Excuse me, what is the allusion of "father respects, mother respects"? Thank you!

Fathers are known as "strict family", and the traditional culture and ethical customs in China have accurately, meticulously and reasonably defined the role of fatherly love. "Fathers respect each other and mothers respect each other." A father must maintain his due dignity and self-esteem in order to gain the respect of his family and safeguard and implement the dignity of the person who is the first responsible for family education. "The monarch is not right, the minister goes abroad, the father is not right, and the son runs away from home." Fulfilling the father's responsibility for discipline may even lead to the father and son turning against each other and alienating morality. Strict father's loving mother is the innate role of parents, and strictness, sternness and seriousness are the proper demeanor of a father. However, some fathers have turned the word "strict" into stick education and beating education. I got some enlightenment from Zen education. The purpose of "great drinking" is to stimulate, remind, guide and enlighten, and the purpose is enlightenment and wisdom. A competent father should focus on knowledge, not temper, not superiority. The key is to be superior and be the first teacher and spiritual guide for children.

Parents want their children to succeed, and they will do whatever it takes to do this. Indeed, many children are influenced by their families, inherit their father's career, and become people like their parents or people expected by their parents. There are also quite a few children who have not realized their parents' dreams, failed to meet their parents' expectations and even went to the opposite side of their parents' wishes. As the saying goes: "Laozi is a hero, Laozi sells onions and garlic"; As the saying goes, "parents can't protect their children and grandchildren." In the final analysis, family education also has a problem of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, giving children the freedom to choose their own development path and letting them be themselves according to their hobbies and specialties. Everyone has his own interests, and there is no need to force them, even for children.