Traditional pojia

Traditionally, in-laws are usually assisted by their daughters-in-law. Here are some situations that may not be suitable for a daughter-in-law's help:

1. Busy finance: If the man's family has financial problems and needs to borrow money or loans, this usually needs to be handled by the man's family members. Daughter-in-law can provide some advice and help, but she should not bear the responsibility of economic problems.

2. Busy with family disputes: If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have family disputes, such as quarreling between husband and wife or contradictions between relatives, the daughter-in-law should try to remain neutral and objective. She can give some advice and support, but don't take part in arguments or contradictions, because it may make the situation more complicated.

3. Busy beyond one's power: If the husband's family's requirements are beyond the daughter-in-law's ability, such as requiring professional skills or knowledge, or spending a lot of time and energy, then the daughter-in-law should frankly explain that her ability is limited and she can't help.

In short, the daughter-in-law should try her best to help her husband's family, but it should also depend on the situation and not bear too much responsibility and pressure.