Boyfriend is stubborn and conservative, how to enlighten him?

If you are stubborn, you really need to learn to enlighten those who do ideological work. Today we will list several methods to see which one is more suitable.

First, don't be too tough.

When we enlighten those stubborn and conservative people, we must not be too tough. If we are too tough, it will cause each other's disgust, even each other's anger. So when we enlighten each other, we must know how to be tactful, don't hurt each other's self-esteem, and don't directly tell each other's shortcomings. Because in life, no matter who doesn't like others to say that they are wrong or even their own shortcomings, they should know how to be tactful and not too aggressive.

Second, avoid this misunderstanding.

When we enlighten him, we try to avoid this misunderstanding. For example, you don't mean that he can't do something, but you just hope that he can change and make greater progress. So when we enlighten him, we should try to avoid this misunderstanding, otherwise it may make you two quarrel or turn you two into opposites, which is not good.

Third, set a step for the other party in advance.

Sometimes we all need to save face for ourselves, and even hope that the other party can give us a step down. For example, our thoughts are too conservative and stubborn to take risks and work hard. Then I hope you can give him a step down and say that he is actually only cautious and conservative to achieve steady development. Don't always say that the other person is stubborn. If you blindly say that the other person is stubborn, then the other person may have rebellious psychology, so give the other person a step down.

Finally, be sincere to the other party, because when people get along with each other, especially when you want to enlighten others, if you are not sincere to the other party, then the other party may think that you are selfish, you want to use him, or even just want to hit a person when he is down, so you must be sincere to the other party.