Parents' reading experience

When you finish reading a famous book, you must have a lot of insights worth sharing, let's write a good reading tips, your harvest and feelings recorded it. How to write a reading experience to avoid writing into a "running account"? The following is my organization of parents reading tips (generic 9), just for reference, we take a look at it.

Along with the child grows up day by day, as a parent, in the enjoyment of the joy of the child's growth at the same time, we feel more is confused. The process of education is to keep trying, the process of exploration, and not to talk about any experience, just some experience in the process of educating children, and share with you.

The book is the best friend of mankind, the benefits of reading do not need to say more, but to cultivate children's good reading habits, but it is not an easy thing, it is a gradual process, there is no rush. It is said that the child is a mirror of the parents, the child's words and deeds, all reflect the shadow of the parents. Using your own hobby of reading to cultivate your child's love of reading is the most effective way to stimulate your child's interest in reading and to cultivate your child's reading habits. Parents are children's role models, is real, visible and tangible, with them the same call **** inhalation of role models, so parents should be guided by good advice, physically, including parent-child **** read, but also at any time with the content of the book to exchange and communicate with the experience of reading books, so that you can deepen the impression, to promote understanding. At the same time, for the child to create a family book environment. Reading is a good way to leisure, especially the whole family reading atmosphere, it is wonderful.

Now, our children have entered the second grade of elementary school, they began to have a desire for the need for knowledge, their minds are open, they have a longing for the deepest fantasies of the mind. Once you have developed a good habit of love of reading, it is the same as installing a growth engine in the child's heart, the child's future power of growth will be endless, which will sow the seeds of happiness for the child's life, so let's read with our children!

In this book, the authors believe that the role of education between relatives to give full play to the family members to create a harmonious, democratic and loving family and environment, mutual respect, mutual understanding, mutual humility, so that members of the family to feel warm and comfortable, so that the child has a certain amount of space to study, complete with learning tools and a good learning environment, to promote their interest in learning. To regulate the child's behavior, strict requirements, strict to achieve reasonable requirements, both in line with the actual situation of the child and to facilitate the child's physical and mental health, the requirements must be appropriate for the child, after efforts, can be achieved, the child's requirements must be clear and specific, but also to supervise the child to do seriously, can not be said not to count. Love children's motives and effects to be unified. Love and teach, in love with the child so that the child understands the love of parents and love for others.

Parents' reading experience 3

What we give is real love? The love we express is more about fear, control and anxiety. Adults are wrapped up in their own emotions and unconsciously turn their children into that emotional outlet. When a child does not do well in school, many parents say, "Why did you do so poorly? Are you not serious in class? Weekend is not allowed to go out to play, hurry up to make up for the lessons ...... "In the face of the same problem, there is another expression: read a good book will be able to let the restless heart calm down. If there is a book does not have a thrilling plot, but there is a shocking force, then this book must be Helen. Keller's "If you give me three days of light". This is a book with tears, laughter and enlightenment. After reading this book, I clearly saw Helen's growth trajectory. While sympathizing with her for her disability, I was also impressed by her tenacity and persistence. After reading this book, the most important thing to learn, without a doubt, is the author Helen's strong will quality. If an ordinary person has one-tenth of Helen's quality of will, a lot of things that we do not even dare to think about will become a reality that is just around the corner. Think of their own encounter difficulties on the retreat situation, in front of the great Helen, really small.

Parent reading experience 4

By chance, a friend recommended the book "Decoding Adolescence" to me. It coincided with the epidemic, and I had nothing to do, so I flipped through it, and I was y touched! Although my child is only ten years old, a long epidemic winter vacation, and children close to the night and day, the book's point of view deep proof: avoid the trap of love, meet the rebellious youth.

Parents are the first teacher of children. Therefore, the child to raise without parenting, stopping at food and clothing, will only fall into the "comfortable trap". As a parent, can not daily cell phone as a companion, in order to children need to pick up the textbooks, do children to learn the knowledge of the sea, do children's role model, accompanied by children *** with the growth. Just a few days of vacation, they relaxed, the child followed the homework will not do. Slowly feel that this does not work, so the child and the child *** with the writing of holiday essays, *** with the gnawing OU textbooks, but also to overcome the problem of mute English with the child to read aloud. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots, and you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.

