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Buddha said, "If there is no debt, how can we meet."

All kinds of encounters in the world have cause and effect.

No matter who you meet, it is what you should meet. <

Buddha said, "If there is no debt, how can we meet."

All kinds of encounters in the world have cause and effect.

No matter who you meet, it is what you should meet. <

Buddha said, "If there is no debt, how can we meet."

All kinds of encounters in the world have cause and effect.

No matter who you meet, it is what you should meet.

These two kinds of people who appear in your life are here to ferry you, so be sure to hold on to them when you meet them!

The people who hurt you are ferrying you, and the people who love you are helping you

The Buddhists say, "All adversity is a booster that will help you get ahead." This is true of the environment, as well as people.

The people who hurt you are the ones who ferry you; the people who love you are the ones who help you. I once read an account of an experience that Master Nebula told me about: shortly after he was initiated, his master took the young Nebula to Nanjing to find a great master and to worship him. The great master asked Nebula, "What are you doing here?"

Nebula said, "Master said to come."

The Great Master became furious: "You are a student of Buddhism, and you don't even have your own return! You come when your master tells you to come?"

Saying this, he picked up the cane and whipped him hard. Xingyun was in so much pain that he hastily changed his words, "It was me who wanted to come!"

Who knows that the great master heard even more angry: "Monks can still lie?"

Xingyun learned his lesson this time, "Master told me to come, and I wanted to come and learn, so I came!"

But the Grand Master still whipped Nebula vigorously, cursing, "Slick!"

Late at night, Nebula thought back over the day's encounters and couldn't help but shed quiet tears.

At this moment, the Grand Master suddenly came to heal Nebula.

Only to see the Grand Master rubbing the medicine and saying slowly:

"You, in fact, answered all the questions well, but what I want to tell you is that adversity is inevitable.

You have to understand adversity and accept it, only by accepting everything that is not going well can you overcome the pain that fate brings you."

From then on, Xingyun devoted himself to Buddhism, no matter what kind of blow he suffered, always remembering the teachings of this day, treating the harm as tonic, turning evil into good, and eventually accomplished something.

Life is a life of countless encounters. Meet people who hurt you to ferry you; meet people who love you to help you. These two kinds of people appear in your life, are here to let you understand, how to grow, how to be strong. There is a fable about a small fish that was stranded in a muddy puddle at the edge of a lake. It begged passersby for a bucket of water to keep it alive, but the people who came and went just stood by and watched. Discouraged, the fish stops begging for help, choosing instead to move desperately toward a source of water. Finally, at the last moment before it dries up, it manages to swim back to the lake.

If it had relied on the hope given by the passers-by, it would have waited for nothing but despair to dry up. As the Vimalakirti Sutra says, "Lotus flowers do not grow on plateau land, and this flower grows in the humid mud."

The eagle has to go through the hammering to soar on the sky; the snow lotus has to suffer from the cold winds to bloom in the Tianshan Mountain. The harm in life will only make your life more courageous. Therefore, the people who put you in danger, do not have to resent, they teach you how to row against the current, but also taught you how to distinguish good and evil. Gould said, "In life, no one wants to hurt you, no one wants to fight you, no one wants to betray you, everyone is a prop to assist you in comprehending the lessons of life."

Everyone you meet is someone you should meet, whether he hurts you or loves you, it's a mutual fulfillment.

Never blame anyone in your life

The Buddha said, "Everyone who comes to you has a greater or lesser degree of destiny with you."

Every person you meet and every grudge you experience is a reincarnation of karma. Therefore, the past people and things do not have to blame, more need not be grudging, all the karma, are the best arrangement of heaven. There is such a true story: a woman, 15 years old married a woman. Married life is not satisfactory, the husband boasts of the flirt, look down on such a "bumpkin", she is very cold. In a few years, her husband was in love with someone else and was determined to get a divorce, at which time she was pregnant with a child. She asked: "After the divorce, what about the child?"

"Abort." "People have died from abortions."

She reluctantly pressed the question. What she got in return was mockery: "What about people dying on trains? Don't people still ride?"

In desperation, she agreed to a divorce. From then on, she was no longer afraid of divorce, no longer afraid of doing the wrong thing, no longer afraid of not being loved by her husband, and no longer inquisitive. She began to teach herself German, took charge of a women's commercial bank, entered the fashion world, and finally became a ray of light beyond the reach of others. She is the Zhang Youyi who personally tore off the label of "Xu Zhimo's abandoned wife" with her own efforts.

Some people give you scars, but also become the future armor.

As the saying goes, "All actions are impermanent, and so are relatives and enemies."

In front of the pain, the fool responds with hatred, so all the bad karma are robbed; the wise man reflects with kindness, all kinds of past are he ferry self-ferry, and eventually from the heart to ferry. In the Avatamsaka Sutra, it is said, "One should observe the nature of the Dharma realm, and everything is only created by the mind."

Everything around us is the result of our own mind. If you are compassionate and do not blame, the same virtuous and fortunate people will gather around you.

Karma, never blame anyone in your life, it's all for the best!

Everyone you meet comes to complete you

The world, always karmically fair.

When you get carried away, someone will definitely come out to wake you up; when you fall into the trough, there will definitely be someone to help you break through the confusion.

Everyone's existence is to complete you. The result of the Guanyin look, the difficult party full of eighty, so the Tang monk teacher and disciple fell on the west bank of the Tongtian River, let an old white soft-shelled turtle pitted once again, only to make up for the eighty-one difficult. Ninety-nine eighty-one difficulties, a no less. It is only when you have completed all the tribulations that you can become a Buddha. Isn't that how life is? Everyone you meet is here to help you and fulfill you. What lies in front of you is not a calamity, but a test.

When you think it's a blessing, everything is a Buddha; when you think it's a suffering, everything is a devil.

As the Tantra says, "All dharmas are not separate from the Self."

In life, you will meet noble people or small people, in fact, it is caused by yourself. Only with a normal mind to look at all the adversity not good, in order to step on all the ups and downs, the real achievement of the road, to obtain a successful life! Buddha said, "There is no meeting in this world without reason."

It is true. Every person who appears beside you has his reason and mission to teach you something.

It's not the years that really make us grow either, it's each of these passing experiences. In life, no matter who you meet, he is here to ferry you, no matter who he is, are worthy of gratitude! It is they who make our lives more real! It is they who make us realize a better version of ourselves!

Gratitude meets, not negative not owe!

Thanks for meeting me, I'm grateful.

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