What do you think of "many people find that they don't need friends at all after retirement"?

Many people find out after retirement that their old friends are no longer friends, just because they are retired!

Many so-called friends are bound by interests. Once the rope is loosened, friends will go with the wind!

A true friend can share joys and sorrows. It's not that we don't need friends, but we need real friends.

A hedge between keeps friendship green. After retirement, he will feel at ease, live a quiet and peaceful life, have many friends, take things as they are, spend less time socializing, and have less worries, so that his children and grandchildren can be happy and provide for the elderly.

I didn't find it until I retired, but I found it when I went to work. Not everyone can be friends, nor can they play well by friends. People who don't get along will only consume themselves, waste time and accomplish nothing in the end.

Maybe I was the only daughter of my grandparents' family since I was a child. At the age of thirteen, he was sent to other places, and at the age of fifteen, he was sent to fend for himself. I am basically entertaining myself, and I am also a maverick when I grow up. Later, after the exam, I was assigned a job, and I also like to go it alone.

A person playing all kinds of games, watching too many things. I don't think there is enough time!

In a strange city, I will wander the streets and pay attention to all kinds of strange things: scenery, architecture, national costumes, snacks, handicrafts, customs and folk songs. ...

I also taught myself some skills: playing harmonica, electronic organ, erhu, guzheng, listening to songs, singing and dancing, cutting and sewing, DIY by hand, painting oil, decorating murals, drawing cartoons, hooking clothes, knitting, good work skills: playing PS, AI, Sai, PPT, printing, scanning, copying ... I have to pay attention to cooking.

To tell the truth, I haven't found a friend who can really share the same interests. Just find one or two friends to play with! Therefore, when playing with a group of people, I often feel that the content is very boring, but according to my own personality, I try to accommodate others, so I feel that interpersonal relationships have become my own burden.

I am not an idle person. My education, professional title and salary are high among my colleagues in the unit. I got two undergraduate degrees and four practicing certificates. Work is also a revolutionary brick that needs to be moved.

I can feel that the workplace doesn't like people like me: nothing is impossible, I am independent, I follow my own path, I have principles, and I don't explain. Refuse to compromise and follow the crowd, and do not flatter inflammatory trends.

So I often become the center of jealousy discussion. Many people seem to want to find my shortcomings, find out what I am not good at, and then say it. For example, "if I were as capable as you, I wouldn't be squatting here!" " "I don't think this unit will turn without you!" "I think XXX is doing better than you!" Of course, I replied rudely: "I am the same as you, so I am here!" " ""I think the earth could go faster without you! " "I said I can do anything? "

Of course, most people admire and admire me and call me "X talent" behind my back. Leaders also know my ability, and no one will "take care of" me when I have difficulties. But for me, I just like exploring and solving problems can satisfy my curiosity. No one else is sure. I know.

I know what my state is: I don't like noisy environment. When you are alone with familiar people, you will talk big, and your tongue will not be very bright in public. Usually handy work, when someone is watching, you will be at a loss

So, for me, being alone makes me feel relaxed. Too much interpersonal communication makes me feel bored, tired and tired.

A few years after retirement, I also found a good job. The complicated interpersonal relationship in the workplace gives me the feeling of reliving nightmares. Later, I quit my job without hesitation and returned to my independent time. Later, I declined the boss's repeated invitation. To tell the truth, the boss thinks I did a good job, and I also think I have the ability.

But the reason why I can't say it is: I just don't like dealing with people. I just like to do what I like quietly and independently.

In my opinion, only without self, interest and strong heart, environmentally dependent people can't get along without friends.

Loneliness and independence are not a concept. Loneliness is passively alienated by the group, and independence is self-initiative to stay away from noise and noise.

Loneliness is not necessarily Alzheimer's disease. Now information is everywhere, and communication channels are everywhere. As long as you don't stop learning, exploring and thinking, you are not an isolated existence. On the contrary, if you mess around, you will find that you have lost a lot of precious time, which has affected your quiet appreciation of the world and careful discovery of the beauty around you in your lifetime.

This question is very meaningful and targeted, and tells the feelings of retired people.

The old saying has long been that you stand at thirty, don't be confused at forty, know your destiny at fifty, be sweet at sixty, be rare at seventy, and live at eighty, which is in line with the life characteristics of all ages.

Among them, the meaning is profound and there are not many words. A few words can clarify the habits of people of different ages.

After retirement, most of the comrades-in-arms, friends and close friends who had a good relationship before will gradually move away, and some even have no contact at all.

After retirement, people have begun to understand their position and role in social life, and there will be no more opportunities for on-the-job work and study. This is the beginning of a person's career, working and stopping working.

