The proverb "girl Gujia, both sides do not hair", in the rural areas why Gujia girl but not popular?

The saying goes "the girl Gujia two sides do not hair", China's rural areas is actually a convergence of various views on life, and people get along with the place , which is the most common saying, and for the proverbial girl Gujia two sides do not hair, the specific is what it means?

The general meaning of this sentence is that the daughter of the marriage out of the encounter of good things only think of their own mother's family, regardless of the in-laws, so it is easy to cause their own and in-laws or their own mother's family and in-laws contradiction , which causes family disharmony, as well as a variety of bad things, naturally, the mother's family and the in-laws will not be prosperous and developed, why would it come out of the this sentence?

This sentence is a long time ago when people's thinking is more feudal and traditional time to say out, is to marry out of the daughter like splashing out of the water, in such conditions, married woman should be good to follow the in-laws , if over the in-laws, not only easy to cause family conflicts, but also attracted the neighbors and townships behind the back of the gossip, so in the countryside Gujia The girl in the countryside, on the contrary, is not popular mainly because of the low status of women in the past, as well as has been subject to the influence of the traditional thought of raising children to prevent old age.

This sentence is also the old generation of people in rural areas through their own experience as well as the people next to them, both now and in the past, a lot of girls married out of the house, completely think of the mother's family for the sake of the mother's family at all costs, for the in-laws are very reluctant to complain about a variety of in-laws in-laws dissatisfaction , on the one hand, is to ask for the other hand is the dedication, and do not do The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good relationship with your in-laws, and that you are always fighting, and that you have a good relationship with your family. However, nowadays, men and women have become equal, this old saying is not quite applicable, it can only mean that an era of a saying, an era of a living method.