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What are the wedding customs in Hubei?

Crying marriage

Common areas: Enshi, Xianfeng, Yichang, Xiaogan and Huangshi.

In rural Hubei, there is a custom of crying to married women. When a girl gets married, her mother and her family will cry, mainly her mother. A mother cried about her daughter's sufferings and taught her how to be a good daughter-in-law when she went to her husband's house. When a married woman cries, she usually expresses her gratitude to her parents for raising her. Handed down from ancient times, there are "Mother Advises Daughter" and "Pregnant in October". In some places, crying weddings should start three days in advance.

Grey father and vinegar daughter

Common areas: Wuhan, Jingmen, Xiantao, Yichang, Tianmen, etc.

On the wedding day, my parents-in-law also specially make dresses. My parents-in-law must carry the bride's feet to the new house from the car that picks up relatives. No matter how high the floor is, you can't take the elevator Mother-in-law should hang two vinegar bottles on her chest and wear traditional clothes to welcome guests. Although it is not a custom from ancient times to the present, the grey father and vinegar woman swept the Jianghan Plain with overwhelming power and thunderous power, becoming the "eternal swan song".

Evil groom

Common areas: Xiaogan, Jingzhou, Enshi, Huangshi, Daye, etc.

On the wedding day, relatives and friends will give the groom all kinds of "problems". Some will let the groom be surrounded by people wearing only shorts on the roadside, and some will let the groom parade in strange props or throw mud, cow dung and other stolen goods at the groom, meaning "let him understand that it is not easy to marry a daughter-in-law, and cherish it more in the future." Grooms-to-be should be mentally prepared, and don't break their hearts because of the game.

The boy is pressing the bed.

Common areas: Xiangfan, Wuhan, Jingmen, Jingzhou, Yichang, etc.

There is a custom of boys pressing the bed in most parts of Hubei. Usually, unmarried boys sleep on the wedding bed the night before the bride and groom get married, which means having children early. Now there are dolls for boys and girls instead.

Perfect in every respect/aspect.

Common areas: Jianli, Yingcheng, Enshi, Yichang, Dangyang, etc.

The seats at the wedding are also very particular. The traditional wedding banquet is usually around 10. Ten unmarried boys (ten brothers) and ten unmarried girls (ten sisters) sit at the main table, which means "perfection".

Scattered red envelopes

Common areas: Jingmen, Yingcheng and Xianning.

The methods of sealing red envelopes vary from place to place. On the wedding day, the bride has to go out to dress up, and the uncle has to pay for the hard work, foot lifting, bridge crossing, alcohol and tobacco, thanking the daughter-in-law's parents, changing her mouth, and matchmaker's fees. ......