What kind of education can make children grow up better? What do children need most?

A: Cultivate children to love labor.

Excellent children do housework,

Enjoying education and loving labor,

Be considerate of your parents and study hard.

Excellent grades, step by step

I don't like talking, but I like painting very much, that is, painting casually or casually, and a painting is half a day. Later, I like reading, sitting quietly and not saying a word most of the day. Father doesn't understand why I am so introverted. He expects me to welcome the guests, smile sweetly, sing a song or recite a poem or something, then others will praise me, dad will be happy, and finally everyone will be happy.

Because of the high expectations for me, my father always thinks there is something wrong with me. He went to ask questions and asked only one question: how should my children be raised? Then it attracted a bunch of strange suggestions: for example, try to wear skirts for me as little as possible. It is said that girls in skirts are sissy and girls in pants are cheerful. For example, without bowing, I am only allowed to cut two braids. For another example, sending me to learn calligraphy is said to temper my temper.

I obeyed most of the requirements, but it was always hard to accept and I didn't want to change two points, so I was beaten many times. First of all, I like reading. Secondly, I like drawing.

Reading, especially reading. Teachers and fathers always ask: Have you finished your homework? Have you finished reading after class? In fact, I finished my homework at school. What can I do without reading "casual books" when I come back? Every winter and summer vacation, my father forces me to finish my homework and then erase it before writing. If the summer vacation and winter vacation are not over yet, copy it again.

When I don't read "casual books", I often get caught doodling. They always say, why don't you play with other children? But I like reading and drawing. The teacher thinks my painting is puzzling and incomprehensible. Their reaction to this was particularly fierce. Finally, in the second day of junior high school, I was humiliated by the teacher in class and never painted again.

So tossing and turning, I seem to be relatively calm, but I just didn't "transform" successfully. After I came to work, I was still extroverted in some social occasions because of my work needs, but I still fell back to my old habits when I got home, either reading books or watching computers. After college, I developed a new hobby, that is, I like to browse all kinds of pictures, especially animals and plants, when I have nothing to do. Every time there is an art exhibition in college, I go to see it, and then I like movies.

I don't know why, when reading, the teacher lamented: if you put all your mind on your study, it must be the first grade rather than the top three. But I don't think like them in my heart: 90 points in a course is easy, and I want 8 points from 90 to 95. To pursue 100, I'm afraid you need 12. It's just that I think 90 points in each course is enough.

After arriving at work, the boss said: If you can concentrate all your thoughts on your work and don't have so many hobbies, maybe you will be promoted faster?

I'm surprised. Although I am diligent and solid, I am definitely not a robot. Why do so many people think that I am a bonsai? I can fix it if I want and cut it if I want. If I devote all my time and energy to one thing, I think I will go crazy instead of doing better. I have worked hard, and 90 points is enough for me.

Everyone tried to transform me and trim me, but they all failed. I have no such desire in my heart, and besides, I don't live for others, it's as simple as that.

I thought that was it, but life has its own arrangements. I don't know why, but it happened.

One day, I passed by the book city and saw a group of children drawing with the teacher. I stood there and watched for a long time. I tied my tie and asked the teacher, can I learn at my age? The teacher said: Of course. I was so excited that I paid by credit card, and then I painted with a group of children aged 5 or 6 every weekend. It was all kinds of simple patterns. Doing nothing, just having fun. Then, while painting, I chatted with the children in full swing. The teacher made no extra demands and treated me equally when I was 5 or 6 years old.

In the first half of the year, I painted every day, and I was unhappy if I didn't paint for a day, just like the devil. Sometimes I draw a simple peach, sometimes I draw a red apple, sometimes I doodle. I feel like I'm back in my childhood, my mother is doing work beside me, and I just doodle with a blank sheet of paper. This kind of idleness makes me happy, and wasting time makes me feel relaxed.

Once a friend saw the mushrooms and grass I painted, and she smiled: How silly? Isn't this something drawn by a child? I am puzzled: Do adults have to draw complicated things? What kind of idea is this?

