What is China's family concept? I hope to write in detail, and don't copy the comparison of Chinese and foreign family values. . . Urgent! ! ! !

China's family concept is mainly influenced by Confucianism-the bright lintel is the eagle claw of the imperial court. The concept of family in foreign countries is greatly influenced by religion-every man for himself and the devil takes the hindmost. Family view has a lot to do with historical environment and surrounding culture.

First of all, for example, since we are talking about family, why should we put our father's surname first? First of all, China people should repay their kindness. Who raised themselves, their father (don't hit me, ancient people are really heaven, and they have to feed many people), and their age is orderly. Second, if you promise, your father will have face when he goes out, which is cultivated by our family. Third, if your family background is sharp enough, you can call me * * * home outside. Nobody dares to fuck you. Of course, this is the negative side. The main family concept lies in the older generation-jide. Anyway, don't do anything bad for your conscience. No matter how old you are, everything you do has a lot to do with this family, just because your family name is * * *. On the other hand, the concept of family abroad is that you/kloc-leave at the age of 0/8. Doing good and doing bad is your own business, because God says all beings are equal. It is really not a good thing for the whole society, because he has given a person's growth to a nonexistent god.

Secondly, the family family, in China, as long as you are related by blood, you belong to this family, and you can get family protection. Whether it's a big family or a small family, everyone lives together to prevent that once the family interests are infringed, many hands make light work-this is what China people believe (I think it makes sense-three heads are better than one). And foreign families are linked by interests-I believe you are only because of blood. If enough people can be trusted, poor relatives will stand by. They believe in strong alliances. And China's extended family will understand that we have one or two poor relatives who will give alms on holidays (see Granny Liu in A Dream of Red Mansions).

Finally, China's family can only have so-called family precepts-some macro-wordy truths (that is, the big principle of being a man can't be wrong). These dogmas are generally about how to treat people and officials, which are for outsiders to see. But there are many rules and regulations in foreign families (how do you think European gentlemen and ladies come from), and everything they do at home is disciplined. But outside, as long as you give your family benefits, everything will be easy. Don't you see that even the underworld in foreign countries has rules-dressing up and fighting at parties don't hurt your family. Very disciplined. Therefore, there is a saying in China that "cultivate one's morality and cultivate one's sexuality, and put one's family at peace with the world", because family management in China is not an easy task, and it can be done well with family training. Sister-in-law, mother-in-law and brother can do family training, but that is what outsiders see. A few casual words at home will end the war. On the other hand, even in foreign countries, there is a set time for eating together at home-because it is very busy. I can't judge whether this is good or bad. But I know that this is to cultivate the emotional intelligence of a family leader.