What are the famous family style stories in history?

1, Jiao Yulu's family style

General Secretary Xi Jinping greatly appreciated the family style left by Jiao Yulu.When he visited Lankao in 2014, he was able to tell even a short story about Jiao Yulu's family style in the past.

Jiao Yulu was always against getting something for nothing. Therefore, he left his offspring with a family style that focuses on: do it yourself, get enough food. Let every child live by their own ability, have the strength to live by strength, have the talent to live by talent, can not be specialization.

Under the influence of Jiao Yulu's family style, his children are striving to become useful to society. The oldest, Jiao Shoufeng, retired from the Kaifeng Federation of Trade Unions; the second, Jiao Guoqing, retired from the Kaifeng Local Taxation Bureau; the third, Jiao Shouyun, retired from the Zhengzhou Institute of Science and Technology Intelligence; the fourth, Jiao Shoujun, retired from the Archives of the Chengdu Military Region; the fifth, Jiao Yuejin, is now chairman of Kaifeng Municipal Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference; and the sixth, Jiao Baogang, passed away in 2013 after a long illness.

Jiao Yulu died more than 50 years, all the ordinary family encountered life problems, his children have encountered. However, no matter how good or bad life is, his children have been guarding their father's reputation This is the bottom line that Jiao's children must abide by.

2, Qian Xuesen's family style

Qian Xuesen was born in 1911 in Shanghai, his father Qian Junfu went to Japan in his early years of study, returned to China in 1911, served as the director of the Department of Education of Zhejiang Province.

Qian grew up with a great deal of talent and understanding, and was able to recite a hundred Tang poems and Song lyrics by the time he was three years old. His mother, Zhang Lanjuan, was cheerful, enthusiastic and kind-hearted, and was highly gifted in math, with excellent computational skills and memory.

Before he started elementary school, his mother taught Qian to read and write in her own home. His mother also often taught him to be diligent in his studies and not to be lazy. This made Qian Xuesen develop a good habit of waking up early every day; he did not need his mother to urge him to get up on time by himself. After breakfast, he began to recite ancient poems with his mother. When he was tired, he read some children's books. In the afternoon, he drew pictures or practiced calligraphy. I was a little tired, so I read some children's books.

Mother also often taught Qian Xuesen traditional Chinese culture. Qian Xuesen loved to listen to his mother tell him stories of Yue Fei's loyalty to the country, Lu You's sword fight to go to the country, Du Fu's worry about the country and the people, and Zhu Geliang's loyalty to the Han Dynasty, "bowing to exhaustion, until his last day of life," to support the state of Shu, etc. Whenever he heard these stories, Qian Xuesen would listen to his mother's stories, and then he would read them. Whenever he hears these stories, Qian Xuesen is concentrated, the heart of those heroes reverence. Ancient people's high moral character in the heart of Qian Xuesen, has made a deep imprint.

If the mother gave Qian Xuesen laid a good foundation for learning, then his father Qian Junfu Qian Xuesen ideological character of the formation of the key role, Qian Xuesen himself has said: "My first teacher is my father."

Under his father's education, Qian Xuesen set a great ambition at a very young age to be a useful person, a great hero of his own aspirations. He not only did well in his studies, but was also a good thinker and liked to do everything to the best of his ability.

In 1935, Qian Xuesen, who graduated with honors from Shanghai Jiaotong University, decided to go to the United States to study, and he aspired to change the poor and backward status quo of his motherland with his knowledge. When he was on his way, his mother specially bought for him "Laozi", "Zhuangzi" and other canonical books about traditional Chinese culture. His mother instructed him, "By familiarizing yourself with these books, you can get some idea of the traditional philosophical thinking of your motherland." Like his father, his mother also believed, "The identity and outlook on life of any nation are concretely embodied in its history. Therefore, those who are well-read in history are often the ones who are most y attached to and loyal to their motherland."

With farewell imminent, his father, Qian Junfu, pulled a piece of paper from his pocket, solemnly shoved it into his son's hand, and turned to leave. Qian Xuesen waited until his father's back disappeared, and hastily opened the note, which read, "Man, born should have character: such as philosophy, such as benevolence, such as righteousness, such as wisdom, such as loyalty, such as fraternal duty, such as teaching. My son this westward journey, not its long-cherished ambition, when the youth however return, splendid however return." A few words, that is, into the admonition, so that Qian Xuesen remembered a lifetime.

