Isn't it hard to be optimistic about sister-brother love?

Yes, it is true that sibling love is not favored now, mainly because of the following reasons:

1. Traditional concept

The traditional concept in China from ancient times to the present day is that "the man is big and the woman is small," as if this is a more reasonable pairing of male-female relationship and family composition. If a woman is older than a man, she will be questioned and opposed by her elders. The fact that a "sister" and a "brother" are in love is a rebellion against tradition, and will certainly be resisted by many traditional concepts.

2. Whether it is really love

Sometimes men and women are likely to treat their feelings as love at the beginning of their relationship. Women are older than men and generally have a maternal overflow complex. Women will naturally have a caring complex, and for men younger than themselves, it's possible that they may be treating their everyday concerns as love. Men, on the other hand, can also have a maternal complex and think that a woman who is older than them cares about them as if they love them. In such cases, sometimes both sides will take emotional concern for love, and both sides do sometimes find it difficult to distinguish clearly.

3. Life factors

Women are older, generally speaking, they have tended to calm down inside, she wants a stable marriage, a husband who can rely on and a comfortable home. As for men younger than themselves, they may have unstable careers and insufficient financial strength at this time. And as they get older, women can't keep waiting for a man to stabilize. At this time, the woman will consider the more realistic and cautious, perhaps the heart does love than their own small man, but in the face of reality, the woman may still choose to give up.

4. Psychological factors

Women generally mature faster than men. Even at the same age, women are more mature than men. And for a man's immaturity, a woman may accept it for a while, but if a man is always immature, a woman may slowly lose her patience psychologically, and will feel bitter and tired inside. And it takes time for men to mature. Getting along with the early days can be accepted, but over time, the naive and childish side of the little man will be exposed more and more, in the face of such immaturity, "brother", how much patience do women have to wait for it?