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A combination of politeness and etiquette.

In study, work and life, many people have had the experience of writing and are familiar with it. Writing is a transition from internal speech to external speech, that is, from compressed and concise language that they can understand to developed and standardized grammatical structure that others can understand. Do you know how to write a good composition? The following is my carefully arranged composition on civilized etiquette, hoping to help everyone.

Composition on Civilized Etiquette 1 In modern times, civilized etiquette is the standard to measure a person, the symbol of human progress and the necessity of social life.

Confucius said, "If you don't learn manners, you can't stand." Mencius said: "Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others." We in China have been very particular about etiquette since ancient times, and are known as a country of etiquette. As a primary school student, we should be civilized and understand etiquette.

However, around us, we will always see some students' uncivilized behavior. Some students sometimes make "waterfalls" upstairs, but this "waterfall" is not inferior to Huangguoshu Waterfall; Sometimes, dazzling "masterpieces" are left on the white wall, and this "masterpiece" is not inferior to the Preface to the Lanting written by the book sage Wang Xizhi; Some students don't understand their parents' hard work and busyness at home and don't listen to their teachers at school. Uncivilized speech and rude behavior make civilization lose its beauty and etiquette lose its love.

Actually, politeness is very simple. In school, scraps of paper and peels are not littered, and "waterfalls" are not made casually. When you see garbage, you should take the initiative to pick it up, listen carefully in class, don't make noise after class, walk quietly in the corridor, tilt up and down the stairs to the right, greet the teacher when you meet classmates, give up your seat on the bus, be polite, respect each other, and treat people with good conduct. In this way, we not only achieved civilization, but also publicized it. As long as everyone takes a small step in civilization, social civilization will take a big step. As an ordinary citizen of Anshun, we should carry forward the good habit of stressing civilization and keeping etiquette, and start from every little thing around us. We should regulate ourselves, manage ourselves and educate ourselves with civilized behavior in words and deeds. In short, civilized etiquette is not only in the classroom, at home, but also always in mind, regardless of geographical space.

Knowing civilization and being polite is what we started to learn in primary school. Let's work together to build China into a country of civilization and etiquette.

Composition 2: Respect each other in manners and manners, and be modest and courteous in speaking. Be good at understanding each other and then talk about the topic according to the situation. We should listen carefully to other people's conversations, encourage and guide them to clear their minds. Correct opinions should be agreed; Different views, if there is no question of principle, you might as well listen for a while without delving into it; If it is a matter of principle, you can tell the other party diplomatically and express your views, but don't make trouble without reason and embarrass others. If you want to avoid anything that directly offends others' feelings, you should avoid all arbitrary remarks in your speech.

When two people are talking, it is best to maintain the same level of eye contact and show mutual respect. Don't look around when you speak, and don't stare at each other intently or coldly, which will cause the other person's unhappiness. When you speak, you can also use some gestures to strengthen your tone and emphasize the content. But don't gesture too loudly, it will make people feel uncomfortable, and it is considered impolite to point your finger at each other.

When you speak, you should pronounce it as clearly as possible, neither too fast nor too slow. Speak in a moderate voice, so that the other party can be clear and not interfere with the surrounding conversation.

When interacting with people, it is inevitable that there will be some contradictions, and sometimes there will be some unreasonable demands that require us to say "no". Therefore, we should pay attention to some refusal skills, so as to refuse others without losing courtesy. Sometimes, when we want to refuse each other, we can treat each other as friends, tell our difficulties and ask them to observe and understand from their own perspective. As long as you are sincere, you won't care about convenience.

We can choose a local aspect to affirm first and then deny the main aspect of the problem, because if we don't take the form of negation, the other party will have the opportunity to step down and it will be easier for the other party to accept.

When rejecting others, it is best not to be too quick, "let me think about it", and it is best to delay for a while to ease the atmosphere. It would be better if we could avoid refusing in person. In this way, you can not only avoid the embarrassment of refusing in person, but also make the other person feel that you answered his question after careful consideration.

China is known as the "state of etiquette", and it is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation to be polite to others. As middle school students, we should cultivate higher quality and be better civilized people.

So what is civilization? Civilization is the sweet smile when we meet on the road, the kindness and tolerance when we usually get along with others, the greeting when we meet the teacher, the "sorry" when we accidentally bump into each other, and the act of putting garbage into the dustbin consciously ... Civilization lies in the careful little things in our daily life.

To be a civilized person, you should be polite. For example, when you meet a teacher on campus, you should take the initiative to say hello instead of bowing your head and passing by.

To be a civilized person, we should speak civilized words. Not shut up, swearing. If you are a person with strong self-esteem, you should not be looked down upon by others and feel that you are an uneducated person.

