The difference between direct junior high school and traditional famous schools

Two equally outstanding children, after graduating from primary school, one entered a key junior high school and the other entered an ordinary junior high school. What will be the difference in the future? In recent years, there has been a "school choice fever". Many parents want their children to go to famous schools since childhood. They wish their children to successfully enter key universities from local famous primary schools, key junior high schools and key high schools, and even be admitted to top universities such as Tsinghua and Peking University.

However, there are only a few key junior high schools and key high schools, and not everyone can enter and be admitted; To be sure, most people will study in ordinary junior high schools and ordinary senior high schools, but this does not prevent some people from getting good grades and entering good universities. Such examples abound.

Because a person's future grades are related to students' learning methods and habits, see Xue Hai's Notes on Tsinghua Peking University for details.

But good academic performance depends not only on his learning environment, but also on his educational environment. What really affects them is their personal initiative.

In fact, there are many factors influencing a person's success, and education can only be said to be one of them. Besides education, there are many other influencing factors. For example: family environment, physiological differences, psychological factors, heredity and so on.

In short, there are many factors that affect a person's success, and education is not the most important. Therefore, it is irrational for many parents to pursue prestigious schools excessively.

Many parents take great pains to get their children into key middle schools when they are in junior high school. Either spend a high price to borrow money from key middle schools, or try your best to buy a house near the school, that is, the school district. Even though the housing price in this school district is several times higher than that in other places, these parents feel that it is worthwhile to fight for their children to enter key middle schools.

Under the guidance of this idea, the housing prices near key schools are really getting more and more expensive, and sometimes they are really outrageous. But do children enter key junior high schools, enter key high schools in the examination, and then enter key universities smoothly? I think this matter is still unknown to everyone. No one can guarantee that as long as children enter key junior high schools, they will surely enter key high schools and then enter key universities smoothly.

Although it is only an unknown number, many parents are still willing to fight and let their children enter key junior high schools.

Two equally excellent children who graduated from primary schools (both masters), one entered a key junior high school and the other entered an ordinary junior high school. In my opinion, the future development is estimated to be very different.

Many people must think that children in key junior high schools are definitely much better at study and in all aspects than children in ordinary junior high schools. I just don't think so; I think, on the contrary, children who enter ordinary junior high schools can have greater development potential.

Why do you say that? This is not unreasonable. Because the child who entered the key junior high school entered the prestigious school, there must be many students like him in this key junior high school, and there will be more outstanding students than him.

It turns out that he has always been among the best in primary school and is a bully in the eyes of students. In the new key junior high school, it is very likely that the results will become less prominent. There are people outside, and there are days behind; There are many people who are more capable than us.

Although you may be a good student in the eyes of teachers, you were a bully in primary school and loved by people, but in key junior high schools, everything starts again. There are many excellent students like you, and there are many people in the school who have better academic performance and are better than you in all aspects.

The good grades you were proud of in primary school may have been crushed by everyone in this key junior high school. You are no longer the beloved "darling" in the eyes of teachers. It turns out that your seat may never leave the first four tables, and it is absolutely gold. However, now that you are in this key junior high school, your grades are not so good, and you can only be regarded as above average in your class.

So your seat is directly transferred from the first four tables to the corner where the teacher seldom goes before. In the past, teachers often asked you to answer questions in class. Even if you don't raise your hand, the teacher will encourage you to stand up and answer some challenging questions because they value you very much and think you are a good student in their eyes.

In a class, you can answer several questions. Now you come to a key middle school. If you don't take the initiative to answer questions in class, the teacher won't pay attention to you at all. Even if you raise your hand to answer the question, the teacher will largely not call you.

In primary school, you are liked by all your classmates because of your good grades and outstanding ability. You are the monitor, and everyone is after you. But now in key junior high schools, there are more people who have better academic performance and stronger ability than themselves. I will be a little disappointed when I become a class cadre.

