Five short stories from Family Style and Family Instructions

Family style is the traditional fashion of a family or family, and family instruction refers to teaching children and grandchildren to live in the world and manage the family. The following are five selected stories about family style and family precepts that I brought to you. I hope you like them!

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Family style and family instruction story 1

In Pu 'er in July, accompanied by the drizzle in the hot summer, I was immersed in the book "Tales of Family Styles and Family Instructions of Celebrities in Past Dynasties". Looking at the familiar names in the book, I had known them for a long time when I was studying, but I only knew them and their outstanding deeds, but I knew little about the growth experience of celebrities and their education for the younger generation. However, by reading the book Family Styles and Family Training Stories of Celebrities in Past Dynasties, I can see that the great filial piety of Sima Qu is rooted in the foundation, Su Xun's three brothers are United in adversity, Sima Guang warned their children to be insatiable, Zeng Lao's residence was not built on money, and so on. It contains the four principles of being a man, being an official, studying and living, but I am inspired by them. As a grass-roots project manager, I need coordination.

First of all, as a grass-roots project manager, you must learn to be a man in the daily management of the project. "The book of the husband and sage teaches people to be sincere and filial, to be cautious in words and deeds, and to make a name for themselves." This passage is from Yan Jiaxun, to the effect that ancient sage books taught people to be honest and filial, be cautious, constantly review their own behavior, cultivate a good family style, and cultivate self-cultivation. In daily project management, trivial things are complicated, which requires us to develop good living habits and often reflect on our behavior. Moreover, the project management must strictly implement the company's rules and regulations, be cautious in external communication, and grasp the scale of language. In Su Xun's article: A friend in need is a friend indeed, and more importantly, we should learn to unite. There are many contractors involved in the project, and it is difficult to cooperate. Therefore, we need to work closely with all parties to complete the construction of the project, especially outdoor construction, civil pipelines, greening, intelligence and municipal facilities. If Qi Xin can't work together, each unit will do its own thing, which will eventually lead to endless. This reflects the importance of cooperation and unity. Our site administrator of Party A appears as a bridge of cooperation and unity, connecting all units to complete this project. It is conceivable that to do a good job in project management, we must first understand the importance of unity.

Secondly, being an official is cheap at first. "Huang Sun said:' frugality is virtue; Waste is a great evil. * * *, the same; He who speaks with virtue comes from thrift. If a husband is frugal, he will have a small desire, while if a gentleman has a small desire, he will do nothing. Little people have few desires. If they can use them carefully, they will stay away from evil. Therefore,' frugality, virtue is also' ". This sentence is a letter that Sima Guang warned future generations. Thrift is the most important virtue. Diligent people have weak desires and are less affected by material conditions on the road of life. They don't commit crimes for money. No matter a gentleman or a villain, as long as he is diligent, he can stay away from crime and be rich. Thrift is not only thrift, but also a manifestation of ancient thrift. In project management, as a grass-roots manager, there are many temptations, such as visa processing and contractor greeting. This requires our grass-roots managers to learn to be frugal. In fact, more importantly, honesty is not a slogan, but an action. Only by putting an end to temptation can we not be influenced by things. Once you lose your integrity, it means that you lose justice in your work, and naturally you will not be honest and self-disciplined. For example, Feng Xinzhu, vice governor of Shaanxi Province, used his authority in charge of poverty alleviation work for personal gain, and accepted banquets and tours arranged by private entrepreneurs for a long time and accepted public banquets; Receiving gifts and gifts, taking advantage of his position to seek benefits for others, and accepting huge amounts of property. Being expelled from the party and public office is a serious violation of discipline, which is the loss of honesty and self-discipline, and ultimately leads to bitter results. There are also leading cadres Li Yihuang, Ji Xiangqi, Wang, etc. who were "famous" for corruption and violation of discipline in 20 18 years. They have a long way to go, and the management of honesty and frugality at the grassroots level starts from me.

Finally, for the way to govern the world, "the road is long and its Xiu Yuan is Xi, and Xiu Yuan is Xi. I will go up and down to seek." More than two thousand years ago, Qu Yuan told us the importance of learning. "Seeking" refers not only to knowledge, but also to the pursuit of truth. "People can be human, from abdomen to poetry. This sentence comes from Han Yu's Dictionary Cheng Nan. You must study hard. You can only be called a man if you have a collection of poems, so you must study hard. As young people, learning is very important. Just because we come out of college and go to work does not mean that our study career is over. On the contrary, this has just begun. As a grass-roots project manager, it is essential for us to learn engineering management knowledge when we first arrive at the project. We have learned a lot from drawings, construction, safety standards and so on, which requires our diligence. As party member, a Communist Party of China, we should always study the history of the Party, the rules and regulations of the Party, the ideological line and policies of the Party, and the policies of honesty and self-discipline, so we can learn more, just as it takes diligence to learn from Emperor Kangxi. Learning the way to do things, Ma Yuan's example tells us that disaster comes from the mouth, learn to talk less and do more, and Bai Juyi warned the younger generation to be content with what they say. Yu Chenglong: A gentleman loves money. Lu You's tolerant heart, Taishi Ci's filial piety, and so on, can not be learned overnight, which requires us to see, listen and learn more. In complex project management, the way of doing things is particularly important. Multi-unit cooperation should be tolerant, have a sense of the overall situation, and be modest and cautious. These all need to be honed slowly, and the way of learning and the road of life must be learned.

