.

Look at today's couples in different places, how many derailed, this is a painful lesson ah!

My wife and I are not divided, sometimes I sleep on the right sometimes she sleeps on the right, because our bed is placed in the middle of the room, there is space on both sides, just like the hotel beds are arranged.

I remember when I got married and did not have my own house, living outside in a small room of a dozen square meters, the bed can only be placed in the corner, I generally sleep on the outside, I have the habit of getting up at night to drink water, in order not to affect my wife, I sleep on the outside is more convenient to sleep on the left side, when I lived in the urban village, there are often thieves burglarized the phenomenon of burglary.

I sleep on the outside, but also have the meaning of protecting his wife, if in case the thief comes in, the first thing to face is me, this kind of thing certainly did not happen, just to prevent it.

Then there is a child, the child sleeps in the middle, the child is small, often crying at night, I in order to let them mother and child better rest, take the initiative to rest on the side of the sofa.

Later, we added a crib for the child, we just slept together, I sleep on the left, she sleeps on the right, it has always been like this, and occasionally we will switch positions, there is a new feeling.

If it's colder in the winter, then we are just leaning in tighter, and the two of us squeezed together to sleep in the middle, and feel at ease and reassured. Even though we are an old married couple, and some people our age are in separate beds, we still sleep together and have gotten used to it, and sleeping apart is not at all uncomfortable.

My wife said that if I don't sleep in the bed and hear me snoring, she can't sleep at all, and is already used to two people sleeping in the same bed***, it's hard to change. We often say a sentence a hundred years to repair the same boat crossing, a thousand years to repair the *** pillow sleep? The meaning of the words is that two people do a hundred years of good things before the opportunity to be in the same boat, after a thousand years of good things to do, it is possible to sleep in the same bed ****.

Description of the two people become husband and wife, the same bed *** sleep is very difficult, is not so simple, one day husband and wife a hundred days, a thousand miles of marriage a line, have feelings of husband and wife, in order to a hundred years of peace, two people heart to heart, always the same, they can not be separated in their lives, husband and wife have deep feelings, both sides of the deep love into the bone, but also to make others envy and praise. The couple's deep affection and deep love for each other is also enviable and praiseworthy to others.