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Live in the moment and cater to yourself

Hurry a life, a few times to look back. How many memories, how many tears.

Would love to know, are you tired?

The reason why people are tired is that they live in other people's eyes all their lives. The past all kinds of things, is nothing more than the sinner tired. Catering to others, get nothing more than the recognition of others. No matter how much you do, no one recognized, you will not be disappointed? In fact, there is no direct connection between other people's eyes and our lives. In this world we rely on ourselves and not others, unfortunately many people do not understand this, I do not understand, and even can not do. Other people's opinions do matter. Because we can't be stubborn enough to be a maverick, to be the truest version of ourselves, nothing more powerful than gossip. The human heart is often not strong enough, easily infected by the outside world, sensitive to be afraid. Sensitive a gust of wind can cause ripples in our hearts, embarrassing emotions at the touch of a button, unmanageable.

People live a life, a short life, to do a lot, to think of a lot, time as gold, ask us but also to waste valuable time on unnecessary people? Catering to others, make a mistake, rather than seem boring. We really don't need to put ourselves in that kind of situation, no one can be elated, no one to redeem. Jokes, become a laughing stock of others after dinner, want to say: why bother? So unbearable, is not sad.

Looking back to the past, is a person in the case of dissatisfaction with the reality of the choice to indulge in the past in the good, but only in a ridiculous escape from reality. That's not scientific. To live in the present, to try to adapt to the current life, to solve the current dilemma, is the right path for any person with intelligence to choose. Catering to yourself, not focusing on the words and psychology of others, to truly feel your inner needs, to fulfill them by all positive means, is the most important task. To care for yourself, love yourself from quantitative to qualitative changes, do a full understanding of their own people.

What is the value of a human being? This is located in their own put themselves in what kind of market, want to get must rely on their own efforts, go to be a person to cater to their own, after all, their own happy is what they care about. Live in the moment, cater to yourself ----------- to be the most true self, selfish or not, boring or not. As long as it is their own is happiness