Return to the door feast strategy

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Return to the door banquet strategy

A, back to the door process:

1, back to the door banquet is essential to a link:Thanksgiving thank you. So the newcomer must be a good draft in advance, who they want to thank, thank you how to write, so as to avoid the time and then poor words.

2, the new speech. Generally speaking, back to the door banquet will have a groom speech link, in front of the bride's parents elders to show the heart, so that they can rest assured that the baby girl to you.

3, toast. Chinese table culture, many times are reflected in the toast. Back to the family feast such a big event, naturally, there is no shortage of toasts, those who say not to say gratitude, are melted in the wine glass. However, the amount of the toast should be combined with the amount of their own alcohol to.

Two, back to the door time:

Traditional Chinese customs, there are "three dynasties back to the door," said. That is, after marriage three, six, seven, nine, ten days or a full month can return to the door. "Nowadays, the time for returning to the door is usually on the third day after the wedding. In addition, back to the door on the day of the time is also pay attention to, generally back to the door on the day, 9:00 -10:00 a.m. set off to the woman's maiden home which is back to the door on the day of the auspicious time, this time period to return to the mother's home is more auspicious, and some local customs: is the need to take the newcomers both sides of the birth of the eight characters to see back to the door to return to the door auspicious back to the door time.

Three, back to the door taboo:

1, back to the door on the day can not wear a wedding dress! As the saying goes, good women do not wear wedding clothes, wedding dress can only be worn once.

2, back to the door clothing need to avoid black and white, gray and blue these colors, after all, does not look festive.

3, back to the door gift must not be singular, singular unlucky.

4, back to the door is best not to stay overnight, before the sun goes down to leave, stay overnight, then not in the same room.

5, back to the door must be the bride and groom together, avoid a person back to the door.

6, back to the door of the road must be the same as when welcoming the bride, the so-called three days do not walk two roads, walk different roads means that the two sides will be separated from the wife.

7, back to the door of the gift in the newcomer should leave some piggyback back, otherwise it will be said that the mother's family "poor gas".

8, back to the bride during the bride do not brush pots and pans, will be the bride's family wealth brush away. Ceremony at the wedding banquet * back to the door on the door of the banquet to exchange tokens, cups of wine, worship.

Four back to the door of the banquet to invite which people:

Back to the door of the banquet invited guests, most of them are the family and friends of the mother's family, the general situation, it is because of the wedding banquet is far away from the place, relatives and friends are not convenient to the scene. There is another, is because the number of wedding banquet is relatively large, some of them were not able to invite to the wedding banquet site, it is in the return of the door, and then invited to participate in. However, no matter which situation, such a return banquet, the scale will not be small or too big. After all, the number of people is limited if they are relatives.

Fifth, back to the door dress:

Married three days back to the door, the groom should also be accompanied by his wife's maiden home, back to the door of the clothing is also a certain amount of attention! Back to the door clothing needs to be the groom side to the bride side to buy, to show respect for the female side. Note: the bride shall not wear a wedding dress, you can try Chinese cheongsam, pick the color more festive dress, cheongsam.

If it is a small family dinner, choose the daily can also wear a small dress can be, the groom can wear a more formal suit or shirt, if the return banquet to do a big scene of the banquet, it is best to wear a solemn some of the long dress or cheongsam.

Six, back to the gift:

Back to the door is sure to bring a gift, can not return empty-handed, generally send more cigarettes and alcohol, the public and not easy to make mistakes. If the bride and groom is a foreign wedding, then the local specialty is also a good choice. Health care products, supplements, massagers and other practical gifts can also be higher, but must remember, back to the door of the gift is an even number, implying that married life in pairs, happy and full.

Seven, back to the door speech template:

1, the bride speech.

Respected guests, elders, dear friends:Hello, thank you for your busy schedule to attend my return banquet. For us to send sincere blessings, I express a warm welcome and heartfelt thanks, here, I want to say to my parents: "become your daughter I feel a million honors, today I would like to seriously say a word of thanks to you thank you thank you for so many years of my upbringing and teaching, you worked hard, in the coming days, we will use double the love to return you.

I would also like to thank each of my friends and family who are here today, many of whom are elders who have witnessed my growth, and have given me a lot of help and care on my way to growth". Today there are a lot of friends and family for my wedding specially come from all directions to thank you very much, I wish you good health, all the best.

2, the groom speech.

Guests, friends and relatives:Hello, first of all, thank you for coming to my wedding in your busy schedule. XX and I have formed a happy little family, and I have joined a big family. In the future, XX's relatives will be my relatives, and XX's friends will be my friends. I would like to take this opportunity to express my gratitude to all grandparents, grandparents, uncles, aunts, aunts, brothers and sisters, brothers and sisters.

I would also like to thank my in-laws for their careful nurturing, because of you, I have a beautiful, kind, gentle and considerate wife now. Over the years, we have spent a lot of good time together from knowing each other, knowing each other, and loving each other again. In the future, I will love her well and grow old with her, and I will not let down the trust that the two old men have placed in me, nor will I let down the blessings and expectations that you all have placed in us. Finally, I wish you all a prosperous and happy life! I wish you all the best, thank you.