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A village in Shanxi, the provisions of the funeral shall not be wearing mourning, in the rural areas of red and white wedding ceremony is it necessary to do?

First of all, nowadays in the rural areas of the red and white wedding ceremony, mainly because everyone's living standards have improved greatly, and we also know that for China's rural areas, their thinking is still relatively traditional, so a lot of things are willing to follow some of the old rules, not willing to change. For example, in the white matter this thing, nowadays is still a big manipulation of the mourning. But nowadays we all know for the dead after the pi Ma Di Di Da Duo do is just play to the living to see, not as good as in life to relatives, more filial piety some of their elders, which is better than the present day Da Duo Da Duo.

And for the red matter, nowadays many people also like to do, think it is a family affair, in fact, relative to the red do to do to do to do than the white matter do to do more upscale, of course, for the situation we understand, after all, it is the two people a lifetime of things, but there is no need to be too wasteful. It is important to know that there are many countries around the world that still don't have enough food to eat and water to drink, and even in many areas there are children who die of starvation and freezing to death every year.

In fact, in my opinion, nowadays the rural red and white wedding ceremony is really unnecessary. First of all, for the marriage of such things, in fact, there is no need to half of the scale is too large, after all, for the marriage is only two family things, as long as the husband and wife of two people together, as long as the two families in harmony, then even if it is not held a wedding or things do not do as big as the same have been particularly sweet and happy.

Today we take the showbiz stars, for those who do not move on the tens of millions of wedding is simply too casual, but we also know that even if they spend tens of millions of dollars in the wedding, the last is not to divorce ended, such as everyone is familiar with the car Xiao, her wedding but spent 50 million of the world's weddings, but still only lasted a year! The first time, it is not a good idea to have a wedding ceremony, but it is a good idea to have a wedding ceremony.

However, there are many celebrity couples in the entertainment industry who have not organized any weddings, but are still very happy today. For example, we are familiar with Sun Li and Huang Lei's couple. They did not hold a wedding in the beginning, but only in the first two years, Huang Lei for Sun Li to hold a wedding. And their wedding is also very simple, invited some friends and relatives to bless, and did not make a big deal, but their life is still very happy and fulfilling.

We're going to talk about the fact that a white wedding is completely unnecessary because it's a waste of resources. As long as a loved one is taken care of during his or her lifetime, it's better than any other big event. Being there for your loved ones while they are still alive and taking care of them is much more useful than burning any gold or silver treasure for them thereafter.