I'm gay and I want to come out, but my mom and dad are from a rural area and I don't know what to do?

First of all, I would like to emphasize that sexual orientation is a part of personal privacy and no one has the right or obligation to explore another person's sexual orientation. Therefore, if you want to talk openly with your parents about your feelings, then you need to respect their feelings and privacy.

If you're worried that you're not communicating well enough with your parents, you could try talking to your siblings or friends about your feelings first. They may be able to give you some advice or help, or offer you support and understanding.

Most importantly, if you decide to talk openly with your parents about your feelings, you need to respect their feelings and privacy. Don't try to force them to accept your point of view, or blame or criticize them. Having an open, respectful and honest conversation with your parents is key to building understanding and support.