How do men look at marriage

How do men look at marriage

How do men look at marriage, men and a woman together to see her appearance character, men and a woman married to see the background character, men will pay more attention to the results, for the process but not so much attention, I and we take a look at how men look at marriage.

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Often, in the men and women treat the point of marriage, their concepts are almost different.

When you grow up, you will know that the people who say that they will accompany you through this life are a lot of people, but there are not many who can really accompany you through.

Some time ago, I accompanied my father to the hospital to visit his previous **** thing of an elder.

This uncle had stomach cancer before, removed part of the stomach, recently the health condition of the ups and downs, can only be temporarily hospitalized for observation.

All the other beds are accompanied by their partners, or have children to visit, but only the uncle's bed is not even accompanied by a nurse, and compared with the other people's lively, it seems particularly cold and lonely.

However, the reason behind this coldness and loneliness is actually known to us.

It was 20 years ago that my uncle earned some money from his own company, and he began to socialize frequently, and he didn't come home for more than half a month at the worst time.

This is just what the uncle wanted: his wife has been looking at the eyes, the divorce just back to the free body.

Since the divorce, the uncle did have a few years of free time. No one to discipline and constraints, and no one to call home, want to spend money to spend money, want to date dating, so not free and happy.

But little by little, my uncle realized that his side was getting more and more empty.

Those who say that they love his little girl, a word on the breakup of the goodbye; around the friends are busy taking care of their own wives and children, there is no time to come out to socialize and play; the only son went abroad, it is difficult to come back to visit often.

People to the middle age, even lived into a widow, can not say is not heartbreaking.

Uncle particularly emotional, said, "sick these years, often remember not divorced when the clothes are always clean, the pot of food is always hot."

"At my age ah, more money is secondary, really want to have a companion ah."

Once thought to get rid of nagging troublesome wife is a relief, to the old only know, alone alone lonely and desolate, simply can not bear.

Every couple, are life and death, because every marriage to the end, in fact, is a life to another life entrusted.

The significance of marriage is never as simple as a piece of paper and a partnership.

Some people may think that marriage means a family and a complete life for a man.

But is it really that simple?

In September of last year, a 61-year-old man's resignation letter was all over the Internet.

It reads: "I'm going to take my wife to Lake Baikal to shoot the wedding, which has always been her wish. At my age I will understand that the wife is the most important."

It turned out that the old man's wife signed up for a free trip to take wedding photos, and was lucky to be selected. In order not to delay the old partner's work, so it is ready to refuse.

As a result, the old man heard, directly wrote this letter of resignation, cheerfully told his old partner: I resigned, and now go to accompany you to take wedding photos!

Later, the old man said with emotion, "Married for so many years, to this age more and more understand, compared to the rest of life, wife is the most important."

Yes, parents will be the first to leave, friends will be far away, the child will grow up, but only the pillow, will always be with you.

From the day of the license, couples are inextricably linked. Parents are each other's parents, children are **** the same children, even property is **** the same property.

More importantly, you will raise your children together, send your parents away together, and then accept the eventual arrival of aging and parting together.

This road, there will be the most helpless and weak time, there will be the most painful and despondent time, there will be the most lonely and confused time, and as long as the thought of so one person, always accompanied by the left and right, *** with the fate of the bearer, the life will not feel bitter.

By that time, your feelings for each other in addition to love, and the righteousness of the liver and guts, never give up the tacit understanding, as well as engraved in the heart of the favor.

This is a long life, if a person stumbles alone, inevitably lonely and difficult, feel the road is long. But if someone walks with you, the memory is no longer pain, but a little sweet.

Especially when you are by your side.

The world of good love, in fact, are similar:

25 years old, you got married, the bedroom is full of sweet wedding photos; 28 years old, you have their own children, trying to learn how to do a good job as a mother and a good father. 33 years old, you come home from work, he is in the kitchen rolled up his sleeves, do your favorite meal; 40 years old, your birthday, he took you and the children to go eat a candlelight dinner; 60 years old, he took you and the children to eat a candlelight dinner. The most fortunate thing about life is that when you are old and gray, you still have someone to accompany you through the rain, snow, wind and frost, and then this ordinary life, it is worth it.

We have often heard that "the young man and his wife will be with him in his old age".

So, we will not envy the couples kissing on the street, but we will envy the old people walking in the sunset.

Everyone knows that companionship is the longest confession, but how many people, mouth said to accompany you, but so busy that there is no time; and how many feelings, promised to grow old together, but simply too late to experience the birth of a child, aging, disease and death, has been faltering.

The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night. Only the side of the pillow, will always accompany their own to the end, to become their own rely on.

The more intelligent men, the more they know how to love their wives, and a pain is a lifetime.

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From the different perspectives of men and women to analyze, men focus on results, women focus on details. That is to say, if a woman wants to marry a man, she will think more about whether the man is good for her, in the details of whether to make her feel good. If a man wants to marry a woman, he will consider who the woman is and whether she is more adaptable to the future marriage life.

In terms of loyalty to marriage, men are more loyal to their marriage and their choices than women. How? That is, once a man and a woman are married, rarely think about divorce, even if there is an extramarital affair (extramarital affair is the practice of men to avoid marriage), not to a certain extent, men do not want to separate. And if a woman has an affair, it's kind of hard to go back.

From the emotional side, men are more dry, women are a bit of a drag. Women consider the family factor will be much more than men, so there will be more tangled and difficult to put down. But if a man says he broke up today, he may find a new girlfriend tomorrow, because in his mind, he broke up yesterday. It is natural to start a new life. So many women can't understand this about men.

If marriage is a woman's first, then career is a man's first. Women think that if the home is not good, what is the use of money? Men think that if there is no money, how to support the family! So at this point, it is difficult for a man to understand how much harm an extramarital affair can do to a woman, and it is difficult for a woman to understand how much of a blow a man's unsuccessful career can be to a man.

Of course, the above is only the majority of the situation analyzed, not absolute. But there are many differences between women and men, and it's easier to understand and accept each other in a marriage when you understand these differences.

Marriage is a marathon, we need to care for each of us, there are ways to operate, may everyone in the marriage are well.

If couples do not have any difficulties with each other in life, but improve the emotional life is not the first to start from the other side of the troubleshooting. In fact, the daily little things and certain details of life, are the favorable conditions for improving feelings, so improve and enhance the relationship to start from the little things, to start from the details. In life, there are few opportunities to let you do those who make the lover grateful and even grateful to remember the great things for life - even if you do, you can not take credit for it; moreover, you can not do nothing to bring their own credit in the mouth, so as to avoid causing psychological pressure on the lover, otherwise it will affect the harmony of the relationship. Only your humility and sincerity, will let the lover of your heart touched; at the same time, you but always keep in mind the lover of your good, and to learn to use the language at the appropriate time to the lover of the good out, but not false compliments.