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I need an essay on "good manners"! ! ! ! ! Please help me! ! ! Urgent ~ ~ ~! ! ! ! ! ! !

The civilization degree of a society can reflect the civilization degree of a society and a country. A person's failure to observe social civilization will have a small impact on his own image and a big impact on the national reputation. During the Qing Dynasty, Minister Li Hongzhang went to Russia. In public, he had a bad habit of spitting everywhere, which was greatly exaggerated and ridiculed by foreign journalists and humiliated China people. This is a historical lesson of not obeying social civilization.

We have been educated in civilized manners since childhood, and many students can talk about civilized manners at length. However, seeing lunch boxes and beverage bottles discarded everywhere on campus and hearing some students' swearing words, how can we not teach people grief! Are we all "giants of language and dwarfs of action"? Wang Shouren, a great scholar in the Ming Dynasty, said: "Knowing is the idea of doing, and doing is the kung fu of knowing; Knowing is the beginning of doing, and doing is the achievement of knowing; Knowing and doing is noumenon and kung fu. Knowing and not doing it is just unknown. " We receive the education of civilization and etiquette, but we are stingy with it or even do the opposite, which is different from never receiving social education! Therefore, if we want to practice social civilization, we must work hard from this "unity of knowing and doing", work hard from our own words, and bid farewell to uncivilized behavior. Let civilization be everywhere, let us be the masters of civilization and let civilization walk with me!

Civilized manners start with me.

Thousands of years of civilization and etiquette have been passed down to this day, so China is known as "an ancient civilization" and "a state of etiquette". The working people in our country have always attached importance to moral cultivation and civility, and have a long tradition of virtue. And a modern civilized person with high quality and culture must have good manners.

Civilized etiquette can be seen everywhere, and it often happens in small things around us, but it is often ignored by us. Therefore, we should integrate civilized etiquette into real life. Civilized etiquette should pay attention to peacetime, cultivate from childhood and develop good habits.

First of all, pay attention to personal gfd, manners, speech, dress, etc. For gfd, cleanliness is required: face, neck and hands should be cleaned; Hair should be cut on time and washed frequently; Nails are often cut; Pay attention to oral hygiene and don't chew gum in public; Take a bath and change clothes often. In terms of manners, we should be strict with ourselves in standing, sitting, walking, manners and movements. The ancients had an image summary of human posture: "Stand like a pine, walk like the wind, sit like a bell, lie like a bow." Beautiful standing posture gives people a feeling of being tall and straight and spirit; Sitting posture should be correct, generous and decent; Walk chest, shoulders and arms swing naturally, and the pace is moderate; The expression should show respect, understanding and goodwill to people, with a smile; Speak sincerely and kindly, use civilized language, be concise and decent. Dress should be clean, tidy and decent, conform to students' identity, and reflect the energetic and upward style of students in the new century.

Secondly, pay attention to the etiquette in public places. Etiquette in public places includes etiquette in schools, classrooms, dormitories, theaters and other places, as well as walking, asking for directions, taking a bus and shopping. Campus etiquette is very important. In classrooms and dormitories, we should observe public order and not make noise. The flag-raising ceremony is the most solemn. This embodies the national flag of civilization and blood, which is more distinct under the encirclement of etiquette. Classroom etiquette has a great influence on teachers' teaching, which is directly related to the honor and cohesion of a class and reflects the class spirit and appearance of this class.

Third, be modest and polite. Politeness means having a modest attitude in interpersonal communication. Respecting others, respecting others and being polite are the traditional virtues of China people. Politeness and comity can get along well with others and win their respect, friendship and help. Everyone has heard the story of "Kong Rong makes pears". Four-year-old Kong Rong gave the big pear to his younger brother, but he ate the small one himself. This shows that although young, there is no lack of manners.

There is also etiquette between classmates. Etiquette is like lubricating oil, which makes rough friction disappear. If there are contradictions, do more self-reflection. Understand each other and tolerate others. ...

"Harmony is good", "approachable", "Take Qi Mei as an example", "Let dates push pears" and "feel at home" all illustrate the politeness principle. When everyone comes to this world, learning to be a man begins with being polite. In society, people are always asked to be polite. Civilized etiquette not only brings happiness and harmony to others and society, but also creates a loving environment and brings happiness and warmth to oneself. Moreover, in modern social life, when China strode to the world, civility and politeness have become an indispensable part of the investment environment and national image.

Speaking of civilized manners requires everyone to start from me and start from small things. As small masters of the country, we have the obligation to help those who have not received a good education to learn and practice civilization. Because we are rich in material life today, we need to build a high level of spiritual civilization. In this way, our country can become a civilized country, and civilization can be admired by more people.

Goethe, a famous writer, said, "A man's politeness is a mirror, which reflects his portrait." Indeed, people always judge you by your behavior. Let's all improve our sense of etiquette and pay attention to etiquette. Only in this way can we gradually develop the habit of civilized manners and become a modern civilized person with temperament, grace and education.

Civilized manners accompany me.

