The most classic writing material of the 2008 college entrance examination: family style and family instructions

Lead: Family style, as its name implies, is a family atmosphere and custom, a rule passed down from generation to generation, an ancestral training that every family member has to follow since childhood, and a traditional fashion that can influence the spirit, morality and behavior of family members. The following are the writing materials for the college entrance examination that I have compiled. Welcome to read!

Material 1: Family style helps me grow.

My family style is "filial piety", showing respect to my parents and teachers. My parents always tell me: all virtues are filial first! Family style is a motto that should be kept in mind. With it, we can gain a foothold in society and go further! Keep in mind the family style, consolidate the foundation of life, take firm steps and become a pillar of the country!

Family style can also represent the ethos of a country. The country is inhabited by the people, and this style is more important. Relying on the people's hard work, law-abiding, mutual assistance and mutual assistance, a country's prosperity is not just material wealth. In my opinion, what is more important is its atmosphere. The ethos of a country and a dynasty determines its decline and victory. Only a country with a good social atmosphere can make the country rich and powerful, and can it really be called a powerful country.

One night, I went to my classmate's house to play. My mother and I agreed to go home at 7: 30, and we should respect the rest time of other people's homes. My classmates and I are playing CS gun battles on the computer, and I have been thinking about making an appointment with my mother. It's five minutes before 7: 30. I quickly bid farewell to vestbo and rushed downstairs to go home. My mother gave me a big hug as soon as she opened the door and praised me for being punctual. This time my mother not only kissed me, but also rewarded me with playing computer for an hour next weekend. I'm so happy!

Children are the hope of the family, and the family is the cell of society. Parents have the obligation and responsibility to take good care of their families and educate their children. Although the responsibility of making children have noble qualities may not be entirely on parents, parents are duty-bound to establish a good family style and cultivate children with it while being "cows" and "horses". If children look like "Zuk" instead of "Edward" because of bad family style, it will not only make parents sad and disappointed, but also bring endless harm to society.

"Teach your children before class and your wife at the bedside" takes strict discipline as an important link in cultivating a good family style. Family gives people a sense of belonging and becomes the softest part of their hearts. Because of this, the family is easy to become a haven of human weakness, the principle is easy to be flexible in front of the family, and the bottom line is easy to break through in front of the family. Poor management of family members' children often leads to family misfortune. Party member cadres should consciously implement good work style in family life, often publicize policies and regulations to their families, help them draw a clear line between right and wrong, beauty and ugliness, honor and disgrace, go with the flow, abandon evil and be good; We must resolutely reject children's improper demands. At the same time, "teaching by example is more important than teaching by words", which requires children's family harmony, first of all, to be single-minded; To ask your family to be honest and upright, you must first stay away from vulgar tastes. Only in this way can the family become a family that pursues progress, a family that can stand the test of wind and waves, and a harmonious and happy family.

I hope that every household can form a good family style, so that family style can help us learn the truth of being a man and form a good atmosphere in society!

Material 2: Good family style grows with me.

In the new year, I know a new word-"family style".

Recently, I saw an interesting topic on TV programs: What is family style? What makes me want to know my family style?

The uncles and aunts who saw the news interview said: "Family style is a panoramic view of a family. Family style is to know the fine virtues of other people's families on the basis of good family style. "By watching this program, I know what family style is, and I also know a lot of excellent family styles. Family style is to do good without asking for anything in return; Family style is to be honest and not do bad things; Family style is a small move to create virtue; Family style is to do good deeds forever, without regrets; Family style means having a home in your heart and a country in your heart.

Now, I want to talk to you about the good family style of my own family: "Be diligent and love the people;" We should face the immediate difficulties with a positive and sunny attitude; Be polite to others. "

First of all, my grandfather is a good example of diligence. My grandfather is a farmer. Rain or shine, he always goes to the fields to grow vegetables and harvest. He is diligent and never complains. Then I learned to be polite to others from my grandfather. Grandpa is a businessman. Every time I call my colleague, he always says "hello". During the Spring Festival, when he calls, he always sends a few New Year wishes. Also, in the sunshine mentality, my father is my role model. Although my father is busy at work, no matter how busy he is at work, he will never frown and always face it positively.

Family style is the face of a family. I should remember what my elders said about a good family style.

Material 3: Family style helps me grow.

Traditional China attaches importance to family style. To sum up, Linlin's family style is good, which is nothing more than a few key words: home country, diligent study, good deeds, filial piety first, integrity. There are two couplets in Yangzhou Geyuan: "There is no other way for heirlooms, that is, they don't plow or read;" After ample food and clothing, there is a good policy, only thrift and thrift. "For hundreds of years, people have nothing but good deeds, and the first good thing is just reading", which reflects this point. Family style has influenced generations, but it has rarely been mentioned in recent years. In all kinds of "God's answers", although there are ridicule, we can also see their decline.

Some people say it doesn't make much sense to talk about family style now The implication is that most family styles are full of positive energy, and it is necessary to cultivate children into good people and honest people, but the social reality is often that "honest people suffer." There is a voice that today's society has no faith except success, and everything can be abandoned for success. Under such a social background, it is too tiring to be a lotus flower without touching mud, and it is even difficult to have a bright future. However, it must be noted that this will cause a series of social problems, which will not last but will only weaken. Moreover, we are in the same boat, and no one can be alone, and no one can become a "deserter" of social responsibility. This responsibility is the reason for existence and the guarantee of a better life.

