Why do parents choose to "separate" from rural children after marriage?

In fact, if you are a brother, basically parents will not choose to share with their children, but you should know that rural families are generally two sons. Why do parents want to share with their children quickly after they get married is because they are afraid that their children will marry and ask them for money. In the end, the youngest one was not married yet, and all the money in his hand was spent by the boss.

My hometown is rural, and my husband's family is also rural, but fortunately they only have him and his sister, so we have never been separated from our in-laws since we got married. We have been living together and our in-laws have been helping us. I think this life is still very good.

But I have a brother and a younger brother in my own family. My brother is nine years older than my brother, so my brother was still very young when he got married. At that time, I remember the house my parents bought for my brother, who decorated it with his own money. After they got married, my dad dragged their food and other things into the house and then let them set fire to themselves. This is actually a kind of separation.

They can still come to my parents' house for dinner, but in a sense, they are basically separated. My parents basically don't need them to spend money, but my parents don't take any money for anything.

Because of having a little son, parents had to break up with the boss. If they stay with the boss all the time, the money will be confused, and it may be unfair to the younger son in the end, so they still share it.