How to be a wife in traditional culture

To be a good wife, you must first go to the hall and go to the kitchen.

Men generally like beautiful women, and men also have vanity. It is very shameful to take a beautiful woman to a friend's party or go shopping. Whether you are beautiful or not is given by your parents. Of course, if you have money, you can change your face. No matter how you look, it is necessary to dress appropriately and behave generously. A real beauty needs proper dress and good conversation.

It is better to keep a man's stomach than to keep his heart. As a wife, you must cook a good dish. Even if you marry a rich wife, you can go to seafood restaurants and star-rated hotels every day. It is better to eat comfortably at home. Home can make people feel warm and more at home.

Family conflicts are mostly due to money and housework. It's no big deal, but quarreling over these little things can also hurt the feelings between husband and wife.

Money is indispensable to family life, but don't haggle too much. Every family has different arrangements for money. I just want to talk about my experience and thoughts. I once chatted with a male colleague and mentioned who was in charge of the money at home. I said my family life is AA, and I keep the money myself. They were surprised and said that my husband was so happy that all their money was given to his wife. Actually, I know my husband He is not a spendthrift and has no bad habits. I bought his clothes and some daily necessities. At best, he just upgrades his computer at home. When it comes to spending money on the elderly or relatives of the two families, I have never been stingy. He naturally has his own ideas about how much money he wants to spend, and will not spend all his family's money on others. If he tells you this time and you don't agree, he won't tell you next time, and he may even give money secretly, which is very bad. Of course, some men spend a lot of money and have to limit it, but not too much, otherwise it will cause his dissatisfaction and disgust.

As a woman, as a wife, we must be able to undertake and put down housework. I'm not saying that my wife must do the housework at home, but most men are careless, and it's better not to do many things after doing them. When it comes to washing clothes, they have no idea how to distinguish between dark and light colors. They don't wash collars and cuffs any more, and they don't flatten clothes when they are hanging. If you can do it, you can teach him to do it, or even order him to do it, but you must be able to do it, otherwise the house will be untidy. I have been to many homes. If the hostess is not good at housework, then no matter how capable the host is, the home will not be clean and tidy. Of course, if you have money, you can hire a nanny. I don't believe that a woman who can't take care of her family can take care of herself. )

As a good wife, you should know the taste of life.

A wife is not an accessory of her husband. As a wife and an independent woman, we should know how to enjoy life. You should not only have your own friends, but also have your own living space. A wife should not only have daily necessities, but also know what cappuccino, Chanel, QQ and MP3 are. Don't let yourself fall behind the times, let alone indulge yourself and let the years grow old. A good woman and a good wife should keep a young mind, constantly enrich themselves, and make themselves a book that never tires.

As a good wife, be gentle and considerate.

Considerate, in fact, it is not difficult to understand, it is enough to do things for each other, but it is not easy to do it. People are selfish, aren't they? When in love, men can be obedient in every way. Once they get married and get married, they often need mutual understanding between husband and wife. Women are water, women should be gentle and considerate, and women should know how to be soft and firm.

Sometimes things at home can't tell who is right and who is wrong, what should and shouldn't be. If we can treat each other as guests, the family will be happy.