Please! ! ! The composition "Suffering from loss is a blessing" is not limited to other styles other than poetry, and it is not less than 700 words.

Zheng Banqiao, known as one of the "Eight Eccentrics of Yangzhou" by the world, left two four-word famous sayings, one is "it's hard to be confused" and the other is "it's a blessing to suffer". For self-cultivation, the latter sentence is undoubtedly more worthy of being regarded as a creed. Mr. Banqiao's famous saying "A loss is a blessing" is familiar to many people. In fact, how many people are willing to lose, and how many people really think that losing is a blessing?

In fact, sometimes, I don't want to suffer. Once you have suffered some losses, you will feel wronged and even timid. You have to fight for that tone, especially when you are self-righteous. In fact, no one wants to suffer, but the cruel reality forces everyone to think and have an epiphany, so you can try to change yourself from "unwilling to suffer a little loss" to "can also suffer a little loss". As long as it is not a question of right or wrong, even if the truth is in hand, you can make some unprincipled concessions. Of course, you should be reasonable in doing things, but you should also pay attention to your own feelings. I will truly realize the true meaning of Mr. Banqiao's "a loss is a blessing".

I thought my dream would come true one day, but now I think it's just a dream. In fact, everyone has their own dreams, but MUBI's dreams are few. When I was a teenager, I felt that my life was as colorful as the scenery of the four seasons. I dance and have a good time. I don't care about my feelings and career. In a blink of an eye, it's time for me to think about my own affairs, but I feel confused, afraid and timid! The day when I first set foot on my job was so exciting and novel. After getting familiar with my own environment, I learned a little about being a man. But more often, I occasionally feel unprecedented pressure at work. In fact, when I saw the words "losing is a blessing", I thought about the meaning of these four words repeatedly. What is a loss? If we all think like this, wouldn't there be no criminals in this world? Don't you need a person to be plain and indisputable for a lifetime? I have always had a belief that you will always be yours, and you won't come if you don't take it, but I gradually found that this belief is getting more and more wrong. Because of this, I have no confidence, no smile, and more melancholy. You can talk about your depression with your friends, but what can you do if you talk about it? You have to face it alone. As the ancients said, you will never be satisfied by fighting for it. But by giving in, you can get more than you expected. In other words: a loss is a blessing!

I feel now: there is nothing to lose, you know your life, just like drinking water, you know yourself very well. Suffering is nothing more than doing some humility and making some sacrifices. Most of the losses are material and temporary. If we can accept it frankly and let nature take its course, then what do we get after the so-called "loss"? We get more understanding and respect from people, we cultivate our own generosity and generosity, and also cultivate our own sentiment. Isn't this an obvious "blessing"? I think we should see the bright side and broad side of things. There is a smiling Maitreya Buddha in Buddhism, who is called "a big belly can hold everything in the world;" Be kind and laugh often, and laugh at ridiculous people in the world. " Zheng Banqiao put it well: "Confusion is difficult" and "suffering is bliss". To be a man, you should learn to bear hardships.

In fact, the more unwilling people are, the more likely they are to suffer, not only to suffer, but also to suffer more and more. Only those who don't care about the loss will get real blessings. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "it is a blessing to suffer losses" and "correct mistakes when you know them". But it seems that many people don't really understand the truth, or just superficial knowledge, but the actual action is greatly reduced.

Losing money means giving up and sacrificing, but it is also a kind of mind, a kind of quality and a kind of demeanor. Besides, if a person gets money by hook or by crook, he loses his dignity while staying calm in the world. Greedy people always try their best to calculate others, and behind the disguise of enthusiasm, loyalty and concern, more are unscrupulous attacks and injuries to others. People who are not afraid of loss always think well of others. Behind their naivety, pedantry and weakness is an expanding, inclusive and undefended world. People who are not afraid of loss will feel the happiness of life with a peaceful and free mind.

There is no free advantage in the world, and those who love to take advantage will pay the price sooner or later. Some people take advantage of it, even if it is a small profit, they are jealous and determined to win. Every time such people take advantage of one point, they lose one point of personality; Every profit, you lose your dignity. There will be no free food under the sun. In a sense, being willing to suffer losses is a realm, a self-discipline and generosity, and a sublimation of personality. In terms of material benefits, it is generous rather than haggle over every ounce. In the face of fame, not superior to others but superior to others. In interpersonal communication, it is not xenophobia but respect and flattery to others. Being proud of losing is bound to win people's respect and praise.

Anyone who has done something has matured and grown up in constant loss, and thus has become smarter and wiser. Once a loser, he will be sad and unhappy, and even beat his chest. The injured person can only be himself. It is useless to take any secret recipe of the imperial court for this kind of injury. The specific prescription for diagnosis and treatment is only four words: suffering is a blessing.