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How to educate a three and a half year old child

As the saying goes, you don't know your parents until you raise a child. Raise a child yourself to know the hard work of raising a child. The following is my compilation of how to educate a three and a half year old child, I hope it can help you.

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First, cultivate the hands of young children.

In the early childhood stage, it is not necessary for children to know how many words and count a few numbers. The first thing you need to do is to let the children do more and more to express themselves. For example, in life can let the young children manual exercise, children's wisdom in the fingertips. At the same time, the life of the children to practice their own clothes, wear socks, practice their own spoon to eat, etc., to cultivate the children's self-care ability.

Second, sensory awareness and safety.

The child should have a sense of security in life, which is one of the foundations of health. For example, in life, adults are often afraid of children touching the thermos. Parents can take a cup of hot water (not too hot), let each child reach out and try, and then tell them that this is called "hot". If it's too hot, you'll get burned, and you can't touch or play with the kettle. Use examples like this to help children learn more.

Third, be polite, humble, and compassionate.

The children are trained to be polite to others in life, not to swear, and to know how to be humble. Kindergarten slides, trampolines, play in order, do not grab, do not fight. In the future, the collective life will learn to be friendly with others, and cultivate the child's sympathy is also crucial.

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(1) transfer attention

The child's attention is easily distracted, easy to attract for the new things, to be good at the child's attention from the things he insisted on

transfer to other novelty, interesting objects or things. After the child's attention is diverted, he or she will soon forget the demands and discomforts of the past. Such as in the toy mall, the child must buy a hundreds of dollars of Transformers, and the family has a lot of similar toys, this time the parents do not directly answer to buy or not to buy, you can guide the child: "In front of there are more fun things, let's hurry to see." The child will generally believe that there are better things in the store, so parents can take the child to walk around and look at the side of the explanation, the child will easily forget what just happened.

(2) Pre-emptive prompting

After the parents have mastered their children's behavioral patterns, they can prevent

capriciousness with a pre-emptive "three rules and regulations" approach.

(3) cold treatment

When the child due to the requirements have not been met and temper tantrums or rolling splash, adults can temporarily ignore,

to the child to create a no one to help the environment, do not reveal the heartache, pity or accommodation, and even more can not be bargained with him. When left unattended, the child himself will feel bored and give in. Afterward, the parents explain to the child simply and carefully why this can not be done, and say to him: "I believe you will be obedient in the future," and so on to encourage him.

(4) The method of motivation

Utilizing the child's winning mentality, to stimulate their self-confidence to overcome the capriciousness. For example, children are accustomed to not wiping their mouths after eating

every meal, and they also say capriciously, "I don't like to wipe." Parents can say: "Didn't you say you were like Snow White? I see Snow White is cleaner than you."

(5) appropriate punishment

For young children, only rely on positive education is not enough, appropriate punishment is also an extremely effective

education means. If the child capriciously does not eat breakfast, parents should neither scold nor threaten, just put all the food away after the meal. When the child is hungry, tell him that hunger is the result of not eating in the morning, the child will eat on time after tasting the taste of hunger.

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1, the right way to care for and love their children

It is understandable that parents love their children, but they should be cared for and loved with the aim of normal development of the child. Care for children should not be limited to material enjoyment, but to pay attention to the changes in the child's mentality, to educate the child with the correct concepts. Parents should create opportunities for their children to socialize more with their peers and improve their social skills so as to develop a good character. Parents should also allow their children to get in touch with the society, participate in labor, break the closed door of the family, let the child understand that things are not as simple as he thinks, so that he can learn to consider the problem from multiple perspectives.

2, the transfer method

When the child appeared to tantrum behavior, should use the surrounding environment, try to transfer the child's attention, let the child was attracted by some novelty, so that the child to give up the unreasonable requirements.

3. Grasp every opportunity to educate your child

Parents should always say to their children that a lot of people's desires are unattainable, and that there are times when we must learn to control our own desires. When the child gives up his unreasonable demands, parents should give praise and encouragement in time, so that his psyche produces a sense of pleasure, prompting him to produce more positive behavior.

