What should we leave for the next generation?

But this story is big enough to strangely cover several hot issues. The son thinks that he is a rich second generation, and he can do business with money, which involves the topic of difficulty in private financing and reflects the realistic background of the difficulty in the rise of civilians. Mother wanted to sell her kidney to raise money, but the idea was decisively rejected by the scarlet letter. If the Red Cross shouldn't have gone wrong last time, then it should do something this time. Of course, these topics caused by the story of selling kidneys to raise money are not the focus of this article. What should be paid more attention to is that this story has directly pushed up our psychological defense line and sounded the alarm for us again. What should the family leave for the next generation? China has a strong tradition of family culture, and abides by the creed of "If there is a good family, there must be Qing Yu" like religious worship. In order to maintain the continuity and prosperity of the family, the ancestors left behind many classics such as Yan Family Instructions, Zhu Zi Family Instructions and Zeng Guofan Family Instructions, which became treasures in the treasure house of traditional culture and profoundly shaped the characteristics of China culture. In the long history, a family may not get rid of the fate of the fifth generation, but what it leaves to the next generation is related to the level of social civilization and affects the inheritance of social civilization. It is really inappropriate to sell kidneys to raise money for children. If the son uses this money to engage in the career he wants, will he succeed? If it fails unfortunately, it is really a veritable blood loss. If you want to turn over a new leaf, can your mother still sell her kidneys? It is better to teach your son to stand on his own feet than to love him and hope that he will be happy. If his son really wants to do something, he doesn't have to feel sorry for himself Poor pockets are not terrible, but poor thoughts are really dangerous. If you are poor, think about change, start from scratch and strive for success. Only with such success can we have dignity and become a model of society. From the family point of view, it is better to leave a good personality and a sound personality to the next generation. What should society leave for the next generation? This absurd maternal love reflects the excessive doting on children. But we should be more aware that who is behind this mother's absurd behavior? Who prompted her to do such a crazy thing? Undoubtedly, society should arouse enough reflection and vigilance. In this age of desperate struggle, the trend that the strong are stronger and the weak are weaker has aroused people's resentment; In this transitional society, the new value system needs to be rebuilt, and people in the value fault period are inevitably worried about the pressure of competition, fear of falling into the bottom and being marginalized. If society provides a full and fair competitive environment, why should a mother hurt herself to get a "blood reward" to help her son's career? How hard and bitter it is to climb at the bottom! Selling kidneys to raise money is not only the mother's farce, but also the tragedy of modern society. Therefore, it is also the unshirkable responsibility of contemporary people to leave a good social environment for the next generation. We understand penniless poverty, and we should explore the system and mechanism of enjoying development. Only by creating a more equal and friendly environment with open opportunities, fair competition and free competition can such farce become a case, otherwise there will be more similar incidents impacting our psychological defense line and the bottom line of social civilization.