What are the unfavorable factors affecting the relationship between elderly couples?

First of all, in the past, husbands and wives spent only a few hours together every day. Some people's marriages can last. It is precisely because of the limited contact opportunities between the two sides that there is often a sense of freshness. Now both husband and wife are retired at home and have to be together from morning till night. Second, most of the time and energy in the past were spent on children. * * * is the goal and emotional bond to raise the next generation to become husband and wife. Now that the children have grown up, they can live independently without their parents. The feeling of "empty nest" caused by the departure of children is very prominent, and family justice has returned to a one-on-one state. Marry early. South of youth, both men and women want to be together. They were inseparable and very comfortable, but now it's different. Without new "emotional sustenance", couples will feel lost and alienated because of their children's independence. Third, they used to go to work on time every day. They are exposed to more people and things, and their lives are full. Once they retire at home, they can't adapt to the quiet life quickly, as if they feel isolated from the boiling social life, and they are prone to feel left out and abandoned, resulting in an old and useless inferiority complex. As time goes on, the scope of life and communication becomes smaller and smaller. When I just retired, my colleagues and friends often walked around chatting. Now some of them are dead, some are in poor health, and some feel that there is nothing to talk about with each other. So the scope of life and communication is getting smaller and smaller. The external manifestations of inferiority and loneliness are irritability, suspicion and anger. Most of the communication is focused on the spouse, but the husband and wife are together all day and know each other's activities. I know what you know, so there are fewer topics. Husband and wife are either relatively silent, or lose their temper or quarrel. The elderly generally have strong self-esteem and are not easy to reconcile contradictions. It is common for the old couple not to talk for days when they are angry.