Later, somehow it spread, and my classmates asked me to send the "painting" to the group for "appreciation", and then it attracted a laugh. Everyone gestured: "Is this it?" My child's primary school class will be. ""You are so old, why do you learn these things? "Your painting is too naive. I never paid attention to it. I take pictures every Saturday.

I painted for two and a half years and gained a lot of "works". Once, a classmate who had married far away from the North came back and insisted on seeing my "masterpiece". A lot of drawings, she didn't say anything after looking through them one by one. Later, when we were chatting at dinner, she suddenly said, "I really envy you and can do what you like." I was stunned at that time, and I didn't know how to answer. This matter passed.

But I don't know why, the enthusiasm for painting has disappeared by more than half. After that, I stopped painting every week, only when I wanted to paint, or when I was depressed.

Half a year ago, my cousin asked me to help my nephew choose books, saying that the teacher asked to see "picture books". But she didn't know what a picture book was, so I spent many weekends in the book city with my little nephew. Both aunts and nephews are very happy. First, they choose a large number of picture books to show, then look at the cover and choose the content. After skimming, they choose what they like and buy it home. In this way, it lasted for almost half a year, and two people read more than one hundred picture books.

During the summer vacation, my cousin took my nephew to see her parents, but every weekend I felt something was missing. So I took a bus to the book city, sat in the picture book area, and read one by one. I found out that where I helped my little nephew, I just liked picture books myself. A parent next to him said: Choose a picture book for your child? I smiled awkwardly: no, I like it myself. She paused and quickly added to herself: It's good to like picture books. Then, she walked away, occasionally eyes drifting, with questions and strangers.

I just like picture books, and I won't land on Mars to build an atomic bomb, will I?

Yesterday, I went to the Book City to read picture books, and I came across a book called The Secret of Poisonous Mushrooms. First, I was attracted by the cover, and then I couldn't put it down after reading it several times. I was so shocked that I took it home. Look at it today, I can't help but cry. Where is this talking about mushrooms? Is this talking about a certain kind of people? After reading this book, I opened my heart to why I like painting.

I like painting, because I am lonely and different. However, people around me just want to force me to be like everyone else, which makes me very uncomfortable. So, I had to suppress my love and give up painting. When I was strong enough, I began to paint again, only to find that although I am not a genius in painting, this is a paradise for my soul. The book "The Secret of Poisonous Mushrooms" expresses this meaning very simply: any existence has its meaning, and our "definition" is just an opinion, not truth.

The Secret of Poisonous Mushrooms tells a simple story, the story of mushrooms. However, from another angle, the world is completely different.

This mushroom is called Amanita. Because it is different from other species, it has become a kind of "strange" in human eyes. It is said to be toxic, of course, to human beings. Earthworms and other insects like to eat this mushroom. To them, the ointment is delicious.

People look at the world and evaluate a species, whether harmful or beneficial, from their own point of view. Beneficial Dang Kang was domesticated as a domestic pig and then slaughtered for meat. Useless mushrooms are written as fairy tales, with witches and darkness. However, many beneficial animals and plants have been extinct by human beings, while the poisonous amanita is alive and well.

This is useful and useless. Just an opinion. Zhuangzi said that all useful trees are cut down for furniture, crooked trees are alive and well, and flourishing trees are free for thousands of years.

You think that amanita is lonely and different, but in fact it has many similar species. Moreover, Amanita has its own biosphere in nature, which not only attracts snails and shrews (pronounced canal essence: a small animal), but also takes care of each other with birch trees. You see, there are friends in the world of Amanita, but its world and the human world have almost no intersection.

The Secret of Poisonous Mushrooms is short and few words, but every painting can penetrate people's hearts: tranquility, tranquility and security in this world. Living doesn't have to be seen. Existence is happiness.

Like picture books, it cured children and adults.

Finally, a short passage from The Secret of Poisonous Mushrooms is attached:

Sometimes, I wish I wasn't so conspicuous,

But I know I'm really different.

