Honest people can't talk and always suffer. What should I do?

Honest people can't talk and always suffer. What should I do? If you can't talk, you don't have to suffer. Some people don't talk much, but their hearts are bright Real people are more likely to gain the trust of others, and friends prefer to associate with such people because there is no poison. On the contrary, some people with good eloquence seem very empty. I have many close friends. Supplement: Listen to others calmly. Some people don't talk much, while others don't understand. If you think about it, others will listen. If you talk too much, you lose. Listening is also a charm and ability. Eloquence is exercised by interacting with people.

The so-called honest man, that is, introverted, mainly communicates less with others, reflects slower than others, and looks stupid. But failure is a blessing. Don't care too much.

Contact and chat with other people more. You will gradually build up your confidence. I won't feel that I always suffer.

First, admit your personality and recognize yourself! Boldly learn what you like, boldly participate in activities or programs that you are interested in, and show your self-style;

Second, everyone is born a winner! There is no good or bad personality, only live high is true. The most important thing is our attitude, our attitude towards ourselves, our work and our life!

Hugo said, without courage, everything is over! Socialization, the invitation of friends, the greetings of family members, when taking a small step, the excitement of life and the sparks of emotional impact will be opened one after another; The most important thing is to have a heart to distinguish truth, goodness and beauty! It is necessary to prevent people!

Fourth, when you put forward this question or idea, in fact, your character has shown the shadow of improvement and transformation! The above * * * encouragement!

Why do honest people always suffer? These days, "honest people suffer, honest people are useless" seems to be a theorem. Therefore, as long as someone hears someone say that this person is honest, then there is no doubt that this person has no future, and even honest people themselves agree with this truth. But is this really the case? Most honest people are not good at talking. ...

The view that honest people will not suffer is urgent! The following is an article written by the author in my portfolio: fly hard, it feels good. You can refer to it

Telling the truth, doing practical things and being honest have always been regarded as the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. However, with the change of people's moral concepts and values, people have been very dissatisfied with being honest, and even think that it is too bad to be honest now. What causes the abnormal phenomenon that honest people always suffer?

First of all, what kind of people are honest? If honest people mean those who only know how to eat pie, then honest people deserve to suffer! But if honest people refer to people who are down-to-earth and work hard, then whether they are bitter or not needs to be studied theoretically. Losing money and not losing money are two relative concepts, not to mention the accident and necessity of "falling a horse is a blessing" and "winning a horse is a curse" Just saying that losing money and not losing money have different standards in different people's eyes. "Smart people" are short of two pounds, so they haggle over every ounce; An "honest man" loses his conscience and destroys his personality, so he is natural and graceful. Therefore, different people will come to different conclusions about the same thing, whether it is a loss or not.

In today's competitive society, it is inevitable that someone will suffer. However, who really suffers? An honest man or a wise man? On the surface, those who think they are smart, engage in petty tricks, gain connections, enter through the back door, take bribes, or even commit corruption, theft and fraud seem to have made a profit, but this is only a temporary gain, and will eventually be morally condemned, and criminal responsibility will be investigated if the circumstances are serious. Didn't they lose a lot? In fact, for honest people everywhere, it is not very bad. In the interview, glib words are not as steady and pragmatic as honest people; At work, have it both ways is not as sincere and moving as an honest man; In communication, both sides are not as safe and reliable as honest people; In feelings, sweet words are not as considerate and frank as honest people; Between friends, the friendship between wine and meat is not as good as that between honest people. In my life, I am not as comfortable and honest as an honest man.

There is a saying: "crying children have milk to eat." The reason is nothing more than that the mother was upset when she heard the child crying, so she held the child's mouth. In social life, those who can make noise and be opportunistic are nothing more than the relevant departments trying to save trouble in their work. Just like evaluating professional titles and housing distribution, anyone who has the cheek to make noise with a leader can often achieve his goal, because being a leader is most afraid of being tough. Honest people often suffer losses, mainly because the relevant departments are lax in law enforcement and the relevant leaders are afraid of making trouble. In fact, it is insulting and irresponsible to give in to those who are opportunistic and can make trouble. Under the condition of market economy, people's understanding of their own interests is by no means what it used to be. How many people are willing to be honest people who suffer losses forever? Personally, people should have a little spirit and not just stare at a little petty profit. But what about organization? It is precisely because so many honest people are needed that honest people should not suffer. It is necessary to cultivate an atmosphere in the unit: honest people are glorious and honest people get the same benefits, thus completely changing people's fear of honest people.

Comrade * * * said that "eating a small loss, taking advantage of a big one" is an honest man. Honest people can be willing to eat a little loss and take it calmly, so in the end, they often gain more than they lose, instead of always suffering. On the other hand, if a person is "keen" on petty gains, the day of big losses is not far from him. It can be seen that even in today's competitive consciousness, the basic principle of our life should still be honesty.