This is a true portrayal of countless children who have entered key junior high schools from primary schools. Are they unwilling to study and continue to be good students? Actually, it's not like this. It's not that they don't work hard, it's not that they don't study hard, but that they study hard. But there are more excellent students in the class than them, so their ability can't be highlighted.

Many people have become inferior and depressed since then. Compared with their glory in primary school, they are now a loser. In the long run, children's average grades may not be maintained, but will only get worse and worse, because when a person loses self-confidence and upward motivation, it is likely to be devastated, and no self-motivation will only get worse and worse.

Such a child is really extremely pitiful; Originally, if their parents hadn't forced them to enter a key junior high school, maybe they would have entered an ordinary junior high school. Perhaps, this ordinary junior high school is far less good than the key junior high school, but in this school, the competitive pressure is not so great.

You only need to work hard on the basis of primary school study, and you can get good grades in the class. In this way, I am still the teacher's "darling" and a good student that the teacher focuses on cultivating.

With the teacher's attention and his own efforts, he doesn't want to disappoint teachers, classmates and parents. The child is likely to continue to be excellent. Perhaps in ordinary junior high school, his Excellence can make him rank in the top ten in ordinary junior high school; Although the top ten grades in ordinary junior high schools can only be equivalent to the top 50 in key junior high schools, at least the children's grades are still ahead, and they did not "disappear from everyone" immediately.

He can get more attention from ordinary junior high school teachers, and he will get many unexpected gains, such as being a monitor or a study committee member in the class.

In fact, it seems that it is only the squad leader and study Committee member of the class cadre, and it is also very cultivated to some extent. Many people have exercised their abilities only because they became class cadres from primary school, junior high school or senior high school.

You may think that the class cadre is a thankless position, but it is not. Class cadres must first get everyone's approval. Those who can become class cadres are generally students who are appreciated or recognized by teachers and classmates.

They not only have excellent academic performance, but also have strong abilities in other aspects. For example, they can handle interpersonal relationships well and are willing to take the initiative to help teachers and classmates do something. Such students are not necessarily the best in the class, and their popularity is really good.

If you are a class cadre, you will have more contact with the teacher, so that when you face the teacher, you will naturally handle the relationship between the teacher and you, be modest, positive and optimistic, and show your ability. If you have a good relationship with the teacher, you will try to improve your grades. You don't want to disappoint the teacher, but you want to be affirmed by the teachers and parents. Under such psychological influence, you will work harder and harder, not only in your studies, but also in all aspects.

Imagine, how can a student who grew up in such an environment not be excellent? Although I didn't go directly to the key junior high school, I also had a good time in the ordinary junior high school. In this way, I can be admitted to a key high school on my own, and I don't have to ask my parents to find a way to send me to a key high school, which will cause my parents trouble.

Life is like this. It is very likely that what you didn't get this time will naturally become something in your hand in another time. Yes, I didn't go to a key junior high school. My parents and you were a little disappointed, but no one expected that you could gain so much in an ordinary junior high school.

Compared with the classmate who went to a key junior high school, but his grades plummeted like yours, you feel really lucky, and even thank yourself for not going to a key junior high school, but developing so well in a decent ordinary junior high school, which no one expected.

Therefore, everyone should learn to be content. What is missing at this stage of life will surely come to you at the next stage. What you need to do is to develop good study habits in primary school and lay a good foundation in junior high school. Because it directly determines how far you can go.

In elementary school, there was no difference between them, and they were both excellent, but in junior high school, the gap between them became wider and wider because one went to a key junior high school and the other to an ordinary junior high school. Sometimes there is even a world of difference, because education only accounts for a small part of a person's success, and many other factors will affect a person's success.

If you want to succeed, you have to find a way to become a piece of gold, but gold always shines; Therefore, no matter where you are, as long as you are capable and positive, you will never lose the direction of progress. Even in adversity, you can still break through many obstacles and get where you want to go.