After studying in the U.S., although the U.S. side of the Qian Xuesen provides a superior working environment and material treatment, but in the U.S. Qian Xuesen has never forgotten his motherland, and has never forgotten the desire to serve the motherland. Every time his mother wrote to him, she reminded him to study hard so that he could return to China as soon as possible. Qian Xuesen always kept his mother's teachings in mind. Years later, Qian Xuesen after several changes, finally returned to the motherland, into the "two bombs and one star" research, for the motherland's aerospace industry set up a monumental feat.

Qian and his wife Jiang Ying had a son, Qian Yonggang, and were as strict as his father was with his son. Although the money family is well off, but when his son was small, he often wore pants with patches, his son was seven or eight years old, Qian Xuesen also asked his son every morning and evening every day to sweep the aisle in front of the building twice. This habit, Qian Yonggang until now still retained.

In his son Qian Yonggang's memory, his parents never gave him a political lesson, and never told him that you want this or don't want that, but used their way of doing things to naturally influence the child.

On one occasion, the family cook said solemnly to Qian Yonggang: "Your father is a learned and cultured man." Qian Yonggang said at the time, "Why do you need to say that, of course I know!" But the cook then explained something that Qian Yonggang would remember for the rest of his life: "Look at your father, every time he comes down to eat, he dresses neatly and never wears slippers or undershirts. This is because he thinks highly of us and respects us!" Qian Yonggang has since learned from his father, and still retains the habit of dressing neatly for meals.

When he was growing up, Qian Yonggang once asked his mother, "It seems like you and dad have never bothered with us." Mom said gently "Aren't you smart, don't you know how to read?" Qian Yonggang has always remembered these words, but also watched his mother and father how to do, to compare their own daily behavior, to review their own.

In 1957, the third year after Qian returned to China, he was awarded the first prize for natural science at the Chinese Academy of Sciences for writing Engineering Control Theory. Qian got a 10,000 yuan bonus for this. Qian Xuesen did not take this money to improve the conditions, but bought the second five-year plan of the national economic construction bonds. 5 years later, he got about 11,000 yuan with interest. At that time, the University of Science and Technology of China has just been founded, Qian Xuesen is the head of the Department of Modern Mechanics, he donated the money to the school, hoping to be used for the purchase of teaching supplies. This is the most intuitive memory that Qian has of his father, who used his money in a useful way.

When Qian was at home, he read books when he had time. Influenced by his family, Qian Yonggang also loved to read since childhood. When he was in the second grade of elementary school, he could read hundreds of Chinese characters and read novels with a dictionary every day. At the parent-teacher conference, the teacher praised Qian Yonggang for his reading. Jiang Ying was very happy to hear this, and when she gave her son pocket money, she was always very quick to do so, sometimes even giving him more. "She knows that I will not spend, all the money to buy books."

Qian was busy at work on weekdays and didn't check on his reading. On weekends, he had some time to spare, and after dinner, he sat down on the sofa and asked him how he was doing. "I quickly showed him the markings I made. A summer reading down, coupled with his answers, I feel that I know a lot of things that I did not know before. That's how he pushed me to read." Qian Yonggang said.

Over time, Qian Yonggang realized that his father didn't answer his questions in the same way as his classroom teachers. "Each problem, he just a few words, the key to speak well, you think about it." This has helped Qian Yonggang to develop a good habit of thinking.

The Qian family of Jiangnan has a long history of talent and celebrities. Their ancestor, King Ch'ien Ch'ien of Wu-Yue, left behind the "Ch'ien's Family Tradition," which is still celebrated to this day. One of the articles reads, "Do not seek profit in one person, but seek profit in the world."

Qian Yonggang believes that the core of the "Qian family motto" is two points, one is "to do something", and the other is "to keep the bottom line". "If you want to summarize our family motto in one sentence, it should be 'the historical responsibility of Chinese intellectuals'."

