How do college students become kind?

Inherit the positive factors in the traditional benevolent culture, such as respecting the old and loving the young, sympathizing with the weak, tolerating the shortcomings of others, not imposing one's weak will on others, respecting teachers, honoring parents, being kind to and studying hard the excellent parts of traditional culture.

We should extensively study the theories and teachings of all the sages in ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, and constantly improve our comprehensive quality, such as being polite, both civil and military, diligent in learning, filial to parents, caring for others, thinking calmly, persisting in ideals, exercising, being arrogant and not impetuous, being strong and confident, etc. On the other hand, to "manage" means to understand the law of the development of natural things.

"Benevolence" is the most basic social ethics category of Confucianism.

It is the core of Confucianism, and other rites, righteousness, honesty, shame, filial piety, kindness, loyalty and faith all revolve around benevolence. Three cardinal guides and five permanent members are the basic social ethical principles advocated by Confucianism, and "benevolence" is the first of the five permanent members. Therefore, to understand Confucianism, we must first understand the basic meaning of Confucian "benevolence".

The original meaning of "benevolence" is affinity, meaning that people love each other. "Shuowen Jiezi" is benevolent and pro-also. Confucius clearly put forward: benevolent, love. Confucianism believes that benevolence should be used to deal with ethical and social relations, and advocates that people should respect each other, help each other and get along well with each other, and filial piety is the basis of benevolence.