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Woman young "tattoo flower back", her boyfriend saw to break up: love me, why can not accept?

In fact, everyone has a young time, and one of the signs of young people is impulsive, do something out of the ordinary.

For example, my father, when he was young and hot blooded, and even because of the fights have been in the detention center, and also because of this matter so that several of their friendships have been maintained to the present, although this is not something that can be proclaimed, however, this matter is done wrong can be changed.

However, there are a lot of things, impulse to do, even if you want to regret can not regret, one of them is the permanent type of tattoo, especially or the kind of a large area, tattooed an arm, or a back kind of, that is, commonly referred to as the "flower arm", "flower back! "The first is to be a good example of the kind of work you can do.

When I was young, I thought this look was very handsome and cool, and took this behavior as a display of character, but also enough to attract attention.

However, after a few years of "recklessness" and a gradual maturing of the mind, the tattoos were never removed, and even affected the future choice of a spouse.

Boys may be okay, if a girl tattooed a large tattoo, for the majority of conservative men and family members, may be unacceptable existence.

This year 29-year-old Wang Yixuan is very distressed, said: "18 years old that year do not know what to do, tattooed a large flower back, and now every time I have a boyfriend within a few days do not want me."

Wang Yixuan was not good at school when he was a child, so he dropped out of junior high school and entered the community to work, under the leadership of his brother to go to a barbershop in the south to do an apprenticeship, and this dry is 6 years, but also this 6 years of experience, shaping the character of Wang Yixuan at that time, and met a period of three friends.

"At that time I did not know anything, so I followed my friends to mix, I also said that I had a few times, but at that time, I could not listen to anything, and I was determined to highlight the character, so I saw a female friend tattooed, and then I was moved to try to follow."

At that time, Wang Yixuan's brother was very opposed to the idea that a girl who was clean and dry could not get a tattoo.

However, the more her brother opposed it, the more Wang Yixuan wanted to do it. At first, she just got a whale tattoo on her wrist, and her friends around her said it looked good, which made Wang Yixuan very happy, and then she saw a poster showing a woman's flowery back, which was very characteristic, and this made Wang Yixuan feel the urge to follow suit.

So picked a pair of shoulders down the plum blossom tree, all the way to the waist, and there is a carp between the groin, looking is very good, but the back is basically all "flowers", and in order to look good, Wang Yixuan bite the bullet and tattooed a permanent.

No matter how many days, my brother found out, very angry, told Wang Yixuan "you will certainly regret in the future".

Wang Yixuan said that she would never do that, but her brother was right.

At the age of 22, Wang Yixuan opened her own barbershop and started her own business, and as she grew older, her outlook and attitude towards life changed dramatically.

In fact, it can be seen from the way she dresses, in her early twenties she likes to wear bright and somewhat revealing clothes, however after the age of twenty-eight or eighty-nine, she dresses more and more at home and is no longer eye-catching.

However, at this time to find a boyfriend want to get married has become a difficult task, dating a lot of boyfriends, however, all are not a few days to see the "flower back" do not want him, that "inappropriate", Wang Yixuan said: "this is the Why? Does a tattooed woman not deserve a man? If you love me, why can't you accept it?"

I once heard the saying "Tattooed people are not necessarily bad people, but good people are not tattooed."

I think it makes sense, a person wants to highlight the character in fact, there are many ways, but "the body hair of the parents", even if now open also can not be treated casually, especially tattoos, mom and dad gave you the holy skin, why tattooed on the "mess! "The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money.

And most men if you see, for example, Wang Yixuan's "flower back", I think will not accept, especially with the intention of marriage, and really want to set up a family of men, after all, such tattoos, to give a person the first feeling is not a good girl, not to say that it is not good, but the impression of the impression of not good enough, not to mention to bring home to the parents to see, may be directly angry fainted. The parents to see, may be directly on the gas fainted.

And then there is another point, Wang Yixuan words, "not a few days to see", I also think Wang Yixuan too casual, even if you want to quickly know each other in the tattoo does not care about, but also can not not a few days to show people bare back, as a child do not understand, but grown up Wang Yixuan, I feel that is still not very understanding.

Maybe there are acceptable Wang Yixuan's, but only this chance will be much smaller, also likely to accept Wang Yixuan's man but not Wang Yixuan's favorite.

Life is very much like this "flower back", impulsive time once done, then the future of the knees have to go through, there is no regrets to eat, although this is not what is a big evil bad, but do before you must consider clearly.

Anciently said, "a loss of footsteps into the ancient hatred", then treat their own body must also think twice, do not use a lifetime of regret for the young impulse to pay the bill.