Enlightenment from the Tangshan earthquake: It is said that parents love their children, but why do they choose boys?

Because the phenomenon of son preference was very serious at that time, I only cared about my son and my boy.

This film is about a big earthquake that happened in Tangshan, China. Many people have died, and a mother can only choose to save one brother and sister. My mother finally chose my brother, but my sister miraculously survived. After being adopted by the People's Liberation Army for 32 years, she was unexpectedly reunited with her family, and tears in her heart were waiting for them to mend, reminding contemporary people of that tragic disaster again. Today, let's talk about why the mother chose to save her son instead of her daughter in the movie Tangshan Earthquake. Why did the mother choose to save her son instead of her daughter in the Tangshan earthquake? Netizen: I am so distressed!

Maybe the mother's subconscious is to save her son, because the son is the blood of the whole family. Traditionally, sons are also handed down. In fact, no matter what kind of decision my mother made, it was very painful at that time. Because the palms are full of meat, both the son and the daughter are in pain. If possible, she will choose to let the two children live, and it is herself who is willing to press down. So after saving my son. The mother is also suffering in life. She felt very guilty about her daughter. Feel guilty all my life.

Finally, she learned that her daughter was not dead, met her daughter, and then stood in front of her. Very sad, because the pain can't be said, in fact, the concept of preference for boys has always existed. For example, there is often a saying written on the wall in rural areas: having children is the same, and daughters are also inheritors. For those who have traditional ideas, it is simply a great irony.

In fact, it also reflects the idea of patriarchal society from the side. Others are still unfair to girls. In many people's minds, boys are handed down from generation to generation, and daughters get married when they reach the age. As the saying goes: the water spilled by the married daughter: It seems that boys always have a higher position in the family than girls.