Judge traditional beatings

When the baby is beaten, which of the following reactions is very dangerous, and parents should stop it if they are angry? 1. When the child was beaten, he showed a very numb appearance. He didn't cry loudly and didn't avoid hitting the child. This is not a shrewd educational idea, but more like a traditional and rude way of appeasement. Try not to use it when parents have to. However, sometimes parents do beat their children and expect them to correct their physical defects. But if the child is beaten, he shows numbness, doesn't cry loudly, and doesn't hide. Parents should stop quarreling at once.

Because, even if parents continue to beat their children, it will only be a little more scar for them. It is not surprising that children abuse their parents now. Parents' abuse can't impress children, and children won't correct it according to their parents' needs. The relationship between parents and children is getting strange, and then it will get farther and farther away.

2. Run out as soon as you are beaten, and leave for no reason. We have seen these children who run out as soon as they are beaten, and there are many such examples in the news. The main reason is that children are too disappointed with their parents and family and can't stand the abuse of their parents, so they want to avoid the family. Perhaps, at first, parents can find her and think that the child is doing this, deliberately scaring parents and hitting the child when they come back. However, if the child really can't bear it at all, run to a place where no one can find it, or even grow some stupid ideas, then parents will regret it too late.

Therefore, once the child is found beaten and runs outside, parents should stop it immediately and don't really push the child outside. It is better to be at home outside, and many bad things will happen. In case something happens to the child who is beaten, can parents make do with it? In the final analysis, beating and scolding children is actually for their own good. If beating and cursing can only make the child's situation worse and the parent-child relationship worse, then why do parents do it?

The child doesn't say a word, waiting to be beaten. When parents are angry, some children say nothing. We'll just stay where we are and wait for you to get it. Generally, this kind of child is persistent, even if you hit him, he will bear it. Sometimes when they meet such children, their parents will be very angry and will fight harder.

In fact, when we see children react like that, parents must stop it, because children's indifference is the most dangerous. No matter what parents do, children no longer care. If this struggle continues, the relationship between parents and children will be greatly affected, which will make children more rebellious than ordinary children in adolescence, and the distance between parents and children will become farther and farther.

If this is the case with our children, as parents, we must change the status quo and improve the parent-child relationship. Because the child is indifferent to us, it shows that we have deeply hurt the child. At this time, parents must communicate with their children more, learn more about their thoughts, examine their own educational methods, and gradually establish a new relationship between children and parents.