The way to be a man, the way to be an official, the way to learn, and the way to live, the four avenues mentioned in this book, have given me great inspiration and will be of great help to my future project management and life. It is a long way to go to learn how to be a man, how to be an official and how to behave.

Family Style and Family Instructions Short Stories II

Family tutoring is very important for children's growth. As the saying goes, children are the epitome of parents. If you want to educate your children well, you must first start from yourself, establish a good family style and create a good family atmosphere for your children! The following is a short story of ancient family style and family instructions I prepared for you. I hope you like it!

A short story of ancient family style and family instructions

Sima Guang, whose real name is Shi Jun, is called Mr. Sushui. Northern Song Dynasty statesman, historian, official to prime minister.

Although Sima Guang is in a high position, he is strict with his godson and attaches great importance to cultivating children's awareness of self-discipline and self-improvement. He wrote an article that has been handed down to this day, "frugality to show health." He summed up the lessons of many sons of high officials and dignitaries in history who were decadent and decadent because they could not stand on their own feet in the shadow of their ancestors, and warned his sons that "all virtuous people should be frugal" and "frugality is the name, extravagance is the failure".

Because of well-educated children, Sima Guang's sons are humble and polite, and have a successful life without relying on their father's power or family wealth. As a result, people all over the world know Rong Zhi, but they all know Sima's son.

Ji Hongchang, an ancient family style short story, was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Coalition. He was a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army in his early years. He was promoted to battalion commander and division commander because of his bravery and good fighting skills, and later served as commander of the Kuomintang and chairman of the Ningxia government.

1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was a battalion commander at that time, and his father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit, "Being an official should be innocent and modest, and think more of the poor in the world. Being an official is not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can't sleep in the grave. " Ji Hongchang promised tearfully.

After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "Official is not allowed to get rich" on the porcelain bowl, and asked the ceramic factory to follow the example of batch firing and distribute the porcelain bowl to all officers and men. At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said, "Although I am Ji Hongchang, I will never oppress the people and rob them of their wealth. I must remember my father's teachings. Being an official is not to make a fortune, but to do good for the poor in the world. Please supervise me. "

Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent, and he was innocent and upright all his life, serving the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were in dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up against Japan. Killed by Kuomintang reactionaries at the age of 39.

Qian Jibo is the father of Qian Zhongshu, a master, scholar and writer of Chinese studies.

Qian Jibo is very strict with his son. When Qian Zhongshu was sixteen, he also gave him a beating. 1926 From the autumn to the following summer, Qian Jibo went north to Tsinghua to teach, but did not return to Wuxi during the winter vacation. At this time, Qian Zhongshu is studying in middle school. Instead of reviewing textbooks, he plunged into the world of novels. Father came back to ask his homework, but Qian Zhongshu failed the exam and was beaten.

1929, after Qian Zhongshu was admitted to Tsinghua University Foreign Languages Department, Qian Jibo often wrote to him. A letter said, "Being a benevolent gentleman is more important than being a scholar." Then a letter said: "Now foreign things say that your article is better than mine, and I am glad that you have learned from me;" However, let's just say that you have always been loyal to me and practiced for me. I am particularly comforted. "I hope Qian Zhongshu can be" indifferent to his ambition, quiet and far-reaching ". "I hope you are Zhuge Gong, Tao Yuanming; Unlike you, Hu Shizhi and Xu Zhimo ".

Qian Jibo kept his distance from the New Culture Movement at that time and buried himself in the study of Chinese studies. He warned Qian Zhongshu in this way because of a Confucian cultural standpoint.

Family Style and Family Instructions Short Stories 3

This is the story of a friend. If it weren't for this family style and family training collection activity, maybe these will stay in my heart forever and I won't have a chance to tell you.

Because of business, I have known my friend L for a long time. I always communicate by phone or meet on weekends and holidays when I have nothing to do. Gradually, I became a friend with nothing to say, and some things in each other's family also became a story of family style and family training from daily communication.

My friend is in the age of knowing his destiny. He was born in a peasant family. I graduated from high school more than 30 years ago and took the college entrance examination that year. He was lucky to be the darling of that year. After four years of college life, he completed a gorgeous turn from a farmer's son to an employee of a state-owned enterprise. Now I am working in a large state-owned enterprise, engaged in technical work and management work, and now I am the main manager of a branch company.

My friend was born in the 1960s and grew up in the 1960s and 1970s. At that time, although the rural areas in Guanzhong were not particularly rich, they could still maintain basic food and clothing. At that time, farmers who had been farming for generations had an extravagant hope that their children would go out of their homes. My friend's father's uncle was a college student in the fifties, and several others also went to middle school. His father is a nobody in the local area because he went to middle school and was alert. He worked as an accountant, went out to engage in sideline business and managed village-run enterprises. My friend said that I knew from an early age that Bob was eating public meals far away. My father has been doing sideline work in the brigade and commune. I haven't suffered much since I was a child.