Teachers have taught us to be polite since childhood. Civilized manners will always accompany us. But do you know what to do when you are polite? Let me tell you something!

First of all, we should honor our parents. Parents have spent countless efforts to nurture our growth, and filial piety is the basic morality of being a man. We should always remember the kindness of our parents and be polite to them. Be considerate of your parents, and do something within your power to lighten their burden.

Secondly, we should be friendly and help others. People should get along well with each other and lend a helping hand when others are in trouble. Everyone needs love and help. Friendship and helping others can make people flourish and enhance their courage to overcome difficulties.

Third, be modest and polite. Courtesy means to have a modest attitude, respect others, respect others and be polite in interpersonal communication. China has always had the reputation of "the country of etiquette", and politeness is the traditional virtue of China people. Politeness and comity can not only win the respect, friendship and help of others, but also get along well with others. Everyone has heard the story "Let a pear grow a hole". Four-year-old Kong Rong gave the big pear to his younger brother, but he ate the small one himself. This shows that although young, there is no lack of manners.

Fourth, be honest and trustworthy. You can't cheat people.

Fifth, be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. We are familiar with "be strict with yourself and be lenient with others." This sentence. "Be strict with yourself" means being strict with yourself and seeing your own shortcomings. "Be lenient with others" means understanding, tolerating and forgiving others' mistakes. But our classmates can't do this. One classmate stepped on another's foot. He even said he was sorry, but the classmate didn't want to forgive him. Finally, I couldn't help it, and I got into a fight with each other. So we must be strict with ourselves and be lenient with others, which will avoid many arguments and quarrels.

Everyone knows what to do if you are civilized and polite! Then let's get started! Let the flowers of civilization and courtesy bloom in our beautiful campus.

Civilized manners accompany me.

China has been called "the state of etiquette" since ancient times. This road has quietly accompanied us to 2008. There are only a few days before the Olympic Games, which is a long-awaited event. Many foreign friends came to China involuntarily and came to the "state of etiquette". If we are impolite and uncivilized, how can we do this? Therefore, we should show them our "state of etiquette".

We primary school students may not be able to do anything important now, but we can also give good suggestions to our classmates at school, friends in the community, and even some uncivilized things and behaviors we encounter in public places, just like unknown grass.

One day, on the way home from school, the students left one after another. I was walking with my head down in the street when I suddenly saw something thrown in the middle of the road. I took a closer look and found it was a banana peel. "Hello" I stopped the person in front. He looked back at me and asked, "What's the matter?" ? I saw him wearing purple clothes, white trousers and a red scarf around his neck. I thought he was a young pioneer. I asked seriously, "Are you a Young Pioneer?" He replied, "Yes!" "Did you throw this banana peel?" He refused, and I listened and asked him again, but he still refused to admit it. I cried out, and he saw my angry expression and said hesitantly, "Yes ...". . "It's me," I said, little classmate. We are young pioneers. We should protect Mother Earth and let her wear colorful clothes instead of soiling her clothes. Besides, if you throw banana peels everywhere in case someone steps on them, you will fall down. Isn't it harmful for you to do so? So please take care of yourself. What will happen if you step on the banana peel thrown by others? Remember that you must not make mistakes again! He lowered his head in shame, picked up the banana peel quickly and said to me, "Thank you, sister. I'll pay attention to it later. Thanks for reminding me! " "

Yes! As a member of the motherland, we should win glory for the motherland, not discredit it, so let's create a harmonious society together!

Be a civilized person

How to be a civilized person? In fact, it is very simple to be a civilized person, starting from yourself and starting from the side. Morality may be the thickness of a piece of paper, a little patient waiting, a kind greeting or even just a smile. Everything we say and do is always related to feelings. Inadvertently, we spread enthusiasm, respect, care and friendship, which is to talk about civilization. This little bit of praise and appreciation moistens our hearts like rain and dew.

Presumably everyone's parents and teachers have told you that the most important thing for people to live in this world is to learn to be human. To be a man is to be a civilized person. People are uncivilized, no matter how rich they are, they will become poor, and no matter how big an official is, they will be demoted to civilians. Some people think it is difficult to be a civilized person, but in fact, as long as you do it, you will find it is actually very simple. To be a civilized person is to respect the old and love the young, honor parents, respect teachers and care for others. ...

Once, I traveled to Yantai with my parents. As soon as we arrived in Yantai, we packed our bags and went to the seaside to play by car. On the bus, I saw an old woman who had no seat and was about to give up her seat. At this moment, a boy younger than me, about seven or eight years old, went to the old woman and helped her to her seat. The old woman said to the little boy, "Good boy, thank you!" "

On May 12 this year, an earthquake of magnitude 8.0 occurred in Wenchuan County, Sichuan Province, China. People donate money, materials and blood to the people in the disaster area. Some people adopt orphans in the disaster area, and some people go to the disaster area as volunteers. Especially some lovely rescuers and medical staff are busy all day and all night and can't rest. Pilots and drivers who deliver relief supplies to people in disaster areas are even more busy, and some can only rest for two or three hours a day. How respectable their love and morality are! !

Let's be civilized people from now on