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What does the pastoral girl mean?

The so-called rural girl is not a commendatory term, it refers to those girls who look particularly simple in appearance, but these girls generally have another feature, that is, they are too poisoned by traditional ideas and have no independent consciousness at all.

Rural girls may not have their own skills, but they openly ask men to provide all the necessities of life. If they can't do anything, they will say that the man is useless, not a man.

In short, rural girls are basically useless and have a high opinion of themselves.

First, rural girls may be very simple.

Influenced by the family background, rural girls themselves may not have high requirements for material life, and they are also hardworking, giving people the impression that they are living at home and abroad.

These girls' family background is not very good, so they have developed a simple and hardworking character since childhood. More importantly, the environment in which they lived since childhood has made them particularly hardworking and willing to work hard to solve everything by themselves. Such a girl is a good choice for many men to choose a spouse. Many men like a diligent woman like her mother.

Many introducers on blind date like to introduce these rural girls to men, because their quality and personality are liked by many traditional people.

Second, rural girls have many material requirements.

The biggest problem of rural women lies in the ideological education of family background. Although they are educated very diligently, and their families can't provide them with any financial help, it teaches them to take everything they get from men for granted.

In the education of rural women, men should unconditionally accept women's demands for marriage, such as houses and cars, which should be unconditionally written in women's names.

The most terrible thing is here. They give nothing, but take it for granted. Just because they think they are women, marrying a man requires a man to provide everything.

I am from the countryside, and there are many rural women around me. Many of them have received higher education, but their bones are traditional pedantic thoughts. In the eyes of these people, women's identity gives them a natural sense of superiority, and they think that marriage is a gift they give to men. Therefore, men must unconditionally accept all their harsh demands, otherwise they are insincere.

This kind of girl who takes marriage as a bargaining chip is terrible. In their view, marriage is more like a transaction, in which the man gives the whole family power in exchange for the woman's reproductive rights. If this method is too thorough, it is really disgusting. We don't know how to attack this pedantic traditional thought. Generally speaking, rural women really belong to the dross of the times.