Some people say that family style has always been a matter of a big family and has little to do with ordinary people. This is a misunderstanding. Scholars value family style, but family style is not just literati. Many families, although there is no special family training, have formed their own family style in a subtle way, which also constitutes a characteristic family education culture.

Some people say that it is inappropriate to talk about family style now that family awareness is declining. Miniaturization of family units is a trend, but no matter how small it is, it also has the significance of family and family style. Over the years, the topic of "being rich but not expensive" and "being rich for three generations" has made some people anxious and delighted. This can also be found in the family style. Rich refers to material and money, while expensive refers to quality and education. Parents are children's first teachers, and families are children's first lessons. Whether a person's growth is influenced by a good family style is completely different. What kind of family style, often have what kind of values, wealth. For many people, the quality of family style even affects and determines people's life.

Some people say that it is more important to talk about political style and social style now, and don't retreat to the second style. "four winds" is very important, closely related and influencing each other, and "family style" can be added in the middle. Although we can't expand the importance of family style indefinitely, it may be absolute that "family style is positive, then future generations are positive, then the source is positive, then the country is positive". But from another angle, it is correct in direction and strategy to start with family style and promote the improvement of party style, political style, social style and folk customs. The most important thing is to pick it up. The most boring thing is to argue first, and the most fearful thing is that you can't use it in an argument.

Don't let the family style become a "gust of wind", leaving the feeling that "the ancient style is no longer". It is necessary to review the family style today. The formation of family style has nothing to do with wealth, culture and virtue. Family style plays a subtle role, and its role is endless. A clear source of family style is conducive to cultivating good party style, political style, social style and folk customs.

To quote a famous saying:

There are no virtuous fathers and brothers in life, no strict teachers and friends outside, and few people can succeed. Princess Luzon

Sun Cai Yi, a man's son, left my children innocent. Biography of Xu Mian in Zhou She, Liang Shu

Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, so don't be their cattle and horses. Yuan Anonymous "Jade Bridge"

Children are people who create industries, not people who inherit them. Tao Xingzhi's How to Choose Books

Anyone who doesn't love himself really lacks the qualification to be a father. Lu Xun's How Do We Be Fathers Now

Wealth is meaningless, and woe to the family. Classic of ancient and modern book integration

Don't be suspicious, don't listen to alienating language, don't do things that identify with each other, and don't take advantage of the public. Classic of ancient and modern book integration

Nine times out of ten, those who plan wealth for their children and grandchildren will be defeated. Song Linbu's Peace of Mind

Father loves son, doctrine. Song Sima Guang's "On the Ceremony of Princess House"

Family is just people. [Russia] Ye Futushenko's family

An elder should be a mentor and negotiator, not a commander. Lu Xun's How Do We Be Fathers Now

After giving birth to a child, how should we educate the child so that he can become a complete person in the future? Lu Xun's miscellaneous feelings 33

A dutiful son comes from a family, and a demon comes from a family. Chinese proverb

National prestige can't be hurt internally, and family shame can't be publicized. Chinese proverb

Fighting with each other does not support the family, and supporting the family does not fight. Chinese proverb

His hatred among relatives is more dangerous than scorpions. Arabic proverb

To live in a discordant family is to live in hell. Turkish proverb

Universal opening introduction:

1. Family is the cell of society. A good family style will inevitably form a good social atmosphere, which is a necessary condition for the prosperity of the nation and the country.

2. Our Chinese nation has a tradition of attaching importance to family style, paying attention to morality, managing the family diligently, attaching importance to family ties and strictly educating children. With the development of society, we should inherit and carry forward this fine tradition under new conditions.

Fact argument:

Sima Guang taught his son well.

Sima Guang, whose real name is Shi Jun, is called Mr. Sushui. Northern Song Dynasty statesman, historian, official to prime minister.

Although Sima Guang is in a high position, he is strict with his godson and attaches great importance to cultivating children's awareness of self-discipline and self-improvement. He wrote an article that has been handed down to this day, "frugality to show health." He summed up the lessons of many sons of high officials and dignitaries in history who were decadent and decadent because they could not stand on their own feet in the shadow of their ancestors, and warned his sons: "Virtue comes from thrift." "frugality is famous, extravagance is defeated."

Because of well-educated children, Sima Guang's sons are humble and polite, and have a successful life without relying on their father's power or family wealth. As a result, "people saw Rong Zhi on the road, although they didn't fully understand Sima's son".

Ji Hongchang didn't forget his father's instructions.

Ji Hongchang was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Coalition. He was a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army in his early years. He was promoted to battalion commander and division commander because of his bravery and good fighting skills, and later served as commander of the Kuomintang and chairman of Ningxia Province.

1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was a battalion commander at that time, and his father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit, "Being an official should be innocent and modest, and think more of the poor in the world. Being an official is not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can't sleep in the grave. " Ji Hongchang promised tearfully.

After Ji Hongchang's father died, he wrote the words "Officials don't get rich" on the porcelain bowls, and asked the ceramic factory to follow the example of batch firing and distribute the porcelain bowls to all officers and men. At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said, "Although I am Ji Hongchang, I will never oppress the people and rob them of their wealth. I must remember my father's teachings. Being an official is not to get rich, but to do good for the poor in the world. Please supervise me. "

Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent, and he was innocent and upright all his life, serving the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were in dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up against Japan. Killed by Kuomintang reactionaries at the age of 39.

The president taught his son to stand on his own two feet.

Former US President Ronald Reagan is not only famous, but also rich. But he strictly requires children to stand on their own feet and never let them rely on their parents. After his son lost his job, he lived on welfare while looking for a job.