Children don't want to get married until they find someone. How should parents persuade their children?

1. Tell children the benefits of early marriage.

Interest is an attractive thing. If a person is not interested in something and doesn't want it, it must be because it is not good for him, or he doesn't feel any benefit. Therefore, if you want your child to find a partner to get married early, you must start from this aspect.

For example, you tell your children what is the advantage of finding someone to marry early. You can seize the opportunity, find the best object and make others envy you. Or get married early, and the children born will be healthier and smarter. As long as these can make children feel good, then children will find objects earlier.

2. Tell your children the disadvantages of not finding someone to marry early.

The advantages are mentioned above, and it is attractive. Then tell the children the disadvantages of not finding someone to marry early. Because disadvantages can form thrust. This way, one sucks in front and the other pushes behind, which can make a person have more powerful motivation. So, you can tell your children some shortcomings.

For example, if you don't find someone earlier, it will be even harder to find the right one when all the marriageable people of the same age are married. In that case, you can only make do with people you don't like.

3. Don't be too eager

As parents, don't rush to find someone or arrange a blind date for your child every time he goes home or makes a phone call. As children, we are disgusted and disgusted with such things. We always feel that we are old and nobody wants us, and you are in a hurry to sell them.

After all, marriage is an important event in one's life. In order to cope with you, children may find someone they don't love to complete the task. Their children will definitely not be happy in another family after that. Is this what you want to see? Just let nature take its course. There is no shame that they can't get married in the old society now.

Marriage is definitely about finding a heart-to-heart person, but it is hard to find such a person in this world, so give your children more time, during which you can relax. The love that belongs to your children will come at last.