Why do people in China talk about the world?

Since ancient times, China has been a society facing the world.

Some people say that people are powerful, but some people will show it, and some people are very shrewd.

With the development of social economy today, "profit" can be money, status, beauty, power and talent ... as long as people compete for it, it can become "profit". These people who pursue "profit" are snobs. There is nothing wrong with being snobbish, and it does no harm to anyone.

But in real life, some people will decide their attitude because of other people's wealth and status-rich and powerful people will kiss up; People who have nothing are arrogant. Learning to socialize is an important knowledge, not to mention a technical job. No matter how smart, competent and well equipped they are, if they don't know how to handle things and get along with each other, the final result is usually failure.

No matter in government, workplace or ordinary life, as long as there are people around you, you can't escape interpersonal communication.

Having children, getting married, getting promoted and getting a raise, banquets, drinking and socializing are always indispensable in our ordinary life. Just like the usual Chinese New Year, relatives and friends visit each other, and old classmates have dinner in the company, so there are more places to meet, drink and socialize.

In addition, there are social gatherings, wine tables, card tables and leisure clubs everywhere. Friends, opponents and strangers are asking questions, saying cheeky things and being ready to socialize.

In daily business visits, overseas receptions, business banquets and trade negotiations, excellent operators usually get better promotion and get their own personal interests in good faith.

Whether it's official reception, meeting, level-by-level check, welcome and farewell reception, or continuous dining, if properly planned, relations at all levels will be harmonious and contact will be smoother. In front of the media, this is a matter of personal image and honor. We should be more strategic, polite and research.

People often say that IQ should not be too high and you can learn something; Don't be too strong, just do it well, but your interpersonal skills can't be too bad. People who can get along, their big difficulties will be solved; People who can't get along will have small problems to worry about.

China's interpersonal communication has unique cultural and artistic characteristics, and the key words are interpersonal relationship, eating, face and social circle. Everything in China is people-centered, and 80% of things are decided by the people. If you don't understand the style of China people, you will fall. The best thing for China people to do is to say and do everything after drinking.

China people love face, which represents personality and dignity. Sometimes face is even higher than everything else, so we should try our best to save face and improve it.

In China, work is based on the network, and social circle is a network. China people have been studying social circles all their lives, looking for social circles, creating social circles and skipping social circles. The Chinese way of getting along is profound and subtle, which is related to human nature, psychological state, culture and art, traditional significance, customs and habits, views and social precepts, and must be carefully scrutinized and constantly updated. It must be carefully scrutinized, accumulated and trained regularly.

As the saying goes, "If you eat a meal forever, you will know the gains and losses." In the matter of eating, two people became a game, and three people became rivers and lakes. A small dining table is a true portrayal of life.

A wise person will see other people's character in communication-being close to a gentleman will make his future development trend smoother and smoother; If you misread the treacherous villain, you will be framed and stumbled by the treacherous villain one day.

As the saying goes, "learn to communicate well, and you will not worry for the rest of your life." Communication between people is inevitable, even if you don't have to work for others to make money, even if you hate socializing, you must socialize.