To be a civilized person, you should respect others. For example, when students answer questions, we shouldn't whisper at the bottom, which is uncivilized. We should listen carefully to other people's opinions, so as to stimulate the spark of our wisdom.

To be a civilized person, you should behave in a civilized way. When arguing with classmates, don't talk about heroes with your fists. You should talk to your classmate rationally and forgive that classmate generously. This can reduce unnecessary criticism and enhance the friendship between students. Isn't it killing two birds with one stone!

To be a civilized person, you should cultivate good habits. For example: on the bus, take the initiative to give up your seat; When you see garbage, pick it up and throw it into the trash can; Don't make any noise in public. During the big recess, no running, no chasing and no dangerous games are allowed.

Sow an action, reap a habit, sow a habit, and reap a character. Let's plant civilization now and finally reap the fruitful results of civilized etiquette!

When it comes to etiquette, people usually recall some important occasions to use it. In fact, there are rituals in life.

Etiquette is the minimum moral standard that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal life of society. It is gradually formed in people's long-term life and communication and is fixed by customs and traditions. For a person, etiquette is the external expression of a person's ideological and moral level, cultural literacy and communicative competence. For a society, etiquette is a reflection of a country's social civilization, morality and living habits. Paying attention to and developing etiquette education has become an important content of moral practice.

The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. From the content point of view, there are appearance, behavior, expression, clothing, speech, treating people and so on; From the object, there are personal etiquette, public etiquette, hospitality etiquette, table etiquette, gift etiquette, civilized communication and so on. The code of conduct in the process of interpersonal communication is called etiquette, and the performance of etiquette in speech action is called politeness. To strengthen moral practice, we should pay attention to etiquette, so that people can communicate with each other on the principle of "respecting others, self-discipline, moderation and sincerity" and bid farewell to uncivilized words and deeds.

Etiquette, etiquette and politeness are rich and varied, but each has its own regularity. Its basic etiquette principles are: first, the principle of respecting people; Second, the principle of self-discipline, that is, self-denial, prudence, initiative, voluntariness, courtesy, self-comparison, self-reflection, self-demand, self-discipline, self-control, arrogance, duplicity; The third is the principle of moderation, moderation and control; Fourth, the principle of sincerity, treat people sincerely, treat people sincerely, don't take part in accidental amusement, and behave differently.

Politeness is very important to us, so we should form good habits from an early age.

We should be polite everywhere and at all times, because it is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation to treat people in a civilized way.

Civilization, do you know what to do? Civilization is when teachers or classmates meet and say hello; Is to live in peace with others and not fight; It is kind, friendly, generous and tolerant; Is to consciously pick up the scraps of paper on the ground and add a new green to the earth.

"Civilization is to start from the little things around us."

We should learn to be polite, not curse, to help others, and to love others. When class is over on campus, we can always hear the swearing words blurted out by our classmates, and we can always see some students littering casually, which destroys our learning environment. How uncivilized these behaviors are! We should start with small things, be civilized, be polite, help others, care about others, give them roses and leave incense in our hands. So please remember, whenever and wherever, we should talk about civilization, start with small things and create a civilized and beautiful environment.

"behave in a civilized manner and stay away from vulgarity"

To be a civilized person is to stay away from vulgarity and barbarism. Sometimes there are some small misunderstandings between classmates. Some students will laugh it off, some will let other students comment that this is a civilized behavior, but some students will solve it with vulgar behavior of beating and cursing each other. This is barbaric. Please remember: vulgar and barbaric behavior will never solve the problem.

Students, sow an action and reap a habit; Sow a habit and reap a character. Civilized things are easy to do, but they are very important and the most difficult thing in life. Let's start from now on, from word and deed, bit by bit, develop good civilized habits, speak civilized words, do civilized things, be civilized people, and let our flowers of civilization and etiquette bear rich fruits.

Composition 6 on Civilized Etiquette What is Civilized Etiquette? China was once laughed at by foreigners for littering and swearing ... As a China man, he should know what manners are. Civilized etiquette language has been seen in many places: when shopping outside, you should know "no spitting or littering"; When you meet a teacher, you should know how to say, "Hello, teacher!" " " ; When raising the flag, the clothes should be neat; When you get help from others, you should say, "Thank you! " ; When you accidentally hurt someone, you should say, "I'm sorry! " " ; No fighting, no swearing. These are all civilized manners, and people get along with each other, of course, without civilized manners. Although you think it's simple, uncivilized behavior will emerge when you relax, so you should pay attention!

In our life, we often encounter uncivilized behavior. Let me talk about it!

