Liu Shanren talks about illness instead of complaining about others.

The words "don't complain" are wonderful. Don't complain that others have infinite power. Not only I personally experienced this, but also my family. 1992, the eldest son had a car accident in Changchun, his head was hit by a Dongfeng car and he almost died. The time of the accident was eleven o'clock in the evening, and he called me soon after the accident. At that time, I said to my wife, "you can't die, but your money can't be scattered." We should be prepared psychologically. One more thing, the car that caused the accident is about to run, and we will handle it ourselves. If the car doesn't run, we can't hit him. " Then we went to Changchun by train overnight.

In Changchun, I still can't find the hospital. It took a long time to find my little wife and them. At that time, they were taking us to the hospital, and I said, "Don't go to the hospital yet." They said, "What are you two doing here? Now the condition is very serious. " I said, "Then we won't go to the hospital. Eat something first, sleep, and then go to the hospital. " They said, "Are you so sure?" I said, "I'm not going, he's going." Didn't he look like that when I got there? "That's why we rushed to the hospital after sleeping.

When I got there, my eldest son was still in the emergency room. Although the skull surgery removed the tile residue from my head, I was still in a coma. I spent nine days in the emergency room. When I finally woke up on the tenth day, I could speak, but I didn't know anyone yet. After ten or two days, he had a little understanding and asked me to help him up. As soon as I helped him, he immediately shouted, "No! No! " I said, "What's the matter?" He said, "My back hurts." I was stunned, thinking that this is broken, and my waist bone must be broken. I immediately asked the doctor to check the film, and sure enough, the small bones on both sides of my waist were broken. The doctor wants us to sign at once and prepare for the operation. At that time, I thought, can I operate now? His sanity is still not clear. If he is disobedient after operation, turning around may lead to paralysis of lower limbs. I asked the doctor, "Can you wait two more days until he is fully awake?" The doctor understood my mind and left silently. At that time, I thought to myself: Nothing! This bone is growing fast.

The first time I helped him was in the morning, and when I came back from taking pictures at noon, he asked me to help him again. At that time, the nursing staff refused to let me help, saying that I would help. In case the nerve is compressed, it will be broken. I said, "It won't be that serious." I picked him up. Get up and sit for two minutes, then let him lie down. I think I have been lying down for a long time. I can't take it anymore. In the evening, he asked me to help. An old man next to me was so scared that he came and took my hand and wouldn't let me help him. I said, "Old man, I know you care about him, but don't worry, it's okay." So I helped him up again, and this time he sat for half an hour. I asked him, "How do you feel?" He said: "I don't feel anything, just a little numb, but it doesn't hurt." I said, "That's good." Now I have a bottom. Let it grow naturally.

In the middle of the night, he got up by himself and sat on the bed with his legs lifted. He said, "Dad, look at me. Is it very awesome? " I said, "What are you good at?" He said, "I was still screaming when I helped in the morning, but now it doesn't hurt." I can sit up by myself. I can walk. "I said," don't go, just sit down and lie down. "This time it took him a whole hour to lie down. The next morning, as soon as he stood up, he could sit up and say, "Dad, help me walk. "I helped him walk around the corridor 100 meters.

My son has been in the hospital 19 days, but the doctor didn't stay, so we had to be expelled from the hospital. I said, "The patient next to my son also has brain trauma. Some of them stayed for two months, while others stayed for three months. An old man who crashed into a department store has lived there for four months and is still lying there. Why did you drive us out of the hospital? " The doctor said, "I am the director of brain surgery and have worked in this hospital for forty years." It's so special. I haven't seen anyone like your child in all these years. He recovered too quickly, and every day is the same. How do you suggest I drug him? There was no medicine, so he had to be discharged. "The doctor said so, I have no choice but to ask the doctor:" Just go home and prescribe some medicine. "The doctor thought for a long time and prescribed 20 sleeping pills. I took the medicine in my hand and asked the doctor, "Director Wang, why are you driving this thing?" "The doctor said," When he can't sleep, you can give him one, so that he can keep his brain healthy. "

After such a big car accident, I went home without medicine. What should I eat when I get home? I suddenly had an idea: eat fruit. What fruit do you eat? Eat peaches. I asked my son, "What kind of fruit do you like to eat?" He said, "I don't like anything." That's what I read to him. I looked at the peach, and he said, "This peach is delicious, so I ate it." I let him eat peaches, five pounds a day, and he insisted on eating peaches for two months. When I first came home, my mind was still unclear and my mind was upside down. After eating peaches for two months, my waist recovered and my head recovered.

Later, I was surprised myself. It cost 3,400 yuan for my son to leave the hospital, and 40,000 yuan for the people next to him,170,000. The old man who was hit by a department store spent 320 thousand, lived for four months, and had to continue to live. How did my son get well so soon? Later I found the answer, but I don't complain! This is a good proof of the power of not complaining! If we can do it without complaining, the poison gas will not go in, but will only go out. Can we get better? There are many people now. If you touch him once, you will be wronged. You can give him as much money as you want, and you can control him for as many years as you want. Such people are the most heartless. He thought he took advantage, but in fact he created an evil cause, and the evil cause will bear the consequences. There are still many people who are ill in hospital, and his family all go to wait on him and take care of him. He is not only ungrateful, but also resentful. Isn't that aggravating the illness?

