Shaoxing engagement to prepare what

Shaoxing is also divided into places, there are various customs, some places are engaged, the male party in addition to the bride price (usually money and gold or ring, necklace or something), the female party used cigarettes, wine, sugar is also to be male out of the, but also have to give the female party elders to prepare something (mostly food, cigarettes, wine and then add some bonded products and things like this), and the female party is also parents also want to give the male side of the gold or ring, necklace or something, female other elders also have to give the male side of the meeting gift (money). What's more, the female other elders also have to give the male meet gift (money), at the same time the female such as to go to the male home, the male elders will also give the female meet gift, but also according to the place, customs and so on, some have some may not necessarily have.