As for my own growth, my friend said that it was because my grandfather and parents taught me and my younger siblings by example from time to time. Grandpa and brother, both farmers and small businesses before liberation, were cautious and thrifty, and bought more than ten acres of land at the beginning of liberation. My father's five cousins lived in harmony until the 1970s. Although * * * lives in a hospital, it is peaceful and happy compared with other people's homes. Friends grew up in this harmonious family atmosphere, from primary school to university, but many children in the same village dropped out of school before finishing primary school and junior high school, and engaged in jobs that were not commensurate with their age. According to a friend's memory, 1973, when I was in the first grade, there were more than 60 classmates. When I graduated from high school in the early 1980s, only three classmates went to primary school together. I really feel lucky to be admitted to the university, which is also because of my family's respect and support for reading. Three of the five sisters went to college in the 1980s, and two went to technical secondary schools and junior colleges in the 1990s, which means that they finally achieved something in their studies.

After years of rural life, my friends have developed the habit of thrift. Every time they go out, they always maintain a simple pastoral style, never wasting, never extravagant, without the slightest femininity and affectation. When getting along with friends, people always have a sense of freshness, and their words are full of humor and make people feel happy.

Whenever asked about some people in the unit who do whatever it takes to get promoted, friends always simply say, let nature take its course and be content. In fact, my friend's business ability and interpersonal skills are quite good in the unit, bringing out a lot of business backbones and rationalizing many business processes. About promotion, about those things between people, friends have their own principles and the bottom line of being a man. Plain and peaceful life and carefree days are an extension of happiness.

For us, it is an example to look down on the so-called fame and fortune and be good at ourselves.

Family Style Family Instruction Story 4

Good family rules make a good family style, and good family instructions make a good family. Every family has a family style and rules, which can make a family active and healthy.

Our family rules are embodied in filial piety. Mom and dad often say, "All virtues and filial piety come first." Filial piety to elders and the elderly means to satisfy the elderly in everything. We children must listen to what the old man says. If the old man says something wrong, we can't blame him to his face. When eating, the elders didn't move chopsticks, so we young people must not eat first, only when grandparents and parents are around. When the old man is ill, we children must try our best to take care of him. Although you may sound like some rigid and old-fashioned rules, as long as you develop these good habits, you will find that they are not rigid at all, but necessary.

Our family motto is honesty. Honesty is also a word in the basic content of the 24-word socialist core values. Grandma is very impressed by her honesty in their square dance team. Grandpa made a lot of good colleagues in the unit because of his honesty. Dad, because of his honesty, more and more people cooperate with their company at work. Because of her honesty, there is an emergency at home, and colleagues and leaders will also help her. Now, this quality has been passed on to me, so at school, I borrowed books from my classmates and agreed when to return them. I must return it on time and never stand up. In daily life, I play with my friends and make an appointment with my family to go home. I'm never late. In my opinion, honesty is seen from every little thing and is an essential quality for a person.

These family traditions and family precepts have existed in everyone's heart since ancient times. But very little is really done. Grandparents, grandparents and parents made it a family motto, which impressed the next generation with the glory of China's 5,000-year history and culture. I hope my family's family rules can be passed down from generation to generation, and one day we can achieve the four goals of happiness: harmony, civilization, health and prosperity. Although this wish is not too big, it is also the same wish of our family of eight.

Family Style and Family Instructions Short Stories 5

Everyone will have four or five family instructions that parents want you to remember. I am no exception, now let you experience my family style with me!

One year during the Spring Festival, my aunt from afar came to visit my home, and my father asked me to pick her up. He asked me to greet her politely and warmly and help her with her things. I invited menstruation into the room and menstruation sat down. I suddenly found water on the table, so I wanted to wipe it. My mother immediately called me back and said, "You should pay attention to one thing when wiping water. Don't wipe in the direction of the guests. This is disrespectful to the guests. Wipe in your own direction. " I thought my mother was wordy. The meal is ready. This is my favorite jiaozi. I want to eat it. My father quickly stopped me and said, "Wait a minute, son. It is polite to wait for guests when eating. " When menstruation sat down to eat, he praised me as a sensible boy.

I remember another time, I made my own puppet at home, which was very difficult for a clumsy boy like me. Making puppets is time-consuming and laborious. Halfway through, I threw the puppet aside angrily and sat on the edge sulking. This is when my father came over and said to me earnestly, "Son, this is just a small setback in life. When we encounter difficulties and setbacks, we should have the spirit of perseverance and perseverance, no matter how difficult it is, we must stick to it. Only persistence can succeed. " After listening to my father's words, I picked up the puppet again and patiently made a puppet. I have kept this puppet until now.

That's it. In daily life, my parents influence me imperceptibly, educate me and encourage me. Teach me how to be a man, how to deal with people, and what kind of spirit I need to grow up healthily and happily. Now I gradually understand why my parents should educate me like this: because we are the hope of the motherland, the motherland must also be built by our generation.

This is my family style, and I believe yours is the same as mine!

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