What is the best way to educate a mischievous and disobedient child?

Your question is very good! In the current social environment, our children can easily get infected with bad habits, such as pampering, rebellious, disobedient, dishonest, addicted to the Internet, inattentive in class and so on, especially in the adolescent stage of the child's situation is more serious! Although there are many ways to educate children, some people take the tiger mother and wolf father type of education, said what "win at the starting line", human life is actually a marathon long-distance running process, have ever thought, even if you win the starting line, how far you can run, how long to insist on, who laughs at the end is still unknown, and thus individual examples of the so-called tiger mother education is not worthy of widespread promotion and imitation, such education is not worth the widespread promotion and imitation, such education is not the most serious problem. It is worthwhile to widely promote and imitate, such education will cause permanent, indelible psychological shadow to the vast majority of children, unbearable childhood is so formed! If the consequences are serious, the future will also be back to the elderly parents and grandchildren of that generation, so such violent education harms a lot of people ah! On the contrary, it is more important to cultivate a healthy personality and optimism in children. If you want to educate your child from the root and cultivate good interests and habits in learning and life, we suggest that you quickly let your child enjoy the Disciple's Rules!

The Sage's Teachings: First filial piety, fraternal duty, second respect and trust, love all, but be kind, if you have spare strength, then you can learn the language, if you are filial, if you enter, if your parents call you, if you respond, if you are ordered by your parents, if you are not lazy, if you are taught by your parents, you must respectfully listen to them, and if you are scolded by your parents, you must be obedient to them, if you keep warm in winter, you will be warm in summer, and if you are large-sized...... (Reading this book more often will surely enhance your child's sense of responsibility and inspire your child's wisdom). See, this is really a "great filial piety scripture" and the best tutor! How well written it is! It's catchy, easy to read, easy to teach, and there are lots of video story teaching materials on the Internet, with multiple versions for all stages of children. As a parent, as long as you are willing to encourage your child to watch with you (this is very important, you like to watch can drive his interest in watching together, the child is naturally curious, easy to be influenced by others), you can make your child like her, if you can try to do in real life, try to implement the teachings inside, why worry about can't educate the child well?

At the same time, your question involves the majority of parents and teachers are very concerned about and eager to solve the ideological and moral character of children and young people, behavior and language and academic performance of the family education, the parents of the correct educational guidance in the child's healthy growth in the education process plays a decisive role. Therefore, in the ordinary daily life of the family, we sincerely recommend that parents and children watch the documentary series "Sage Education Changing Destiny" (also known as "Disciple's Rules Instruction Manual"), a large-scale public welfare forum on the education of excellent traditional Chinese culture planned and supervised by Mr. Chen Dahui, which is a very favorable free online resource on moral education and family education, and can help children improve healthy growth and learning progress, and help children realize the truth of life in an atmosphere of happiness and thanksgiving. Children to improve the healthy growth of learning progress, recognize the disaster accident occurs, can do good luck to avoid bad luck, the truth is not false! It is a cure for all kinds of problems in children! Among them there must be the answer you need, but also we do parents and elders to learn a powerful textbook, is indeed a rare classic program of family education! There are many wonderful examples in this program, discussing all kinds of ways to solve the problem of children's education, it is really one of the best, one-on-one tutor for us and our children, and it is also a very good home education network resources, and it is completely free, which is of great help to improve the children's academic performance. Life, children and even adults are prone to lack of perseverance, stingy, rebellious disobedience, Internet addiction, early love, strong dependence, lack of concentration and other problems, these are not from a simple method or measure can be fundamentally corrected from the education, into a filial obedience to the child, but we need to comprehensive and systematic family education, from the root of the start in order to treat the symptoms and cure the root cause. In this movie, there are many experts, teachers, and parents who have their own personal experience to report to the public, revealing that parents' education concepts will directly affect their children's home education, so it is recommended that parents and their children watch it together, and the home education they receive at an early age will affect their children's lives, and they will be able to get unexpected results from it!

There is a classic cautionary tale in the movie: people can be taught well! Good people are taught and bad people are taught! This shows the importance of home education!

But the reality of the current situation we are facing is that there is a serious lack of social integrity! All kinds of media exaggerated rendering, misdirection, the environment of the child's growth is constantly being damaged and tainted, to do a good job of family education how easy it is! Parents are becoming more and more difficult to be parents, to be honest, many parents do not know how to be a parent, the child was born into this world, a lot of responsibility for education are shifted to the school and society, but parents are the child's first teacher, a lot of developmental experience needs to be taught by parents, shirking the responsibility of how to educate the child well? It's a sad day indeed!

We are often unable to understand our parents' feelings and true experience, and we only want our own convenience and enjoyment, honestly, it's really a little bit of treason ah! We can only truly understand this feeling when we are parents, but it is often too late for us to repent...

Many of the so-called generation gaps that exist in our lives are due to the disjointed education of the generations, which is not well connected, and nowadays too many people are too eager for quick success and profit, and only care about their own enjoyment without paying attention to the feelings of others.

We must know that all education should start from the root, just like a tree has to have roots to grow trunks and branches and leaves to flourish ah, if we discard the fundamental education of virtue, the other is just a castle in the air. Here, we recommend that you have a friend, whether you have seen or have not seen it, please try to take more time to watch the large-scale traditional Chinese culture and education of the excellent forum program: "Sage Education Changing Destiny" (you can search for the playback in Baidu video or Youku Tudou), I hope to have watched the people are able to get from the real benefits, and continue to benefit others, let us join hands to work together to * * * with the creation of a harmonious * * * society. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

I hope that my answer to your help and enlightenment.

We wish you all the best!