1996, a psychopath came to my home. How can a mental patient be normal? That madness comes up as soon as it comes up, and no one can control it. One day during a nap, my eldest son was squatting with a shovel. The mental patient picked up an axe and cut five axes according to the back of my son's head, crushing his left skull. Oh, dear! That really scared me to death! My wife gave me a quick look for the first time and shouted, "Old man! You can kill people now! "

We quickly pulled our son to the county hospital, thinking about sewing him up when we got to the hospital. But when I got to the hospital, the hospital didn't dare to move at all. I quickly transferred to Bei' an Hospital for brain CT. The result of CT is the collapse of the left cephalic angle. My son's right skull is missing. Fortunately, these five axes were not cut in the pit. If you cut into the pit, is there life? After understanding the situation, Professor Zhang from Bei 'an Hospital said that craniotomy was needed. When I heard the sentence of craniotomy, my brain fainted and I almost fainted. Still have to open your head? If you open the skull again, won't your brain be flat? At that time, I thought, if you really want to do craniotomy, you can not do it here and go to Changchun to see a doctor. We slept in Bei 'an all night, and I was shaking when I woke up. I don't think it matters. There should be no problem. Although I think so in my heart, I still have to sound out the attitude of my son and daughter-in-law. As a result, when I told them, they didn't complain at all They didn't say, "If you don't talk about illness, can I be laid off?" If you were an ordinary daughter-in-law, you would not swear. Can You Ever Forgive Me? But they said nothing. They didn't say anything. I asked my son, "How did you sleep last night?" He said: "I didn't feel any pain after sleeping all night, and I didn't feel anything." I said, "You two should discuss whether we should have surgery. The doctor can say that if you don't have surgery, you will get epilepsy after three years. " My son is a Woodenhead, and that man is very stubborn. He said, "Nothing, it doesn't hurt or itch, so there is no epilepsy!" " Dad, if you want to say no surgery, I'll go home. "I said," go home. "In this way, we went home. Three days after returning home, my son went to farm with him.

Why not have an operation and get well so soon? Still a person who doesn't complain. Afterwards, the family members of mental patients sent us money, but I didn't accept his money. I said, "My son is fine, which is a great joy." Besides, it's good for the mental patient to go home, which scares him. This kind of mental illness is really fantastic when it goes crazy, and the whole somersault is tossed around.

On April 27th, 2006, my second nephew went to the county to pull fertilizer. When loading the car, there were three bags left under it. He was bending down to pick it up, but the fertilizer pile fell and broke his leg bone. The boss took him to the hospital for filming. As a result, his right leg ligament was crushed and his knee cracked, which was as wide as the head of a chopstick. The doctor told him, "you have to be hospitalized, and you should be fixed with plaster for 28 days first." My nephew said, "I can't do it in 28 days. I still have more than 200 acres of land to plant. " The doctor said, "Do you still want to farm? Even if it is good, I can't work this year. " My nephew said, "That won't do. I am not in the hospital, I have to go back. " The boss was sweating at that time and said, "Do you want this leg? Let me support you for life? How much do I have to pay you? " My nephew said, "I can't let you pay." You didn't let the fertilizer pile up on purpose, I was careless. You can take me home, no matter whether it is good or not in the future. " The boss said, "That's a written document. We both have to sign. " He said, "OK, write it." After writing, the boss sent him back.

My second nephew was still living with me at that time. When he got home, he couldn't get out of the car, so he needed two people to help him. I went up to him and asked him, "What's the matter?" He said, "I broke my leg." I said, "What's that like?" He said: "The ligament is broken, the knee is cracked, and the chopstick head is so wide." As soon as I heard it, it was quite serious. I said, "Why did I hit you?" He said, "I know." I said, "It's good to know. Come in. " We helped him into the house, and the family said, "Why not let the boss treat us?" I said, "Cure what! What a coincidence! Why did you hit him? Or he should. "

My nephew sat on the kang for a day and a night, and he was able to go to the fields by himself the next day. How did he grow so fast? I was puzzled, too, so I asked him, "Is your leg cold or hot?" He said, "It's cool when you feel cool." I said, "It doesn't matter. The poison gas will go out and get better soon. It only takes a few days. " On the third day, he was able to walk, but slowly. At that time, it was the time to sow, and more than 200 acres of land in the family were still completely dependent on him. On the fourth day, he began to make preparations before sowing. On the fifth day, he went to the seeder to sow.

The doctor who treated my nephew was my in-laws. He scolded my nephew at that time: "Why are you so stupid?" Hit you, don't let him treat you? Does it cost nothing? "In fact, my nephew didn't spend a penny on his leg. What power is this? The power of not complaining. Therefore, Wang said, "If you don't complain about others, you can become a Buddha. "No matter who or what you meet, don't complain, change yourself more and criticize yourself more, and you can become a Buddha.