4, reward and punishment correction

When the child stubbornly tantrums, parents should immediately point out his mistakes, and his attitude cold down, ignore him, until the child "soft" down, and then give him reason. Three-year-old baby how to educate and when the child has made progress, such as the same thing, the child in the past will be tantrums, and now no longer tantrums or tantrums mitigation, parents should give praise and encouragement in a timely manner, and hope that the child can stick to it. In the long run, the child's correct behavior will be consolidated, and the wrong behavior will be gradually eliminated.

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1, sports: is the first task in early education. Cultivate children's good living and hygiene habits and independent living ability, develop children's basic movements, such as walking, running, jumping, climbing, climbing and so on. To accomplish these tasks, only health care, care and nutrition is not enough, but also must carry out certain sports activities to master certain skills, so that children's bones, muscles and various organs to exercise, improve adaptability and various functions.

2, intellectual education: early intellectual education is important not to teach esoteric scientific knowledge, but to develop the child's intellect as the focus of the development of children's attention, observation, memory, thinking and imagination, as well as the ability to express themselves orally. Intellectual education in the pre-school period is to lay the foundation for future education, miss this period, later learning will be very difficult, or even impossible to compensate, such as oral language is.

3, moral education: refers to the children's character education. The formation of human character is analyzed by three factors, namely, awareness of character, emotion and behavior. Preschool children have a relatively low level of knowledge of things, many abstract truths can not be understood, only to understand the more direct, simple standards of right and wrong, and can cultivate some of the initial behavioral habits of dealing with people, such as politeness, kindness, honesty and so on.

4, aesthetic education: refers to the aesthetic education of children. There are many natural and social phenomena in life will make people feel beautiful, some forms of art is the content of these beautiful to be refined, sublimation of the results. Aesthetic education for children is to train them to consciously experience the beauty of life, and teach them the preliminary skills and techniques to express their own feelings of beauty, and even some creation.

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A, IQ:

1, early reading: every day with him to see a story, with the family's big dog Cowley or then go to buy some of the picture-based storybook. The story should be short and concise, and when telling the story, pay attention to adding some adjectives or idioms to enrich his language ability. Ask him to retell the story or make up a story by looking at the pictures. No matter what he makes up, encourage him to keep talking, and help him to make it up together at first.

2, role-playing games: play with him to see the doctor, guests, to go to the supermarket shopping, the police uncle to catch the bad guys and other games, make up their own game content, a little richer. You and your baby play a role, such as the doctor's game, a play doctor, a play patient. The game is a great way to get the most out of your life, and it's a great way to get the most out of your life," he said.

3, increase knowledge: you can see on the road through anything to increase his knowledge, such as the names of various plants and animals and buildings, the usefulness of various stores, as well as looking at the sky to give him some knowledge of astronomy.

4. In line with the kindergarten program, review the children's songs, Tang poems and English words that you have learned.

2. Emotional intelligence:

1. Cultivation of quality: Every day, take some time to chat with him and let him talk about his kindergarten life, and then instill some good morals. It can also be instilled by reading stories, and after a story is told, use simple words to summarize those good qualities embodied in the story. Repeat it over and over again to reinforce the impression.

2, love and compassionate development: use every opportunity to instill he must have love, know care for others, sympathy for the weak. This point you can see the baby home page of a growth diary "love cultivation". For example, when Xiaoguo asked me for clothes, I told him the story of the child who was only one year old and whose mother didn't want him to go away, so I told him the child's story and asked him to give Xiaoguo the bag of clothes. Usually when you see beggars on the road you can also tell him that they are poor and so on. You can also ask him to love animals and plants.

3, the cultivation of independence: let him do his own thing, provide opportunities for him to decide some things, such as wearing clothes to give him two pieces of clothing, let him choose his own favorite; go out to play can let him choose to play the place. Usually he wants to do things on his own, try not to refuse, if you want to refuse, you need to tell him why, and give him affirmation of this enthusiasm.

4, to appreciate the education of the main, more praise, more encouragement. Do not hit the child, that is the most hurtful to the child's mind. Do not speak foul language, pay attention to lead by example.

The family has a three-year-old baby friends can follow this article on these methods of education for their babies, as long as it is properly educated can make the baby become more excellent, the baby's potential is unlimited, mothers must not ignore the baby's education work oh.