What kind of girls do you think parents generally like? What is the reason?

Of course, parents generally like girls who are gentle and filial, knowledgeable and smart. Parents bring up women, and when they are old enough to talk about marriage, they are all middle-aged. At this time, they prefer their daughters or daughters-in-law to be filial and sensible, because they have experienced too many difficulties in life at this age. At this time, family harmony is more important to them than career, status and money. Family harmony, daughter-in-law's understanding and filial piety to in-laws, will make the family more harmonious.

Therefore, once parents get old, their ideas will change. They were once young, and when they were young, they would work hard for their careers and families. They all have rich life experiences, and in the end, family is the most important thing. Only girls with certain cultural literacy have higher behavioral literacy and personal quality, and it is easier to think of each other and put themselves in each other's shoes when encountering things. This sensible girl plays a decisive role in the stability of a family.

Filial piety is a traditional virtue in our country, and what parents want most when raising women is filial piety. If a girl is not filial, even if she is beautiful and highly educated, she is selfish, so it is difficult for such a girl to handle the relationship with her in-laws and aunts in a family. If such a girl has good self-ability and high income, she will definitely treat her family badly. If her income is not high, she will keep up with others. Coupled with the girl's selfish personality, she will not consider her family, and finally the dog will be restless.

Therefore, parents like girls with traditional Chinese virtues best, but this is often the most fundamental reason for the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Because of different ideas, girls feel that they are young women after marriage, pursuing themselves and their independent personality. Mother-in-law's idea is just the opposite. What they need is a sensible daughter-in-law who can live according to her parents' wishes. Finally, because of different times and ages, there are different standards for girls' behavior. At this time, it is the most critical place for two generations in a family to understand and tolerate each other.