Can a girlfriend be used as a support for the soul?

If your girlfriend makes you feel warm and considerate, has a good understanding with you, and understands your situation and thoughts, then naturally you will start to rely on her psychologically, and when you are separated, you will also miss her, and when you are hit, you will be the first one to talk to her. So, I think the question you raised is actually a natural process, not a multiple choice question. I hope my point of view is helpful to you.