I am even novel and unique!

Because I am neither an animal nor a plant, nor a mineral ...? But I want to tell you that I am a valuable member of the forest family.

Now you know ... people hate reading mushrooms. But there is a beautiful poisonous mushroom, trying to improve her reputation: she is not only a safe haven for snails, ants, centipedes and other insects, but also … in nature, there is no absolute good or bad, and everything is closely related and harmonious. The series of "Natural Science Fairy Tale Picture Books" is poetic in language, with exquisite pictures, and the perfect integration of nature and fairy tale knowledge.

About the author: Anna? Crousaz

He is a recognized Swiss picture book artist. She graduated from Lausanne, Switzerland, majoring in graphic design 1997. 1999, she won the illustrator's studio scholarship established by the Swiss Federal Office of Culture and went to work in Krakow, Poland. In 2002, she became the winner of the Swiss Federal Design Competition.

Her masterpiece "Natural Science Fairy Tale Picture Book" series is a French "Magician Award" work. Many children will be curious about the "cycle" of natural ecology. Crousaz knows children's psychology very well. When he took the picture book to Crousaz, he told the children about the life cycle exchange of the whole natural system and the cycle of individual life forms in nature.

PS: The pictures in the article are all kinds of Amanita, which are particularly beautiful and inedible, but they have extremely high medicinal value.

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What kind of education is conducive to the growth of children.

This topic involves the quality education being implemented by the country, that is to say, the all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor. Only by making children develop in all aspects can they grow up healthily, so that they will not study textbook knowledge hard, damage their health and have problems such as myopia and obesity. This is also the purpose of the state to actively encourage schools to carry out extracurricular activities and sunshine sports activities.

Therefore, on the issue of children's education, we must adhere to the original intention of all-round development in order to make children grow up healthily. Of course, this does not mean that textbook knowledge is not important, it is very important, but we should know that a person's growth should not be one-sided, but should be comprehensive.

Communicate more if you have problems, and you can't just lose your temper with your child. You should think more from the child's point of view! What children need most is understanding, love, encouragement and care from all directions.

We should correct ourselves and cultivate children's diverse interests and hobbies in words and deeds. It is necessary to have the ability to think and deal with some problems independently, so that children can grow up in an optimistic, cheerful, kind and friendly atmosphere. If the environment is good, we can make more correct popular science books to enrich children's hobbies, and also let children learn traditional culture such as Disciples Rules and cultivate their virtues. It is best to introduce martial arts into schools to exercise children's physique and willpower. Only by cultivating a large number of teachers with high quality and good moral character and parents with high literacy can we cultivate a large number of high-quality talents.

Education full of love is the best education. No matter what your expectations for your child's future are, no matter whether the child develops according to your expectations, it will not affect your loving education from the time he was born. You love him and can conform to his development law, instead of limiting him according to the box you draw. This kind of education must be the best.

Spiritual growth is more important than knowledge!

Companionship is the best education. Science education is not to learn anything, but to cultivate children's individual interests and values through companionship.

What kind of education can make children grow up better? What do children need most?

1. The power of example is infinite! There must be phenomenal cases to guide future generations to influence future generations, and parents are also children's teachers. Parents have a great influence on their children's behavior patterns, so pay attention to guidance!

2. Respect children's hobbies and give them support and encouragement. Communicate and interact with children often, let them feel the care of their parents, encourage them less, and enhance their self-confidence and personality development!

3. Give children some space to choose and play by themselves, guide them to establish correct three views, spend more time with them and open their "vision" field!

4. Try to discuss with children as friends, cultivate children's independent thinking and judgment ability, and improve children's cognition of comprehensive things.

What children need most is a partner, care, companionship, encouragement, self-confidence, and a "teacher" who illuminates the road of life!

I have no children, but I am very popular with children. I'm not a teacher or an educator, but I think it's more objective and true to answer your question! Children are simple and kind, even if their parents give them one or two points, they will basically give full marks ... I hope I can help you and bless you. ...