The love of parents for their children is selfless. Therefore, ignoring the child's shortcomings and not making rules will only fall into the trap of blind recognition. During the holidays, let go of the hands of spoiled, with the school's initiative, for the child to develop the rules of work and rest, so that the child and classmates together, to help parents mopping the floor, wash the dishes, do a variety of household chores. Let the children learn self-discipline, learn to share, and promote the formation of a sense of social responsibility.

Rebellious youth is the budding of the child's sense of independent action. Therefore, the child's growth of over-protection or over-restriction, will only fall into the "control of the trap". Parents have to let go of the shackles, to fully trust the child, let the child to struggle, let the child to put forward opposing views, to guide the child to form a correct judgment of right and wrong. As a parent, I was particularly pleased to see the two programs of group study and debate during the epidemic period of "stopping classes and not stopping school". In the group study of a phrase dictation, due to network lagging reasons, some children did not listen to the whole, they exchanged with each other is to let the parents to read again, rather than copying the answers of classmates; debate competition is to trigger the children's thinking, the teacher's summary of the children to teach right and wrong judgment. I believe that after the epidemic, the children will grow faster.

Achievements are not achievements, scores are not the future. Therefore, a concern for the child's homework and test scores, a pressure without caring about the child's inner feelings, will only fall into the popular "achievement trap". At present, the phrase "for your own good" covers up the vanity of countless parents, bringing countless adolescent "rebellion". Comprehensive development is not all-embracing learning, to respect the growth of children's laws, scientific education. In the face of the epidemic, there is no heavy extracurricular burden, we have seen the school organized a more diversified online courses, the child's interest in learning in turn more intense. The home school **** education, in the foreseeable future, will be able to cultivate a useful talent.

Decoding adolescence, avoiding the pitfalls of love, understanding the heart and behavior of the child's growth, and giving the child the proper care and attention, every parent deserves to learn!

Another semester is coming to an end, and I don't know how much knowledge my child has learned in this semester, but I feel that my child's knowledge has progressed from his writing, which may be due to the fact that he has read more extracurricular books with his child in this semester.

How to let the child in the reading to get rich knowledge, I think the first thing to let the child realize that the writing has a certain help, to use in the writing of the usual reading to learn the good words, only read more, see more brains to think, so that you can write a good composition, and, secondly, to improve the child's interest in reading, we must create a good reading environment for the child, and often take the child to the bookstore to buy a certain number of books, often talk to the child, and the child's interest in reading, and the child's interest in reading. In order to make the child interested in reading, you can give the child more opportunities to do housework, do small experiments, enrich the child's life, do not let the child feel the dullness of life, select some content-rich books for the child to read, to guide them how to understand the content of the book, understand the content of the book, let the child to write, with this combination of reading and writing to enhance the child's interest in reading. This way of combining reading and writing to improve the child's ability to write independently.

In order to let the child better develop good reading habits, I often buy children interested in books for children to read, to create a good environment for children to read, and to give the child to set up a bookstore, in the wall to paste some of the pictures to improve the interest in reading.

Cultivating a good habit of reading is not a one-day task, it is not only the test of the child, but also the test of our parents, we should urge children to read aloud an article every day, so that the child consciously recognize the article in the good sentences and words. In the reading of the problem in the question when the parents should try to answer the child's questions correctly, encountered back to sign out of the problem to turn to other books, must be correct on the street to answer the child's questions, to help the child to improve the space of thought, the first contact with the words to repeat the reading and a deep understanding of the meaning of the words, so that the memory will be more profound.

Through this school period with the child's reading. Let me be a parent to understand more about what their children want, so that children know what is self-esteem, what is love, and really appreciate the "read a million volumes, the pen as God" of the true meaning of the child more like to read and care for the book.

Parents' reading experience6

Education is an eternal subject that has existed indefinitely since the birth of human civilization. She continued to the high development of human civilization today, is still we can not avoid. The problem is that we can't avoid it, and we need to pay more attention to it.

Life is like a dream, life is short, parents should be accomplished in the life of the task, summed up in just two pieces, one is in the community to achieve self-realization, career success. The second is to educate their own offspring, to complete an important part of the self-perpetuation. Education of children, from the time of living with the child *** with the child's mind, the status of the child, how to educate the child to behave, to the child's teachings, every parent has a great deal of responsibility and a long way to go.