"A good family style is like the spring breeze, spring rain, you do not feel that it is in a matter of how much impact on you, but as time goes by, the impact of the accumulation, enough to affect a person's growth." Qian Yonggang said.

Excerpts from Qian's family motto: "Do not seek to profit in one body, but those who profit in the world must seek to do so. The heart must not be offended by heaven and earth, words and deeds should be worthy of the sages. Don't forget the three provinces of Zeng Zi. Cheng Zi's Chinese proverb is to be admired. Do not be careless with your body. Do not be uncorrupt in your dealings with money. One must not be indecisive in dealing with matters. The heart must be generous. He who walks forward is narrow, but he who looks backward is wide-eyed. Enforce the law like a mountain, guard oneself like a jade, love the people like a son, go to the moth-eaters like an enemy. The people of the country are not only the most important, but also the most important, the most important.

3, Yuan Longping's family style story

Yuan Longping, born in Beijing on September 7, 1930, a native of De'an County, Jiangxi Province, a non-partisan personage, now lives in Changsha, Hunan Province. He is a Chinese hybrid rice breeder, known as China's "Father of Hybrid Rice", and an academician of the Chinese Academy of Engineering, who was elected as a foreign member of the U.S. National Academy of Sciences in April 2006, and received an honorary doctorate in 2010 from the Macau University of Science and Technology, and in 2011 was awarded the Mahathir Prize for Science.

Currently, he is a member of the Standing Committee of the 12th National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference (CPPCC), Vice Chairman of the Hunan Provincial Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference (CPPCC), and Vice Chairman of the Hunan Provincial Association of Sciences. He is the Director of National Hybrid Rice Engineering and Technology Research Center and Director of Hunan Hybrid Rice Research Center, Honorary Dean of the College of Agronomy and Biotechnology of Southwest University, Professor of Hunan Agricultural University, Visiting Professor of China Agricultural University, Honorary Dean of Huaihua Vocational and Technical College, Honorary Dean of Hunan Bio-mechanical and Electrical Vocational and Technical College, Chief Advisor of the United Nations Food and Agriculture Organization (FAO), and Honorary Chairman of the World Association of Chinese Healthy Eating.

On January 3, 2014, Yuan Longping's team responded to GM rice research, which has not yet been used in practice. Norwegian parliamentarians nominated a renowned Chinese hybrid rice breeder, an Indian geneticist and a Pakistani human rights activist to compete for the 2014 Nobel Peace Prize.

Yuan has three children. One studied finance, one studied management, and his youngest son studied agriculture, which is said to have inherited his career. Yuan Longping's education for his children is "no matter", respect their choices and believe in their struggle. Now they are all successful in their careers. In terms of family culture and family education, Yuan seems to choose the way of "teaching by example" rather than "preaching by words", using his own life of struggle to set the right example for his children, so that they get the best education "in a silent place". The best education is given to them "in silence". In a certain sense, this is the best family style, but also the eternal family training.

Yuan Longping's quote: There is nothing wrong with chasing after fame and seeking profit, but some people don't do much to fight for fame and profit, and they have to fight for what awards they get and what articles they publish. Some honest people have done a lot of things but did not care what fame and fortune. I think, the fame and fortune to look down a little bit, do not go to fight for fame and fortune, the heart will be better.

4, Zeng Guofan's family style

Zeng Guofan is a controversial figure in modern history, but its children's education has left a lot to learn from future generations. The family motto of diligence, frugality, learning and pragmatism has been passed down to the descendants of the Zeng family. Zeng Guofan had left sixteen words of motto family style: "family thrift is prosperous, people diligence is healthy; can diligence can thrift, never poor."

To be frugal. Zeng Guofan has always asked his family to live frugally and stay away from luxury. He saw in the capital of the world's children are extravagant and corrupt, profligate, they do not allow their children to come to live in the capital. His original wife has always led his children to live in the countryside home, not allowed to hang "House of the Minister", "House of the Marquis" plaque outside the door. Zeng Guofan asked "to clean rate belonging to the family with frugality, vowed not to the military money to send home." Mrs. at home with no money, personally cooking, weaving.

