The cold war is often the fuse that leads to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. How to avoid the cold war to make marriage happy?

In life, even if two people have a good relationship, they will have conflicts for a long time because of a little thing.

Sometimes they stubbornly stick to their ideas and blindly fight with each other in order to reach a compromise. But if you really love someone, you should learn to be tolerant and not care too much about the person you love. You know, winning a quarrel and losing your lover are the most unworthy things.

If you don't want the relationship between two people to be deadlocked and continue the cold war, you should first consider how to really solve the problem. Ignoring each other may satisfy your revenge or make your spouse give in, but are you really willing to treat someone you promise to love for life? In fact, this can effectively improve the relationship between you.

1, learn to listen to each other's opinions.

If the other person always complains that you never listen to me or that you always make your own decisions, don't be angry. Really think about it, have you never respected each other's feelings and made her so angry? We should learn to start from ourselves, listen to each other's suggestions and think from her point of view.

2. Change the way and attitude of speaking.

As the saying goes, people laugh when they say a word, which shows the importance of tone. People who can tolerate love without sleeping have a bad attitude towards themselves. The best way to change the other side's cold war is to learn to ease the atmosphere, start with your own attitude and way of speaking, with a gentle tone and a soft attitude, and the contradictions will naturally be gradually resolved.

3. Realize that the other person is the closest person.

You can be polite when talking to friends and colleagues, but really not when talking to your lover? Know that your spouse is the closest person to you, not your enemy. With this awareness, you won't be so angry with him, argue with him or even talk to him.

"Every man should love his wife deeply, and the wife should also love her husband." The cold war has no benefits, can't change anything, and will only bring our feelings to a deadlock. So don't care about the people you love easily, learn to tolerate the people you love, and there won't be so many cold wars.