The child's growth should be three-dimensional. Multi-directional. Multi-capacity growth, the child's education is also three-dimensional. Omni-directional education, relying only on school education, neglecting family education, the growth of the child is a deficiency.

Family education is not only a comprehensive and high art, but also an exceptionally complex process, which not only requires parents to have an aspect of knowledge and insight, but also requires parents to know how to better communicate with their children, mobilize children's enthusiasm, so that children in the pursuit of knowledge. Make friends. Behavior. Self-cultivation and other aspects of access to good education, to promote children to fully realize their potential.

Education of children is a very complex thing, but also a great cause. It is the greatest wish of parents to see their children grow up and become successful. This wish from a small point of view, can achieve a person's pride and glory, from a large point of view, may create a nation's pride, and even become a representative of civilization and progress. Unfortunately, as far as some parents are concerned, it is difficult to realize the wish of their children to become successful, the following is my personal education of children in a little bit of superficial views.

Parents Reading 7

It's been nine years since I became a mom, but to be fair, I'm not really a good mom. Because of my work, I spend very little time with my children, and in the little time I do spend with them, I am often angry with them. The issue of work-family balance has always bothered me. It even made me want to change my career as a lawyer for a while. Until I read Love, Money, and Children, I was enlightened, and I realized that even if I continue to be a busy lawyer, I can still be a good mother who can give my children enough spiritual leadership.

Love, Money, and Children first analyzes the changes in the global concept of education from the perspective of economics, and makes me realize more clearly why "intensive education" has become the mainstream in China today.

For example, in the sixties and seventies, most parents thought that they could go to elementary school, and half of them couldn't go on, and went home to work on the line, and that you could earn more than 30 dollars a month by going to a university and becoming a university teacher, but if you were a worker in a factory, it wasn't that much worse. So, the whole society is not so anxious, we think my child to go to college or not, the return is about the same anyway. So, the way of education at that time tends to be loose, tends to be relaxed.

Nowadays, when the income gap in this society starts to widen, a person can make money, earn millions of dollars a month, hundreds of thousands of dollars are possible. Life on the difference widened, people are slowly realizing that the return on investment in education is great. You go to a good school, and you go to an ordinary college, or even did not go to college, you reap the income is completely different. This is the time when all the parents and schools start to make the effort, so it's not simply a matter of cultural tradition. It's very much related to our economy.

The authors of this book, two economists, categorize three types of family parenting styles: authoritarian, permissive, and authoritative. In the authoritarian type, parents sometimes physically punish their children, and parents have a lot of restrictions and rules. Under this style, the child has little say and there is not much `communication' between the parent and the child. The main thing the parent does is to issue instructions. If the child can't do it, he will use force to demand that he must do it, this is the first type. Laissez-faire type, the laissez-faire type is characterized by the fact that he appears to be very open-minded, he will pay attention to the child, but the child does anything, even if the child does something wrong, he will smile and everything goes along with the child. Authoritative type, the authoritative approach is to communicate with the child by reasoning and modeling values. In short, in the process of authoritative parenting, parents and children are often communicating, and the substance of the communication, the main thing is to promote the formation of values of the child.

Authoritative parenting is good in terms of the relationship between the child and the parent, and in terms of the child's mental health. But the authoritative type needs a good premise, the authoritative parent, first of all, has to have a higher quality, the authoritative parent has to know how to educate himself, and also has to be able to control his temper.

Yes, I don't have the time to spend a lot of time with my child every day, watching his every move, but I can work hard to adopt authoritative parenting, to communicate with my child, to help him develop the right values, to pay attention to his mental health. That's the real purpose of parenting - to make him a good person, not to create a high-scoring machine.

As the book says, to be an authoritative parent requires a high level of understanding of education and the ability to control one's temper. I don't dare to talk about "education", so the first lesson I set for myself was to start with controlling my temper and my emotions. This is something I need to reflect on in particular. I pray that love and time can make up for the damage those angry words have done to my children, and that my actions can lead my children to learn to control their emotions.