After retirement, people tend to focus on their families and no longer pay attention to their appearance, clothes and other living conditions.

After retirement, from consciously feeling retirement to actual retirement, some people react and some people don't. This is a process in which a person begins to adapt to retirement.

Retirement, no need for friends. Retired friends are old and new friends such as street, neighborhood, community and classmates. , and the friends of the original work unit are gradually drifting away.

Friends are divided into three grades.

Business contacts are called business friends. Retirement is graduation, and graduation is friendship. This kind of friend, even if you need him after retirement, he has no time to talk to you. Because you are not on the white list of interests.

Friends sound bad, but they are good at heart. Kind of like stinky tofu. Whenever you shout, you are always there, always a friend. At least they can see the word.

Retired and don't need friends? I don't even have a listener who tells the truth, so I can only have bad reviews in my life. If nothing else, invite the old people and women in our village for a walk! In case something happens, there are always friends on the phone. People are social animals, and having friends is better than having no friends!

In fact, retirement is equivalent to quitting a life circle and entering a new one. Friends who used to work will have less contact and communication in the future, and when they get together again, they will have less communication and words, and gradually there will be a distance. Personally, before retirement, if you have the conditions, you must accompany some hobbies, and after retirement, you should actively find and integrate into new social circles, so as to successfully overcome the discomfort in the early retirement. In addition, after retirement, you can also engage in some work within your power. If the economy permits, there is no need to continue to work to supplement the family. You should also learn to communicate with young people by participating in some social welfare activities to prevent your aging from being exposed to new ideas and new things after retirement.

I need friends more after retirement.

1. Nothing to do after retirement. After retirement, unlike at work, I go to work on time every day. I have things and tasks. At first glance, I don't know what to do, and I don't adapt. Leading cadres, in particular, are crowded when they go to work, and they are alone after retirement, and their sense of loss is doubled. Most people have nothing to do after retirement and have a lot of free time. Some people have no hobbies, no companionship, emptiness and loneliness, and are prone to depression. At this time, you need to have friends to accompany you, to talk to you, to have friends' fun, to have friends' expectations, to have friends' lives and to have friends' satisfaction, so that your life can be enriched.

Second, it is easy to become an empty nester after retirement. At present, most children do not live with their parents. After retirement, the old couple lived alone. When they go to work, their colleagues at work can also know something. When they are not at work, no one knows. At this time, it is even more necessary to have friends to take care of each other. Retirement life is lonely and boring, and friends are needed to have fun together to add fun to life.

Therefore, we need friends more after retirement.

Friends who need benefits, once one party retires, the relationship will naturally be broken.

Like-minded friends have nothing to do with retirement, but are still friends.

A hedge between keeps friendship green. Many contacts are not necessarily friends, but a rare encounter is a lifelong friend.

I am a friend of interest when I am working, a friend of leisure after retirement, and the friendship when I was young can be maintained to be a true friend. True friends are those who don't make friends for the benefit, but fewer and fewer.

Life after retirement is an abandoned thing for people who are still in their posts. With the change of time, the original hypocritical smile and cordial greetings have disappeared in the long river of time. Better people can stop to say good night or say hello to your health when they see you, but most people are as fresh and natural as seeing the air! Look up at the air naturally. It's not that others do this to you, but that I saw my retired colleagues do the same before I retired. There is nothing to say and nothing to ask. I wish I could laugh. I said that this is actually a part of life and must be treated with a normal heart. There is nothing to blame. The so-called affection and friendship are all based on communication. In this case, after retirement, communication is gone, is it possible to have an unbreakable friendship? Let's look at it according to the laws of nature!

After retiring, I danced with my friends, organized a trip to a farmhouse, and participated in competitions. My classmates began to play mahjong and drink tea. Time flies, so I like to compete with my wife. I didn't say much, and I didn't say a word well. Sometimes I really don't care about him.

It's not that you don't need friends, and there were many real friends before. The so-called friends you don't need at all are not friends at all, but passers-by who meet actively or passively at some stage of life. The company or parting of these people has nothing to do with retirement, and it happens all the time. Now that he has reached retirement age, his energy and physical strength are not as good as before. Coupled with the change of living environment, he can only say that he has less contact with real friends, but his friendship remains the same.

The word "friend" should not be used badly. Only when they have the same language, communicate frequently, get along well and understand each other can they be called friends. Live well after retirement. As long as you feel happy, it doesn't matter whether you have friends or not.

People live all their lives, and only when they are retired can they understand. I understand that everything is just a cloud except their health and family. What a pity! When I was young, I didn't understand anyone!