Once, my mother and I went shopping and suddenly saw an aunt tear up a piece of paper, then threw it on the ground and left casually. I quickly went up to pick up the paper and threw it into the trash can. By that time, my aunt had run away without a trace. Another time, when I came home from school, I saw a little girl walking around, spitting on the lawn and staggering away. I caught up with her and caught her. Whispered to her: "Little sister, do you think spitting is right?" The little girl looked at her spit and said, "I'm sorry." I smiled at her.

You can see it at school. There are many pictures of little people on the wall, because others are doodling, which destroys the beauty of the campus. When the flag is raised, people often hear whispering; When playing games, I often hear people swearing and fighting. ...

Students, have you ever had these uncivilized behaviors? If so, please make it up quickly! Social civilization, starting from you and me, starting from now, starting from small things. Let's form the good habit of being polite from childhood, and we will grow up happily.

Etiquette is self-discipline, being a citizen is a norm, and it is a respect for others. The ancients said, "If you don't learn etiquette, you won't stand.". Civilized etiquette is not only the embodiment of personal quality and education, but also the embodiment of personal morality and social morality.

In the Eastern Han Dynasty, Huang Xiang was only nine years old. She knew how to respect the old, love the young and be filial to her parents. In the cold winter, warm your parents' quilts with your body, and then let your parents sleep peacefully; In hot summer, fans are used to cool parents and repel mosquitoes, so as to serve their parents to sleep peacefully. Huang Xiang Warm Seats is a traditional filial piety etiquette in China, honoring parents and starting from small things.

In the past century, due to various reasons, some excellent ethics have been destroyed to varying degrees. Nowadays, people have a stronger economic foundation for filial piety to the elderly than in the past, and their hearts are gone. Mention honor to parents, not powerless, but powerful and unintentional.

During the Zhenguan period of the Tang Dynasty, Huilong Kingdom in Xicheng was a vassal state of the Tang Dynasty. Once, in order to show its friendship with the Tang Dynasty, Huilongguo sent messengers to see the king of the Tang Dynasty, the most precious of which was the white swan. On the way, the white swan doesn't want to fly away. The messenger only plucked a few goose feathers, but failed to catch the white swan. The messenger gave the goose feather to Emperor Taizong with trepidation. Tang Daizong didn't blame him, but felt that he was loyal and honest and didn't disgrace his mission. Since then, the story of "a thousand miles to send goose feathers, courtesy is light and affection is heavy" has spread.

China's traditional etiquette should be a way of life that embodies spiritual values. Inheriting and recording it can make our etiquette develop.

After all, traditional etiquette is the blood of China for thousands of years. If there is no blood connection, China can only be called a modern country, not China. China's traditional etiquette culture is profound enough to make Chinese and overseas people proud. It is an important cohesive force of the Chinese nation. Without it, China people will lose themselves. Without it, China would be an empty shell.

Throughout the development of ancient and modern countries, no nation in the world has denied its traditional etiquette, and no nation will think that its excellent traditional etiquette is outdated and harmful. China's traditional etiquette culture also followed. This is the responsibility of every Chinese son and daughter. Only in this way can we say loudly, "I'm from China!" "

Composition on Civilization and Etiquette 8 The Chinese nation has always been known as "the country of etiquette". Politeness is an excellent traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Etiquette is everywhere, which can show a person's moral cultivation and enhance the friendship between people. Then how can we learn to be a polite and good student?

Pupils should dress appropriately, conform to their status, and reflect the spirit of students in the new century, because your appearance and manners make people know your accomplishment at a glance. The flag-raising ceremony is the most solemn. This reflects the national flag of civilization and blood, which is more vivid under the encirclement of etiquette! At this moment, under the national flag, we should sing the national anthem seriously and in full spirit, and live up to the reputation of "the state of etiquette"!

I know a story about civilized manners, the title of which is Ceng Zi's Absence. Ceng Zi's absence from his seat is a very famous story in the Book of Filial Piety.

Ceng Zi is an apprentice of Confucius. Once he sat next to Confucius, who asked him, "The king of the sages has supreme moral character, which is used to teach people all over the world and make them live in harmony. There is no discontent between the king and the minister. Do you know what they are? " Hearing this, Ceng Zi understood that the teacher Confucius wanted to show him the deepest truth. So I immediately stood up from the mat where I was sitting, went outside the mat and respectfully replied, "I'm not smart enough." How should I know? Please ask the teacher to teach me these truths. " Here, "avoiding seats" is a very polite behavior. When Ceng Zi heard that the teacher was going to teach him, he stood up and went to the mat to ask the teacher for advice to show his respect for the teacher. Ceng Zi's polite stories are told by later generations, and many people learn from him.