After a few days of deep introspection, I found the courage to sincerely apologize to my child one day before bed. I said to my son, "Please forgive mommy for ever treating you in such a bad way and saying those very heavy words to you. I hope you can understand that mommy's intention was to love you, but mommy used the wrong method. You are mommy's child, and mommy is very inexperienced in being a good mom. Mommy is now trying to be a good mom, a mom who doesn't lose her temper and is able to think calmly. Learning is not only for children, but also for moms. Are you willing to help your mom become a good mom?" My son cried, I asked him if he was very aggrieved, my son wiped away his tears and said, "It's not aggrieved ......" I hugged my son, and I knew that my son's tears contained love and understanding, as well as hope....

On the day of my son's ninth birthday, my son and I started the "diary bottle program", every day I will be in the diary on a paragraph I want to share with the child's story or thoughts, or a particularly interesting words, or travel out of the child's miss, and so on, in short, to share the words of the heart to the child. At the same time, I hope that the child can also give a positive response, a painting, a craft work, a brain teaser ...... whatever you can, the form of response and the response period are not to do hard requirements.

I hope that my change and persistence will bring me more growth, and I hope that my growth will create a better environment for my children.

Hi son! I am a mom classmate! Please take care of me, I will grow up with you in the future!

I love to read, and so does my son. But what kind of book to choose for your child is beneficial to your child's development, physical and mental health, has always been my confusion. The development of modern material civilization, the temptation of television, the Internet to children, in the economic interests of children's books, although the child is very interested in and like to read, but I think a lot of things on the child's physical and mental development is not good, or even harmful. And the children really have educational significance of the book, but the children do not like.

The school carried out a new education parent-child *** reading activities are very meaningful, so that parents pay more attention to the children's extracurricular reading, mobilize children and parents to read good books enthusiasm. In order to make the children's winter vacation more enjoyable and fulfilling, the school held a special meeting with parents to emphasize the significance and importance of parent-child *** reading, provide reading suggestions, and recommend reading books for the relevant grades, so that we can do the parents also have a target.

So I went to the bookstore with my kids*** and chose the books, generally in accordance with the school's recommended books, and then try to choose the books by the children, which also greatly mobilized the children's enthusiasm. My son chose his favorite books, such as The Wanderings of San Mao, The Adventures of Blowhard, A Thousand Poems, and The Wonderful Kingdom of Numbers. My son loves to buy his favorite books.

With the child *** reading is not only to share the joy, but also to share the confusion. The child does not understand the place I will talk about their own understanding, or with the child to look up information, parents and children are in the reading to increase knowledge, training of thinking skills. Now, our parent-child *** reading is slowly changing from passive reading to active reading, parent-child *** reading is becoming a good habit of our family, we will continue to improve the ways and means to further stimulate the child's habit of reading and thinking, so that the child and the book as a friend, with the book as a companion, in the reading of a healthy and happy growth.

Parent-child *** reading, we like!

In recent years, quality education has become an educational issue that is emphasized and promoted by many schools. Reading is an effective means of quality education. What books to read to the children? I chose to start from the traditional Chinese culture, bought a set of "Chinese virtue stories" to read with the children.

The Chinese nation's long cultural history of five thousand years, the accumulation of countless enduring, flashing the light of human wisdom valuable culture. As a feudal society, people's industry norms of the "Five Constants", generous and loving people is "benevolence"; for people to love and hate is "righteousness", treating people with courtesy and proper behavior is "propriety"; for people to love and hate is "righteousness", treating people with courtesy and proper behavior is "propriety". "Manners"; decisive and thorough handling is "wisdom"; honesty and steadfastness, credibility is "faith". "Benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and trust" still has its positive significance today. If we follow the "Five Constants" to cultivate and educate our children, I believe she will grow up to be a good student with integrity, a sense of right and wrong, and a good upbringing.

The child read "Kong Rong let the pear", know to do things in order, do not coax, do not grab; read "Confucius talk about etiquette", know how to treat people to behave elegantly, courteous; read "Yang Shi Li Xue Shi Men", more learned the original respect for the teacher is the Chinese nation's good morals, inherited for a long time.

Quality education should start from the child, with the child to read the "Chinese Virtues Story", to understand the traditional culture of the nation, from which to learn from the vast and profound knowledge of humanities, which she in the era of the information explosion, the turnip and save the essence of the selective absorption of foreign cultures will have far-reaching significance. This is also a little bit of my experience of reading with my children.