Special ability to speak (04): The way an honest man speaks is related to his sense of humor. Try to be cheerful, and you will naturally be humorous. Of course, you should pay attention to the occasion for such nonsense jokes as Master Xing.

Honest people don't suffer. In the Tang Dynasty, there was a general named Weichi Gong who helped Tang Gaozu Li Yuan conquer the world and made remarkable achievements. After Emperor Taizong Li Shimin ascended the throne, he helped the new emperor govern the world. It can be described as a very human minister. One day, Li Shimin happily invited Wei Chi to the secret room of the palace to tell him something personal. It turned out that he was betrothing his daughter to Weichi Gong. Hearing this, Weichi Gong quickly knelt down and said, "My wife is rude and not beautiful, but we are still husband and wife." "I often hear people mention that the ancients said that it is not easy to have a rich wife and a virtuous person. I appreciate this sentence." Weichi Gong politely declined the emperor's good pleasure. Since then, Li Shimin has more respect for Weichi Gong. Yan Shu of the Northern Song Dynasty was recommended to the imperial court when he was young. On the day I entered the palace, I just caught up with the court exam, so I took the exam together. When he got the topic, it turned out that he had just done it ten days ago. So he took out his draft and handed it to Emperor Song Zhenzong, asking him to write another topic. Zhenzong saw that he was so honest and liked it very much, so he was asked to work in the pavilion. After working in the pavilion, he found that many colleagues often go to places of interest or attend banquets in groups of three or five, and restaurants on the street provide places for these idle officials to play. Only Yan Shu didn't go to play, but stayed at home to study with her brother. A few days later, Zhenzong gave instructions to choose Yan Shu as the assistant officer of the prince. Both the prime minister and the official department officials were puzzled. Zhenzong said, "I heard that the officials in the pavilion have been fooling around recently, inviting guests to dinner, and they have been around the clock. Only Yan Shu studied hard with her brother at home. It is just right for such a cautious and honest person to assist the prince. " When Yan Shu met the emperor, he said honestly, "It's not that I don't want to play or have dinner with my colleagues, but I'm too poor. If I have money, I will definitely go and will not shut myself up at home. " Seeing that Yan Shu was so honest, the emperor was even happier and felt that his choice was really wise. In Song Renzong, Yan Shu was really valued. Your performance was really touching. One is to stand the temptation. Most people want to get rich, and they always try their best to find opportunities to realize their dreams in life. Faced with the excellent opportunity given by the emperor to change their destiny from now on, they even went further in their official career. They didn't cater to the emperor, and they didn't give up their basic life because they pursued immediate interests. But telling the truth, even at the expense of completely exposing the true and disgraceful side of one's soul. Perhaps those speculators think their behavior is downright stupid, but they have won the respect of others for their stupidity, and even the emperor wants such a fool to be a tutor for the prince. The value orientation of society is clear at a glance. Second, it takes a little courage. The emperor wants to betrothed his daughter to Weichi Gong, no matter whether this daughter is a good girl for a wife or not, but she is the daughter of the emperor, and many people are eager for it, even if they make great sacrifices in other aspects. What's more, the emperor also personally introduced the media, and secretly conducted it in the form of private conversation, which really gave him face and showed how much he trusted. Weichi Gong unexpectedly ungrateful, although the reason of delay is also very full, but in any case, it is very embarrassing for the emperor. If you meet a confused emperor, he will definitely be more than one bargained for. Fortunately, the emperor is a wise man. He doesn't care about these things, but respects him. Yan Shu actually said in the golden palace that he had done the topic given by the emperor, didn't he say that he was smarter than the emperor? How dare you walk in front of the emperor. The emperor let him know the truth, and he also said that he actually wanted to eat, drink and be merry like everyone else. Didn't he say that the emperor was blind because he was not allowed to judge people? You two are shameless, but never pose. I wonder what they would be scolded if they were alive today. Today, when everyone pays attention to material interests, honesty is incompetent, honesty is bullied, and honesty will suffer. It has become the knowledge of many people and is used by some people as a negative teaching material to educate future generations. It can be said that people's hearts are not ancient, and people's hearts are not strange. Fortunately, these two guys not only didn't suffer, but they won the trust of the emperor because of their honesty, and their advanced deeds were also celebrated, so they also had a good development in their official careers, and Yan Shu finally became prime minister. It can be seen that honest people do not suffer. -The end of the page-

Why do "honest people" always suffer? How can we not let honest people suffer? Be honest when you should be honest, and not when you shouldn't be honest. People are still better.

Honest people always suffer. What shall we do? Disadvantage is a blessing.