Students, let's learn more about manners, let everyone know manners, and be a civilized boy!

The bright sunshine blooms your smiling face. When the slightest breeze blows over your cheeks, do you feel that spring is coming, students? Spring is beautiful. What should we do in this beautiful spring campus?

When you walk into school at a brisk pace, will you think of those classmates who often sweep the floor with a broom in their hands? When you are wandering in a clean and tidy campus, do you feel the hardships of those grandfathers and grandmothers driving tractors and trolleys? We know that spring is beautiful, but you should know that the campus in spring is pure and civilized!

Students, in such a beautiful campus, how can we ignore the flying peels and scraps of paper without reaching out? How can you bear to let the clean wall leave all kinds of handwriting and footprints, and also give a gloating laugh? How can you play with swords and shadows in front of classmates and friends and jump the queue to grab? How can you leave school and home behind your teacher's back, regardless of his feelings? Didn't you notice a trace of worry and fatigue in the teacher's eyes? Students, a beautiful campus not only needs everyone's efforts, but also needs your civility and courtesy!

Civilization is the wind, which can blow every student's heart; Civilization is a flower that can make the campus more beautiful. Students, let's swear in the quiet morning of October and bright sunshine: start from small things, start from the side, lead the civilized atmosphere, create a civilized campus and strive to be civilized students! I believe that through our efforts, our big family will be as full of hope and vitality as spring!

Composition on Civilized Etiquette 10 In this colorful world, we should pay attention to civilized etiquette everywhere, because civilized etiquette is the first step for people to get along and talk, and it is a bridge between hearts. Politeness is indispensable between people. Civilized manners will make people have a very good first impression on you, and vice versa. Therefore, as a primary school student, civility and etiquette are the most basic principles.

Pupils are a good opportunity to carry out civilized etiquette education. If you lay a solid foundation at this time, civilization will reward you with a bright spring. Spring breeze, gently brushing your cheeks; The drizzle in spring moistens the earth; The sunshine in spring is bright and warm; The earth is green in spring. As long as you sow the beautiful seeds of civilization and etiquette at the right time, you will definitely return a towering tree. How can we make seedlings grow into big trees? This needs irrigation. What is irrigation? Irrigation is education, irrigation is knowledge, and only healthy knowledge is the magic weapon to make our "seedlings" grow into towering trees.

There are many kinds of civilized etiquette education: respecting the old and caring for the young, respecting teachers and attaching importance to teaching, being modest and patient, being polite to others, using language carefully, being orderly, and respecting others ... these are the key points of civilized etiquette education. Respecting the old and loving the young is the virtue of the Chinese nation. In public places, respecting the old and loving the weak will always make others give you a favorable look.

Respecting teachers and attaching importance to teaching is a basic requirement for students in some schools. Teachers should be respected and education should be emphasized. Modesty and forbearance refer to a measure taken when others challenge you or bully you. When someone challenges you, you should avoid it euphemistically, change his mind with euphemistic language, and you should stop others from fighting. Politeness means being polite when you meet your elders, and respecting the team when you face your teachers. ...

Civilization and courtesy, starting from me and starting from childhood, let us all work together to create a civilized and polite social atmosphere.

Civilized etiquette composition 1 1 Good behavior habits are the premise to ensure our smooth study and the foundation to establish a healthy personality.

Students who don't have good behavior habits at school may be undisciplined and don't pay attention to hygiene, which will disturb the learning environment of the class; On the contrary, if we develop civilized behavior habits, the learning environment must be good and orderly. We know that students can only build a good learning environment and create a good learning atmosphere if they have good civilized behavior habits.

I remember that on the eve of June 1 ST, there was a get-together in the class, and everyone signed up for it. Many students have to use their desks and stools when decorating the classroom. I thought someone would jump on the table again and again, but the students brought old newspapers from other places and spread them on the table, then stood up carefully and wiped the table again and again before putting it back. ...

Seeing this scene, I was moved for a long time and thought for a long time. People have always attached great importance to civilization. Civilization, in fact, is only the thickness of a piece of paper, or even just a word moved. A "hello" blooms your and my smiles; A "sorry" melted the ice and snow in my heart; The phrase "after you" won the praise of others; The sentence "I help you" has established a spiritual exchange. ...

Civilization and etiquette are the foundation of our study and life, and the arm of our healthy growth. Without civilization, there will be no basic moral standards, so even if we have profound scientific and cultural knowledge, what is the use to people and society?

To learn everything and be a real person is to learn to be a man first.

Learn to be a civilized person and a social person.

Clean the environment, civilized campus, starting from me, starting from every little thing, let the flowers of civilized etiquette bloom everywhere in the campus.