What are the manifestations of the man's family not respecting the woman's family?

First, the husband's family does not respect the performance of the woman's family.

1, did not listen carefully to the woman's parents.

When talking to the woman's parents, she was careless, or bowed her head to play with her mobile phone, and the reply was perfunctory.

2. Bad tone

The words are full of disdain and provocation, and they will deliberately return to the woman's parents, making them embarrassed and angry.

3. Deliberately embarrass the woman's parents in front of everyone.

In front of everyone, regardless of the dignity of the elders, embarrassed the woman's parents. For example, deliberately satirize the woman's parents, or directly pick up the words and choke the woman's parents.

4. Behind the slander

Destroy the image of the woman's parents behind the scenes, deliberately vilify the woman's parents after dinner or treat the woman's parents as jokes and judge them at will.

5, bossing around

As a junior, I should have served my elders and expressed my filial piety. But people who don't respect the woman's parents will boss her around, regardless of seniority.

6. Say others don't respect.

The correct address should be "uncle", "aunt" or "uncle" or "aunt", but those who don't respect the woman's parents will use "hello" and "er" instead of "your mother" or "your father" in the process of communicating with girls.

Second, what behaviors of the man's parents can't get married?

First: I am allowed to cook, wash dishes and do housework when I go to my boyfriend's house for the first time.

When many women go to their boyfriends' home for the first time, they will struggle to help with housework. In this regard, I don't think it is necessary to pay attention at this time. Although it seems to enhance the goodwill, it is easy to lay a bad foundation for yourself. If you can't do this moment's intention in the future, it will be counterproductive.

The first time I went to my boyfriend's house, I was asked to cook, wash dishes and do housework. On the one hand, it shows that the other party doesn't respect you enough and doesn't know how to treat guests. On the other hand, it shows that in their view, these are the internal affairs of the future daughter-in-law, and this attitude will become a serious source of contradictions in the future.

Normally, when a woman goes to her boyfriend's house, her parents are very polite and don't let her do housework. This is the normal way to treat guests, which represents their courtesy and respect. And if we meet for the first time, the man's parents will let the woman do housework, and the woman had better not get married.

Second: tell you the rules and make demands.

Some parents in life have a strong desire for control and cannot tolerate others shaking some principles that they think are right. When such parents meet their future daughter-in-law, they will involuntarily want to define each other with their own ideas and plan the future with their own ideas.

Regardless of whether these regulations and requirements are reasonable. This attitude alone shows that they will have a strong intervention in their future marriage. Nowadays, people's concepts are very different, and getting along with such in-laws will inevitably lead to many contradictions, which will eventually cause serious harm to marriage.

When a woman gets married and forms a family, the family must be completely independent. If this independence encounters external pressure and intervention, it will be difficult for her to operate according to her own wishes. Therefore, it is best for women not to marry polite and demanding parents.

Third: often praise how good his son is.

It is natural for parents to think that their children are excellent, but parents who are rational enough will know that there are strong subjective factors, so they will treat them dialectically. However, some parents are deeply impressed by this subjective impression, and their children have no shortcomings and mistakes in their eyes.

If a woman marries such a family, then when there is a contradiction between husband and wife in marriage, such parents will not be fair and just, but will only try their best to safeguard the interests of their son and help him suppress his daughter-in-law, which will destroy the proper balance of marriage.

A long and happy marriage must first be equal. If the relevant family members can't help maintain this balance, or even destroy it, marriage will only do more harm to women. Therefore, it is best for a woman not to marry a family that only praises her son.

Fourth: I don't care about you at all.

If a woman goes to her boyfriend's house, his parents are still busy with their own affairs, paying attention to you, not talking to you, eating as usual, or even eating leftovers, then they don't pay attention to you at all.

Maybe some girls don't pay attention to it and don't spend time with it. But women should understand that this neglect is not only because of the cold relationship with their sons, but also because they are dissatisfied with you, both of which are actually not good things.