How are your children being raised? Reading "Children's Parenting Lessons

Since ancient times, the Chinese nation has paid great attention to family, family education, and family customs. In our traditional culture, good personal behavior is the test of morality. "The foundation of the world is at home", so in the "Disciple's Rules", "Thousand Character Classic", "Three Character Classic" and other ancient sages and sages in the crystallization of wisdom have taught children how to receive others.

The family is the first classroom of life, parents are the first teacher of the child; what kind of tutelage, there is what kind of people; family culture is an important part of social culture. Promote traditional culture, inherit the good family style. Therefore, raising children has become an important responsibility of every family.

For a long time, in terms of child rearing, it has been popular to say that it is better to raise poor or rich, but in fact, it is not as good as giving children a good upbringing. Good upbringing, is the passport to the world, is a child's life to enjoy inexhaustible wealth, have a good upbringing of the child, will have good prospects. Regulating your child's daily behavior is both a rule and a labor of love.

Veteran publisher Mommy Hana enjoys reading books on child psychology, education, philosophy, and literature in her spare time, and is committed to helping Chinese parents scientifically raise good, positive, and healthy children. Her book "Children's Parenting Lessons" comprehensively describes the necessary qualities of an educated child in terms of etiquette, socialization, self-control, awareness of rules and regulations, habits, personality, temperament, and qualities, and develops a set of practical and effective parenting strategies for parents. It is a practical and effective parenting strategy for parents. It is an operable training manual for parents in the education of children's literacy.

Bu Yu's father, Yu Rui, was killed for opposing the return of the Duke of Jin to his country. When the Duke of Jin came to the throne, Yu Yu was not allowed to join the government because he was the son of a criminal minister. However, Yu was not deterred by his misfortune. Once, Xuchen, a minister of Duke Wen of Jin, was passing through Jiyi, and saw Yu Yu hoeing in the field, and his wife bringing food to the field, and was touched by their mutual respect. When Xuchen returned, he recommended Yu Yu to Duke Wen of Jin, saying that he was a virtuous gentleman who could rule the people. Duke Wen of Jin then appointed Yu Yu as the chief of the lower army. In the first year of Duke Xiang's reign, when Jin and Di fought at Kei, Yu Yu captured the leader of the White Di and made people realize his military ability. After the battle, Duke Xiang rewarded Xiuchen for recommending Yu Yu, and appointed Yu Yu as a minister to participate in state affairs. In the sixth year of Duke Cheng of Jin, he became the marshal of the central army and was in charge of the general administration of the state of Jin.

In advocating the rule of virtue, Yu lacked the ability to treat the common people well, and to show kindness and virtue to neighboring countries. He advocated both punishment and reward, and applied both kindness and authority, and governed the state of Jin very well. His philosophy of governance came from the family education that his family had cultivated since he was a child. His philosophy of governance came from his family's education, which was nurtured from a young age. As he rose in status, he elevated the concept of family education to the level of state governance. His son, Yu Ke, succeeded his father and later became a minister in the state of Jin, and he also advocated for moral governance.

From Yu Yu's family, we can see how important a family culture is to a person.

Parents are the first teachers of their children, and they are also the first to educate their children, and what they say and do will have a subtle influence on their children. Therefore, if you want your child to become an educated person, parents should first set an example, improve their own quality, and set a good example for their children.

The child has a limited ability to distinguish, it is easy to take some of the parents' bad habits, uncivilized language as the correct template. Therefore, parents should always pay attention to their own words and behavior.

"Hundred good filial piety first", the child learns to filial piety, so that the child learns to be grateful and be a warm person.

In our side, often see such a phenomenon: after dinner, the child turned his head to watch TV, play cell phones, play games or go out to play, parents are busy cleaning up dishes, cleaning; home has a good meal, the elders are always the first to let the child taste, the child is rarely asked to eat first; children once sick, parents will be busy before and after, a hundred care, hate to be able to replace, and the parents are not well, children are rarely greeted. The child is seldom greeted. The crow knows how to feed itself, and the lamb knows how to kneel. But such a child is selfish, willful, lazy, and even more forced parents to give money, parents can not help when they will kill their parents.

In the Western Jin Dynasty, there was a child named Wang Xiang, who lost his mother at an early age, and his stepmother, Zhu, was very mean, and often told him what was right and wrong in front of his father, so he lost his father's love. One winter, his stepmother Zhu's sick want to eat carp, but because of the cold river water is frozen, can not catch, Wang Xiang will lie naked on the ice, suddenly the ice opened, from the cracks leaped out of the two carp, Wang Xiang was very happy, holding the return to serve his stepmother. His behavior, in the countryside in the ten miles of rumors. The people all praised Wang Xiang is a rare filial son of the earth.

My husband's grandfather is 90 years old, I often take the children to buy something to visit his old man, accompany him to chat. A few days ago, I do a few dishes to Grandpa to eat, the children came back from school to know, only 4 years old, they also took the initiative to help clean up the dishes, wipe the table, sweep the floor, but also said that the mother hard work, let me sit down, to give me a pounding on the shoulders, pat the legs, and bring the water to me to drink.

Parents' attitude towards their elders directly affects the children's attitude towards their parents, and if the parents don't know how to honor the elders, the children will naturally find it difficult to learn to honor their parents. Parents with their own elders, gentle attitude, usually more greetings to visit the elders, do housework, the child in the ear will know how to filial piety parents.

Any family or parent can give a child a good upbringing! Giving a child a good upbringing will be a precious gift in the child's life!