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It is controversial to dance square dance in front of the funeral home to bid farewell to the elderly. Can you accept this custom?

We all know that there are some strange customs in many places. Although there are different cultural differences in many places, there are also many different customs. We should respect some of their customs. Just as others respect our customs, it is a truth. But there are many customs that make us puzzled, because they are really unreasonable, which makes us feel very surprised and strange.

Just like dancing in the square dance at the funeral home to bid farewell to the old man who died, this incident puzzled many netizens. Some netizens said that it seems a bit inappropriate to jump so happily in front of the deceased, and it is also a disrespect for the deceased. Originally, the death of a loved one was a very sad thing. Shouldn't we respect the dead and hold a memorial service quietly?

Personally, how to say this custom, good or bad, is also someone else's business, so don't interfere too much, because everything varies from person to person. As far as we know, these people who danced square dance in front of the funeral home are good friends of the deceased, and they commemorate their friends in this way. I don't think it is a big problem. Although it seems abrupt to others, only you know it clearly. They are people who live with the dead day and night. They should know more about her and her thoughts. Perhaps such a memorial service is the only way they can remember, and they want to see her off again.

Outsiders may seem abrupt, but they may feel in their hearts that no matter what the outside world is like, they only do what they want. Everyone commemorates it in different ways. So we can't judge other people's customs, we just have to respect them. We don't have to know their customs, but we should try not to vilify them at will.