How to be a qualified daughter-in-law

How to be a qualified wife? As a woman, it is difficult to get the approval of her mother-in-law. For many girls, it is very difficult not only to do laundry and cook, but also to take care of children. Let's see how to be a qualified good wife.

How to be a qualified good wife 1 As the saying goes, a soldier who doesn't want to be a general is not a good soldier. Similarly, a woman who marries a woman and doesn't want to be a good wife is not a good woman. In fact, every woman wants to do this, but many times she is at a loss and doesn't know how to do it.

First, have your own job. In today's society, many wives rely on their husbands to earn money to support their families at home after marriage, whether they are housewives or rich wives at home, but in the eyes of their in-laws, their daughters-in-law are all raised by their sons. In this way of thinking, their daughter-in-law is at a disadvantage in the family. Work not only means that we have a stable income, but also represents our independent personality. After all, in today's society, there are too few women who are housewives at home, and there are still many choices to play the role of professional women. Outside, be independent.

Secondly, the essence of being a good wife. The divorce rate in China is getting higher and higher, which fully proves the seriousness of the problem between daughter-in-law and husband. Of course, the responsibility lies with both sides. However, in the hearts of parents-in-law, the daughter-in-law must do it first. No philandering, no debauchery, no romance. Treat your husband sincerely, take care of him carefully, be loyal to him, cherish love, marriage and family.

Third, respect and filial piety your in-laws. Whether it is filial piety to parents or parents-in-law, in our hearts, it is appropriate to honor parents and be kind to elders. This is not only the tradition of our country, but also the quality that a person must possess. Of course we will take care of our parents when they are old, and we are willing to take care of our parents around us. Similarly, after marriage, in-laws become their own parents, and we should face them with the same mentality.

Finally, learn to do housework. Fewer and fewer daughters-in-law do housework, and more and more in-laws do housework. My parents-in-law became nannies, cooking, washing clothes, cleaning, watering flowers and doing things for the whole family. Daughter-in-law-more leisurely than princess, even bossing her parents around. In fact, it's no big deal for a daughter-in-law to do less housework, because her parents-in-law are willing. However, if you don't do or can't do any housework, the problem will be big.

How to be a qualified daughter-in-law II. She can cook and do housework.

The so-called wife and mother, no room to go out, into the kitchen. Although it is not necessary for a daughter-in-law to cook and do housework, a daughter-in-law who can cook and do housework is undoubtedly more likely to please her in-laws.

Be polite.

Daughter-in-law must be polite, always pay attention to her behavior, respect the elderly at home, and be polite when dealing with others outside.

Get along well with your neighbors.

As the saying goes, a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor. Daughter-in-law is the main role in dealing with neighborhood relations. A daughter-in-law who doesn't get along well with her neighbors is easily rejected by her in-laws.

Will take care of the children.

Children are the pride and wealth of many in-laws. If a daughter-in-law can't even take care of her own children, it is difficult to get the approval of her in-laws.

Help her family impartially.

As the saying goes, marry a chicken with a chicken and marry a dog with a dog. Now that you are married, you should think more from your husband's point of view. When you have problems with your family, don't be partial to them.

Know how to manage money.

In China, people are used to the fact that women are in charge of the financial affairs of the family, so women must learn how to manage money. It should be noted that financial management does not mean living a tight life, but trying to find ways to increase revenue and reduce expenditure.

Matters needing attention

A good daughter-in-law should not only be filial to her elders, but also maintain family harmony.