Diligent in governance. In addition to "thrift", Zeng Guofan's children another requirement is "diligent". Zeng Guofan insisted on writing letters to his children, correcting their poems and discussing various problems in their studies and lives. He wrote to his son, Zeng Jize, asking him to get up every day, dress neatly, greet his uncle and uncles, then clean all the houses before sitting down to read, and to practice 1,000 characters every day.

Zeng Guofan also urged his family to adhere to the daily study, and many times for the whole family to draw up a rigorous learning program: "My family men in the look, read, write, make four words are indispensable. Women in clothing, food, coarse (work), fine (work) four words are indispensable."

The importance of tutoring. Zeng Guofan had three sons and five daughters, the youngest daughter Zeng Jifen the longest life, lived to 91 years old. 1875, Zeng Jifen married into the Hunan Nie family. Zeng Guofan regulations, each daughter married, the dowry shall not exceed 200 taels of silver, at the same time the dowry also has the father's handwritten homework list. Tseng Kuo-fan wanted to train his daughters to be thrifty housewives, and in fact the daughters did better than their father expected.

5, Tao Yuanming family tutelage story

Tao mother, Tao Kan with their words and teachings to achieve a famous family - Xunyang Tao, but also created a lot of talent, which is the most famous when Tao Kan's great-grandson Tao Yuanming.

The world knows that Tao Yuanming is free and open-minded, and is known as a "reclusive poet", "the founder of the idyllic school of poetry", "not for five buckets of rice" and poetry. The first is that Tao Yuanming was famous for his poems, which were "all about wine", but what is less well known is that Tao Yuanming also paid great attention to the education of his children and grandchildren.

When Tao Yuanming went to Pengze as a county magistrate, his family lacked labor. To this end, he invited a laborer to help his son to take care of firewood and water chores, while writing a short letter to his son: "Your fees, self-sufficiency is difficult. Now send this force, to help you pay the labor. This is also the son of man, can be good to meet." It means that it is difficult to meet the daily expenses of life by yourself. Now I am inviting a laborer home so that he can help you do some laborious work of chopping wood and carrying water. But he is also a child raised by other people's parents, so you have to treat them well.

Another letter of the family "and Ziyan and other sparse" is to warn the children and grandchildren to be harmonious, "although you are not born, when thinking of the four seas are brothers of righteousness," to the importance of morality and cultivation of the body to the sages as a role model, "although it can not be, to the heart of the Shang.

Tao Yuanming so much emphasis on brotherly harmony, with their own personal experience. Tao Yuanming and his two cousins, Zhongde and Jingyuan, as well as his half-sister, Cheng's sister, grew up supporting each other with deep feelings. After the death of Cheng's sister, he not only immediately resigned from his post to mourn, but also wrote a heartfelt "Offering to Cheng's Sister Wen" to send his condolences.

Tao mother, Tao Kan, Tao Yuanming and other ancestors of the Tao family education story y affected the Tao descendants, but also gradually formed a system of the Tao family training, *** 20 articles of more than 1,300 words, including sincerity to cultivate the body, choose to make friends and travel, to keep clean, filial piety, and the correct discipline of the content.

The Tao family training is characterized by "virtuous" and "honest" as the essence of the Tao mother, Tao Kan, Tao Yuanming and other people's ideological spirit into the specific content of the family rules and regulations. "Do not learn the art of trickery, do not make unhelpful friends", inherited the Tao mother to make friends with the idea of virtuous friends; "Cultivation of the body can not be insincere," "the law can not be abided by", inherited Tao mother "Integrity and public service, abide by the law" of the teaching; "former Kan Gong for the assassin, but also cherish the minute Yin, then swim inert generation, really ungrateful of the particular", the Tao Kan cherish the time, diligence and hard work of the practice of life into a clear exhortation to future generations of children and grandchildren.

"I don't know where Tao Kan goes, but I can plow the fields in the Peach Blossom Garden?" Heaven and earth long, a thousand years passed quickly, "in the no mixed trees, fresh grass, colorful" of the Peach Blossom Garden has been found missing, but Xunyang Tao ancestors left the spiritual wealth but the real existence of the long-lasting transmission.